Etherial Cat

Cry me a river for happening to be at fertility peak and fucking other people your own age.

I made it once. Early investing in Bitcoin (2013) which turned I turned into a million and a half dollar fortune at its peak. To make a long story short, I lived from it for a few years and lost it almost all on another crypto project I used to work for.

Status and leadership are of course attractive. Who isn't attracted to ressource and value? The ego is designed for accumulating survival goods to fulfill its agenda. I'm not above such things. But I can tell you that status comes behind high consciousness in my priority list. Those who "made it" like you through a conscious business and are sustaining a conscious lifestyle are a marginal 0.1%. High consciousness guys were I come from are a rare good already, so imagine how rare are conscious guys with high status! You know well that that a lot of people who've got status and leadership are devilish or born into it, if not the two. In fact, that's the huge majority of it. And am I attracted to this, especially? Hell no!! The first case is repulsive, and the second is nothing intrinsic to someone's worth on the survival market. This is why I get annoyed when I'm told that status is so important. Yes, status as a derivative for success is attractive as hell, but not all type of status and wealth are sign of having found a good man! Plenty of high status men are trash! I was born and raised in a city where there are plenty of millionaires and billionaires around. Me and my girlfriends dated guys whose family owned private jets. Heirs to fortune and even celebrities, or even elite sport players. And I've met a lot of men with comfortable status earned through being successful in their careers. But among those, some are psychos. Some are having huge family complex ruining their relationship with life. Some are just not that interesting. Some are work alcoholics. Some are totally emotionally unavailable. Some are just not compatible, etc ... And my experience with it is that a lot of the regular high status men are fucked up and extremely difficult to be in a relationship with. To put up with it, you need to really love status and money and be rather low consciousness yourself. And not minding selling your integrity for that "compensation". So far, retrospectively, none of those high status guys I've met were a good match for me. I would have been miserable with them and the only reason why I'd have picked them instead of others is for the cash. Which would be a way to fully commodify my life.

It is pretty much a prevalent masculine fantasy to think that a woman is supposed to be submissive. Submission can't make a healthy relationship... Because by structure it requires asking of this person to relinquish on its own will, needs and dreams, in order to comply to someone else's leadership and aspiration. And what happens is that the person who is submitting is repressing its individuality and live a miserable life. Depression, resentment, anger, envy and all other type of mental disease ensure. And the submissive person will eventually need to reclaim its sovereignty to heal itself. It is not correct to assume that females do want to be submissive. I personally dont and find worrisome that so many men believe still that submission is what femininity is about, if anything. It makes me cringe a bit. As Emerald said, femininity is about receptivity and surrender, which both are qualities that are derived by acceptance and choice. Which doesn't equate it to being submissive at all . By definition, the power of receptivity and surrender are a big deal because it knows what it wants and what is doesn't want. And submission, on the other hand, is stealing that power from the feminine by choosing on its behalf. But I don't mind following a man's leadership and let him take control of what he wishes for as long as his vision goes in the same direction as mine and it doesn't contradict my authenticity and my boundaries. In fact, I'm super happy if he can make this happen while I care and take leadership for the other stuff that I want. Regarding marriage in the west vs in other part of the world... From my experience, stage Blue marriage are absolutely horrible and potentially terribly dysfunctional. I have a very good friend who is Morrocan and hermother is a psychological train wreck (as well as all the other female relative she ever mentioned) because of the level of abnegation she had to go through. Today's societies are still terribly wired towards the masculine principle and it is the reason why so many women are struggling with taking leadership or making a living. In the future, if we manage to cross a point where the feminine is as valued, it is probable that females will truly manage to thrive and enjoy taking ownership for their project without turning as dry as we feel right now in -lets say - a competitive, corporate environnement.

I think it's likely that he's burying himself to work so he doesn't have to deal with his "ghosts". His consciousness is likely aching and he must have a history of repression to cope. It must be very soul tormenting to walk away from this job and the normalization it offers in terms of perspective to what is a very disturbing underlying reality. Is there anything he could do to improve the numbers and diminish the accidents? Or just walk away to a job were he could slowly rekindle with his authenticity? Something with more meaning? It ain't worth much to have material success if deeply within you are feeling miserable.

It would be likely that he's working himself to death to avoid intimacy with himself first and foremost. That's a typical symptom of people living in very competitive and affluant areas of the world who kinda have to sell themself to their hierarchy or business in order to get the compensation they wish. Is he an entrepreneur or does he work a high responsibility job in finance, trading or something similar ?

I know you're a bit torn about the idea of making political videos, but the world would very much benefits from analysis as such, especially put into the context of the rest of the content one can find on your channel. As per that post especially, I'd love to rebound on so many aspects, but I'm all groggy and feverish from my 2nd Pfizer shot. But i'll just say that: it seems obvious that the current power structures are held by toxic masculinity. Philosophically, politically, economically.... Which is why the structure is such in need for leaders able to federate the troops through narrative building and by exemple. I think you've nailed it when you said that men are afraid of being culled by falling at the bottom of the masculine hierarchy. And if not literally culled, the bottom of a toxic masculine structure is literally an experience so traumatic it's worth fighting away like a cat afraid of the water. Men are competing against each other not to have this experience. Maybe men are searching for safety from the brutality of toxic masculinity itself. And reaching the top is their definition of safety and the only way to taste hedonism. In this context, having sex with multiple women, eating barbecued meat, having the approval of other men, etc are token of reassurance on top of having elements of pleasure. Seen like that, it seems clear that the best way to kick the misaligned social structure where it hurts is by teaching men and female on how to reintegrate their femininity. Maybe managing to implement classes of loving kindness meditation in school and diffusing feminine "self help" tools could be more subversive and dangerous to the society we live in that any political leader ever was.

@Emerald Super interesting article. Thanks for sharing this with the forum. It's a perspective that would benefit alike men and women when it comes to understanding "Incelhood". ??? Daaaaaamn . I had a clear sight of how Incels and male activist in general were using females as scapegoat instead of patriarchy itself and the top male rulers ruining their life... But this analysis is much more holistic. So thanks here too for those insights! I can't help thinking of that crave millennial and Gen-Z have for figure as such as Elon Musk (which is by the way a perfect case of an elitist, fertile female hoarding "super reproducer" as well) or Jordan Peterson that are literally revered by them while being in fact so toxic to their well-being. Do you have any idea of what is the root cause (on a psychological level) for this Stockholm syndrome regular men have for masculine elites? It seems to go also hand in hand with this pattern of guys searching desperately the approval of other men. Is this some sort of father complex? A desire for guidance, mentoring? A desire for being approved as enough by the so conditional masculine tribe love?

@Preety_India I understand how powerless you must feel. I feel sorry for you. Is there any chance you could emigrate to a country where you could make a living wage on your own? Your problem is obviously that you are stuck in a situation where you are dependent of people enmeshing you.

In other words, he says he's going through states of awareness that are so profound that no one can have intellectual intimacy with him anymore. The feeling of loneliness is due to that. I think this issue is quite common for spiritual teachers.

Women who are attracted to material wealth and fame solely, and not in the man behind are setting up themselves for an unfulfilled life. And that is because what female really wants is intimacy and you often don't get that if your principal concern is the dude's money or fame. Often what they really are attracted to is the money and the fame and the man becomes the proxy. I would recommend you to beware of chasing women who are making of wealth and status their primary selection criteria. They are making a foolish choices and will eventually get burned. So it would be unwise for you to aspire to such a woman. Like this, you're dodging the bullet. But of course, if there is real attraction and the money and fame is not what is driving her like a moth towards the guy, it is a really fortunate situation. If the fame was the reason why she got into him it could be.

Yes. A lot of women are fond of social status because it gives the appearance of value. And it comes with nice perks. Nice houses, nice car, maybe even private planes and exclusive social circles. But you can have men of high social status that are poor partner material and low value despite their status, and men of lower social status that are great partner material and of high value. Unfortunately, status and value aren't correlated. What women are attracted ultimately is a man's value. In general women ≤ Orange value a lot status.

Si la vie était simple, on grandirait pas. Courage! Tu as tout ce qu'il faut pour t'en sortir.

Heard Leo say in the past that his ex was constantly threatening suicide as a way to get compassion. He might be reacting that way because of this.

If it helps, I didn't feel it at all. I was waiting for the doctor to sting me and he told me it was already done. He said that after administrating 25 000 vaccines in the last few months , he's reached mastery in the craft.

Ouch. Sorry to hear that Farnaby. You didn't get lucky with this one. I also got my 1st shot of the Pfizer vaccine recently.... it was exactly 7 days ago. I got a sore arm for 2 days, and very very mild headache few hours after the shot. No fever. But my nose has been running slightly since then and my throat is a tad painful. Seems like my tonsils are a bit inflated. Also I've got a bit of a wet cough. So perhaps you'll have also these extra symptoms popping up. One must say- this Covid virus is a strange one. The variety of potential effect is astonishing. Thanks for the info! I'm now totally unexcited about that second dose. And shitting my pants like Fanarby. Hahaha

Tchooo! Petit commentaire pour te laisser savoir que je suis admirative de ce que tu écris dans ton journal. J'aurais tellement aimée être aussi mature et aware à ton age. Tu as de la chance!

Well, just tell us then, because I'm curious and I find what you say a tad mysterious.

@eaaaeaeae Lemme guess. You're french !

Intimacy is the ability to see in another person. You'll have often individual referring to it as "into me see" to define it. Unless there is intimacy, you are not being present with another person but projecting on them. In that context, is a very shallow knowledge of someone where the person is a mere object in your experience, instead of being a portal to your own Self. Intimacy can occur on many level. Intellectual, emotional, spiritual to name a few. What you get as a result of it is a feeling to inhabit the same dimension and understand one another. In this space, there is unity. A connection of the highest quality. There is... Love . It is being able to see beyond ego, the Self. In all vulnerability and acceptance. It allows for heart chakra based characteristics to emerge and enter a place of true generosity, nurturing and care for one another. Emerald put it so beautifully when she said intimacy is particularly important for women in the context of a romantic relationship because of the heart opening feelings. In my case, this heart opening feeling is the doorway to my most intense feelings for merger, unity. Which is also what makes me want to have sex.

Yes. Putting the emphasis on the survival game in relationship is a big mistake. It also hurts men in the long run, who end up seeing everything through this lense... and miss out on the most important, which is love.

I would say that time is what appears as creation unfolding itself, from the vantage point of eternity. And this would be why the moment is always "now" while forms are dancing around.

No we don't. Enjoy making yourself unattractive and dangerous.

@Parththakkar12 I'm not interested in addressing your points any further. Sorry. Best wishes of growth, though,

She was screaming at him after he did "something evil" from his own words. The reason why you and Starstruck are not getting laid has nothing to do with women. So far, I understand totally that a woman would want nothing to do with men acting this way and holding such toxic views on top of nurturing a large amount of resentment towards female. Misogynist make poor partners. You are just being low value acting this way. And Starstruck has proven himself to be dangerous and losing totally his control in front of a contrariety. This is piss poor quality behavior. This girl would have been better off not having crossed her path with him. That is the hard truth that you need to let sink in. Now, if Starstruck and you want to redeem yourself and work on rising your value, it starts with healing yourself from the feminine wound you have and taking responsibility for your feelings and resentment. Starstruck had already started looking on that last week before he give in to his spite. I think this case is a great example for why it is important to encourage a multi approach coming from men doing PUA and work on developing both their relationships skills and their inner wounds. Obviously, it is the latest that has been and still is sabotaging Starstruck efforts.