Galyna

Let’s put it this way, we are all here one big contribution ?.

What helps me to awaken from the illusion that there is the other: First, a simple intellectual realization that there is no other, then of course, all the issues are gone in a second, in my mind. But here is the trick, you can not get there intellectually. This process will gradually unfold for you. However, samsara sucks me back in and I forget. Remember this phrase and it might help you on your awakening path: Till you see the opinion of another human being as separate opinion, you will always have an issue in life. It is going to be difficult all the time. Once you treat that opinion as feedback from Being, a Higher Self for Itself, you will ascend. Just pretend (fake it till you make it) for a while that Being conversing with Itself for the purpose of knowledge and expansion, and your body is a vessel with sensory load, in the present moment, that allows the conversation to happen. If you treat every event in your life with this attitude, it will bring you a peace of mind.

@Galyna @Asayake @Michael569 @LSD-Rumi thanks for your wonderful advises. I do appreciate your time and energy.

@Moksha I can not agree more. Thank you so much that we have such a wonderful community of people here. I am so lucky to be here on this platform.

Welcome to the spiritual path. There are no boundaries, that inner persona is You. But no that "you" as you think of your ego. Everything is you, there is no separation. You are the whole entire room and body is a part of it. Hear me out, you are the whole entire field of perception. You play with Youself.... as a Reality. There is no self, even though the illusion persist. People do not trigger you. Reality (which is you) triggers itself for the purpose of ascension. There is no free will, just surrender and let it go, whatever game ego needs to play, it will, with regards how many promises you give to yourself. You are not in control; obstacles will control you and you will be triggered you. The best way is just to let go and observe and forgive yourself everything, because you are not in control and there is no you in the first place. Treat it as a field to become a better version of yourself, like a game, even there is no control, remember this too. It is so easy when people love and agree with you. But the more growth happens when you are triggered and in pain. No growth happens in Love. Reality will shit test you every minute. You cannot run from yourself. So... let's say you think: " I am so over it and I grew out of it." Guess what, reality will put you in situation to see how your attitude will align with your feelings. I can tell you all day about how awaken I am, but I can fall apart immediately when seeing challenge. When you have awakening and really love the other as you, you won't be triggered even if they spit in your face. You will welcome the challenge and move on.

Definitely, please share as much as you can.

I actually want it more than anything now. I am here and there but it is not permanent... Nice poem, have you written it?

Wow, this is so inspiring and interesting. I am a bit jelly but happy for you as well. thanks.

It is very interesting for you to mention it. Today I was driving back home from work, and I was actually thinking about what you are saying for suffering, pondering if I should start a new thread on forum. Every single moment of this ego's suffering was designed to lead this ego, Galyna, to awakening. Otherwise, she would never awake. I know why I have never had something I have been wishing from all my heart. Because Absolute uses my desire as a carrot to show me the path to the Self. Then I have realized that it is a tool, unfulfilled desires are great tools toward self-realization. And now, think about it: absolutely all your dreams will come true, except one thing! There won't be you there anymore to enjoy them. Do you want your dreams to come true? Just move toward awakening, LOL

Thanks ? ♥️

@YogiCosmos @Proserpina @Carl-Richard @Edvardas @Holykael @Breakingthewall @Razard86 Thank you so much guys for stopping by and sharing with me your valuable thoughts. I do appreciate your participation and time. I do not have that much time to reply to each individual today. But I read everything and took into consideration your ideas and thoughts. Have an awesome and magical day. Here is a song for you to dance. Madonna - Like A Prayer (Official Video) - Bing video

@Razard86 Because it is larger than Life. And requires enormous effort to go where it hurts the most. Nobody is willing to die slowly cutting his body parts. Men are way weaker in the field of emotions; they are super apprehensive of emotional pain. Therefore, heart attacks and strokes. Historically, women managed to survive in an extreme condition better than men. Men are fragile mentally, not physically, of course, due to hormones and various functions they have to perform, and their purpose on Earth. But yeah, you know it, I am done with preaching.

I agree, you suppress the emotional part of you. Emotions imply pain as well. But no matter how hard you try, human beings are everything but rational. We are living creatures, we are emotional from head to toes, even though masculine is a bit further away from feminine on the spectrum.

@Proserpina thank you for being my Inspiration today. I am sorry if we have misunderstood each other.

I am not trying to be confrontational; we are here to help each other grow. I have just read the whole entire thread again since you mentioned it. First of all, I have noticed your predisposition to point people what they have been missing, you did this twice in this thread, please read above. Second of all, it was not my intention to recognize who had surrendered. We were talking about the author of this thread. I wrote my interpretation of how I see his post. I do not deny any of your experience. Notice I haven’t said anything about you “lacking awakeness” (as you call it). Notice how your ego constructed the situation, assigned meaning, and propelled based on all this assumption. I do not even know you. I do not assess nor blame you. I am just here for a pleasant experience. We do not need to talk to each other arrogantly. Right?

1. It is impossible to develop universal qualities that will fit every user on this forum. 2. You will get rid of some judgements to only recognize that in a brand new situation you will have another judgements to work on, LOL. 3. Every person on this forum will have their own vision about your opinions and writing style. 4. Criticism is an egoic game, of course. 5. The other will perceive your point of view according to the situation and their mental state at a particular point of time. They will be perceiving you differently all the time, however they might NOT recognize it. 6. Allow others to play their roles/games through you. 7. Allow people to stay asleep, because sometimes their sleep is sacral as your awakening. This way one day they might or might not hear you out. 8. Love and compassion. When you truly love the other, you allow them to express as is. When they are relaxed, they are open to new ideas and actually, they are ready for expansion.

And who/what interprets that energy? What gives meaning and quality to it? Let’s be honest. Maybe your mind? What’s wrong with sitting here and playing submissive? I would encourage you to explore it. Does submission trigger you? Why? We can dive deeper to help you seeing something your mind is hiding. You have to understand that everything is a projection of your mind. And there is a reason for it: external objective reality doesn’t exist. There is only You. So whatever projection your mind chooses for today, it will be there. I don’t have to decide anything, my dear! I am your pure imagination. Wakey wakey, eggs and bakery…♥️?????

Masculine struggles with self-love way more than feminine, just because men are closed to develop the sensual part of their essence, they are a bit further away from feelings. I think guys on the forum are good. I have not noticed them being arrogant, they are just guys who thinks they can outsmart each other. Normal battling between males. Now… this is NOT what he was trying to say in this thread. I didn’t pick this vibe that he encouraged feminine to seek therapy. He would never advise this, because therapy implies ego story development. Also, he is NOT triggered. Remember what you see in me is not mine but yours. Mine is what I see in you!

@Razard86 so what if there is no other and mind loves this game? you don’t accept this part of yourself that enjoys “the other”, do you? So every time you go on a journey into illusion, you need to beat yourself with a stick! How cruel. But remember it is all your creation, why being pissy about it. Maybe we should allow balance.

Infinite doesn’t know any boundaries. Sounds like synchronicity too.

Yup Might order this one as well.

Buy a simple face mask to cover your eyes. I am doing a concentration technique with candle now. Face mask helps a lot when mind is tired of staring at the objects, and wants to retreat* in peace, internally.

Oh me, I got so many replies. Yahoo! Will get back soon, don’t change the channel. ? ❤️

I’ve just realized it…”I” dies TODAY, always! Don’t let your mind fool you. You “will”die today! Even though, my reader, you don’t even exist. Oh boy…I will also be dying alone. The most scariest part of the Existence, for the ego, of course. Death is not going to be in the always escaping future. It is going to happen today. Contemplate it. How much time do you have left to mess around? To spend time on truly unnecessary things? I feel like I don’t have time before I go forever… in this body at least. I want self - realization. And the funny thing is something I want from all my heart, which is death. “I” can’t want it. Therefore , I don’t think I want realization. But as a butterfly I am still going into this direction, to be eaten by a candle light. As consciousness I will just get back home, as ego… no compromise. I love my ego, I don’t want to die…