Galyna

@zeroISinfinity ask her to make it for you...it is super easy. if you want I will provide you with step by step recipe. It can last for about five days in the fridge. All you need to do to put it in the microwave for 2 min and make it hot after you come back from work.

Nope, it is not a tomato soup, it is traditional Ukrainian borscht. I make a bouillon first (either chicken or beef) than I add cabbage, potato, white beans. In a separate skillet I would caramelize onion till it is golden, then I would add carrot (shredded), beat (shredded) and tomato paste, when it is ready I will mix it all with my other ingredients in a big pan. Finish up with spices and adding 4 cloves garlic, a little bit of lemon choice and two table spoons of vinegar. Salt and pepper of course. It is served hot with garlic bread and sour cream.

@zeroISinfinity @Preety_India @DrewNows @Amit @Natasha I am making a borscht today (Ukrainian beat soup) kinda like Italian minestrone

Hey Amit, thanks for asking... ? guys, I am good , a bit busy... will get back to you soon hugs ❤️

@zeroISinfinity I have to think about it, I do not cook American meals....We need to ask Drew or Natasha. I really do not know.

Do not let that thought ruin your life. You might not have a personality disorder, it might be a protection and excuse that ego would grab and use to justify itself and its actions.

I think it is our parents. My mother is a very proud one. When we argue might not call me out of principle for couple months, will wait till I call her first. Never apologized even once, even when was wrong. I do not think all those methods of raising kids comes from strong ego, in all honesty we were raised by people that were "teenagers" themselves.

Poor fellow , here it would be considered very harsh ?? but there is it perfectly fine. Mom talks to me like this all my life. She never allowed me to feel pity about my self, always should be a warrior. ???

@zeroISinfinity I miss farmers markets a lot....thank god my friend from Ukraine grows her own tomatoes and cucumbers. I also miss this squash , Pattison we call it

@zeroISinfinity of course, golubtsi ( голубцы) Do you know that instead of cabbage leaf you can use a grape leaf and stuff your meat in there?

@zeroISinfinity I am not really a fan of BBQ. I do not like sweet sauce that comes with it. Who told you I eat in McDonalds, lol? or you just meant in general? If in general those places you have mentioned are quite pricey, you need to sit down and eat, that is why lots of people prefer other ways of getting food since it is cheap and fast.... I am going to do that recipe that you have sent me. I have bought our Russian cottage cheese in the Russian store. I am looking forward to it, I might post a pic here....

@zeroISinfinity hahahaha, first you would visit your best man, than take a road trip to meet us in TN, then drive to New Orleans to see @DrewNows, then to FL where @Natasha is... You have so many friends in America, the whole family..... So start to packing your suitcase....

@Natasha yeah, I love Tennessee more than any other states. @Amit not sure if you wanted to post something, Amit?

@Natasha that would be cool, not sure if I have a lot of time off from work....but we shall see. OR maybe you will want to visit Nashville.

Guys, you realize that some people here are like at their 17- 20, young immature boys who just came out of their parent's nest. @Natasha @mandyjw do you expect those users/ have any valid experience or know about what true woman is and how she tastes? Let them believe in the fairy tale? why would even argue with those kids? Why an adult mature man would judge woman by her hair color? Do you understand how closed-minded, naive and childish it is? Just f...cking hair color?

@zeroISinfinity You realize that it is just a forum and not a real life? You can not have a good estimate and see the clear picture by just what people write and present here. They can write anything they want to and be absolutely biased about it. Sometimes, they believe in what they are saying....most of the time they do! I know that you wish him all the best, but I would leave it, really. There is only much you can do. Come to my thread and lets talk about something else, leave him and Nahm alone. @Raptorsin7 I would apologize in front of Nahm, I really think you should talk to him privately about it. Emotion will be gone and you will regret about it in the future.

After this comment, I love you even more.....

Why do you think Sweden used to have high rates of suicides? Precisely because of this issues. Us, there living in the survival mode, we do not have time to be depressed, they (not everybody ofc), here, are given almost everything in the world since their life begins. Why do you think so many people here sit on the meds for depression and have some types of mental issues, precisely because of this issue. Their survival needs are taken care of. I know some of my American friends would disagree with me, but it is true. Only the fact that you was born in the US gives you the privilege. Well, if the person is depressed or unhappy, why not talking to someone? I really do not know the person, I do not read all the comments. I have no idea, how can I say? I saw your comment and his comment about Nahm, I stopped by to share my opinion, because I love Nahm as much as you do. ___________________________ Your approach is very masculine, I get that, kinda Spartan. I was raised by this approach. It works perfect for me, but for some people it does not work. Not everybody has this personality of fighter. When I moved here in US, I ,personally, knew some people who came from very wealthy families and wanted to commit a suicide, this is serious. By "waving" with weapons and yelling is not going to change anything, You realize that when you're telling something to someone it is just your perspective, your opinion, it is not their reality, they might not understand what you say at all. They might not have the same level of understanding. This is obvious for us because we were raised differently. But to understand truly the level of someone's depression you have to be in their shoes completely, have their experience, have their parents, life...etc, you have to be them. I am not advocating for anyone here. Love you too. Do not worry I can understand your yelling and rage with this whole situation. I do not take it personally. But please be careful as some people on this forum might not. Trust me I've learned that lesson. As Peter Ralston say " culture is your operating system" or he calls it "clay". Your whole paradigm and web of belief is build to serve this agenda. It is hard to break free.

@Raptorsin7 it is just a matter of perspective ? I am sure one day you will get back to Nahm. People like this are super rear and is super hard to find. ?

@Preety_India you are super lovely and sweet. Hugs. ????

Actually when man is in love and taken cared properly: nice food, good sex and his favorite games with friends??. He would want to impress you and would try his best to provide for you. guys are pretty simple to maintain ?? they just hate drama ?

Of course not, especially when you are young, you can achieve so many things together. It's fun... I would rather start my life with a poor kind man than with a rich jerk. When I met my spouse, he was an ordinary guy, but I saw his potential and started to inspire him. I am his muse. He grew so much with me. He is not the same person I met before... You are in the same boat of life, his success is your success and vice versa. I think us women should inspire men! Preferably sexually and emotionally. We should give them this energy to go and conquer the world. Then you become a true woman and he becomes a true man. The problem starts when he does not want to conquer the world for me....that would be a red flag. But if the person have goals, motivations, desires, what else you need? Building a life together when young is a great thing.

@Raptorsin7 Take care of the "roots" first. Maybe you will come back to him in couple of years and now you just need a regular psychologist who would talk with you about pretty simple things. Maybe you were just not ready for the advanced work.