Galyna

@Natasha Oh I've read about it before, we need to post Chinese here

@zeroISinfinity Yeah, that is how we make friends, right? You can always talk to me, I am not an expert, but I love talking about relations : man and woman. Actually my male friends do not like to talk about it as such, males are hard...but being anonymous makes it easier I guess. I have to run now but I will address your message tomorrow. Well, actually my spouse and I was not sure about having a child, even in marriage, but than we had a six year crisis and it saved our relations. Now I can not imagine my life without my son. Never thought about kids seriously, never was that woman.....but always knew if I have mine I would love it more than my life. One step at a time, my friend, do not go that far....okay we gonna talk about this tomorrow. Just relax. Do not take this life so serious, with kids/without kids....we never know where we might end up!

If we are completely honest with our partners, we can NOT guarantee that relationship is going to last forever. You can’t promise it, like truly. You don’t even know who you are going to be in five years, how can you promise for the rest of Life? Be honest with her. Sounds harsh and cruel but eventually every relationship is going to end, it is cyclical. With regards of how you take it. So sad but a stark truth. I guess it is impossible to stay in passionate relationship with one person for the rest of your life. Lots of time we are staying in such unions because of obligations.

Well I guess you love her with regards, i am sure you can manage these little things? maybe you can help her to be more conscious, is she on topic about non duality?

@zeroISinfinity oh man, this is unnecessary drama, life is to short for a game like this. You both could die tomorrow and never see each other again. Be aware that it is an implicit manipulation. So sensitive of what? Of a darn food that you didn’t like. Nah, that’s childish. Sensitive is when you have some traumatic event and don’t want to talk about it. But if you are sensitive about facts , pure fact, good luck! What if life throws something serious, then how is she going to handle this?

Aw, you are so welcome ?

@Amit I understand, especially how strict it is in your culture with divorce. ? well you are only 27, having all time on Earth ?

I feel ya, to make that decision is hard for a man. what is it that you are afraid of, if you dont mind me asking you ofc...what is it to be so scared of marriage? this is not funny, this is manipulation. Offended by what? Truth?

your country US or your country India? sorry I still didnt get it.

Guys, I gotta go...talk to you soon. Love ya. Hugs and kisses to everyone.

@Amit I thought Pretty India was from there, says on her profile...

@DrewNows Your depth is fathomless, lol...I love it!

@Amit exactly, selective perception as they call it. @Preety_India You guys please tell us more stories about your culture, would be nice to hear and educate myself, I love it. I have never visited India but I want to.

@Preety_India Aw, you are so sweet. So tell us how is the situation with Covid with you guys? How cool I have two people from India in this tread.....I wonder how far you are from each other?

@zeroISinfinity In Ukraine we have the same issue, you start a business and mafia can take it away from you if you do not pay them money. We have so much corruption there. I know what you are saying.

@Amit Amit, take this thread as a play ground, nothing serious, read and throw in the "trash bin" .We are just having fun. Everything is not set in stone, more like for a talking purpose to mingle and connect with others. I have astrologist, numerologist, taro reader....you name it. You think I trust everything they say about me and my future. Ofc not, but to see the generic picture would not hurt, to orient my career and set some goals.

I bet if we worked on the same ship, they would remember me, people either hate or love me, but never forget. @DrewNows ofc, I am not an expert, this is my only path, my own opinion. Please do not trust anything I say, it is from my POV But still Drew, there is this generic pattern, generic issues all Russians complain about when come to the states. I've heard thousand of these stories. People are different but mentality is one

@zeroISinfinity .

@DrewNows I know, everyone tells me this, that by the age of 25 I have been in so many countries and cities that average person wont be able to visit during his all life.

@zeroISinfinity I think up North people are more genuine, here on South, they are biting the bushes. Not straight forward at all. As loud as you are in your home country, here you would be rude without manners. they perceive friendships differently from us. Not in a bad way, i would say without obligations. Like when two of my best friend started to live in the States my spouse and I gave them some support. ( thank God he used to our mentality) One lived with us for 3 month, another borrowed one of our cars for almost a year. But I am so happy because those girls are my family. If something happen they are there for me. I can count on them completely. But also when my spouse and I came to NY we stayed for free like a week with one American family before we found an apartment for rent. People are so different here. The only problem is that we do not have the same background and it is harder for me to connect with them Also I think this culture is more naive. Russians and Ukrainians always very suspicious, right? Americans I would say more open and friendly, they trust more easily than us. They do not look for hidden stuff like we do. For me to trust you, oh boy....friendships is built through years, right? Here is more quick but not so serious.

@DrewNows yeah...I know, but the cool part was that I had a chance to travel a lot before I settled into marriage, you can call me a world traveler. LOL working on a cruise when you are young is so cool and interesting, plus it helped me to learn other people mentalities. We had so many nationalities on board. We carried like 4000 people of just crew members

@Amit @Preety_India @DrewNows @zeroISinfinity I am so glad you are enjoying it, dear ( @Preety_India ) I will tell you this guys: I love meeting all kinds of people. I think connecting with people on some level is cool, it is very important to me, but you can not connect with everybody I guess. I love having my place full of people, having dinners and talk about something meaningful with my friends. I can not imagine my life without mingling with others. I am good at gathering people. Should be a cheer leader, LOL

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@Preety_India oh nice! two Pisces.

I liked how you said it , very masculine approach, way to go!