Galyna

So you're spoiled by women's attention, hah? See, that was a big huge red flag for me before I met my spouse. I love when the guy who is humble. You would not believe, but my spouse is a very handsome man, but he is very-very humble, he is not womenizer and never been, guess upbringing and my mother-in-law did a wonderful job about it. I also understand that in ten years he might want a new sexy body or something like that, but he has a respect for women for sure. He is not a dog! Marriage should be a quite harbor where you can both relax and trust each other, not be scared to put some extra pounds when pregnant because he will not get horny any more. Believe me, Ukrainian men are so spoiled, I had enough of it. You literally better be going to the gym right after birth.... My culture is very judgmental about the looks, thanks God in America people are more relaxed about it. I am not talking about being an ugly cow, eat a lot, put weight and forget about high heels, of course not! but thanks to American women who trained their men to respect femininity! At least people here do not scan your body like they did there.

@zeroISinfinity This is hard for me to grasp, if you really like her, like truly in bed and in other aspects of life, and you are telling me that you're constantly falling in love with her, then what would it change to have more and more random vaginas in your life? Will it make you happier if!!! you even considering such opportunity? The more vaginas you have, the happier you will be? Do you have any issues with self-esteem? What were you trying to accomplish by being a womanizer? There is some hidden complex here for sure. I just can not understand the nature of it. Sorry, I do not want to sound rude, I guess I become a little bit emotional about that, when it comes to womanizers. I guess I understand about your desire for sex with other women, I guess you can potentially cheat on your partner, nobody is insured from that, but chasing so many skirts constantly, why? Please explain. p.s. Taurus and/or Capricorns for sure....for the rest of my life, lol

what was not honest about it, please tell me? In my opinion there is no need for tests, it is either your woman/man or not. It is important to stay authentic and communicate. Tests are silly, it is a game. No game should be involve in love. Love means being vulnerable; Gosh I hate water signs because they really manipulate, and they do it for they lack confidence. My mom does the same thing, hiding behind her pride and dignity, sometimes likes to put on show. She is Scorpio, I told you. A little humor now: my dad is Sagittarius, been married three times, so nothing to worry about marriage, it is not forever thing either, LMAO, ofc I am joking, but it is true per statistics. Currently,his wife is Aquarius, he loves her to pieces, so that is a security for sure. I know quite a few people of your sign with multiple marriages, it is not uncommon for them.

@zeroISinfinity I remember when I was on the cruise ship, I had a best friend from Serbia, he name was Ivanna. What a nice memory. I remember one day our ship docked in Dover, England, and we were visiting the castle with her together. I think I still have a picture of her in my fb profile.

I have different opinion, when you love someone, aren't you suppose to shower them with little things? I always did and do for my spouse all the time, when I go to Europe, or travel here in US, or even go shopping, I always buy some yummy things for him or something he really needs. He loves herbal tea and 86% dark chocolate, so I always buy small things for him and he is so happy. I think she tries to take care of you, do not look for a hidden meaning, for woman it is natural I guess.

Is it hard to get married for girls there? I remember when I was seventeen and lived in another city due to my university, I was taught how to cook by my best friend (male) He cooked and I was washing the dishes. He loved to cook. Honestly speaking, I am not a housewife, I do not like to cook, but I have to now. Sure, we will make a kebab party for you when you come, you shall love my friends, they're all Slavic. Do not worry you will blend in.

LOL, you drop into details..... How do our Ukrainian women do it for the rest of their lives? Carry big plastic bags from the supermarket in two hands with no help, no cars, just public transport: shuttle buses or subway, my dear. You would not surprise me with this, it is not America where you have your own car. My grandmother does it every day, she is eighty!!!! no one helps her, she carries her groceries from the store on her own. Pretty common thing for people in Eastern Europe. I remember those times my self. It is not just a heroic action, pretty usual thing. What surprises me still is how our veterans made through WWWII? How could the girl in the age of ten carry a weapon and shoot the nazi soldier, protecting her little siblings, this is surprising, my dear... Not sure what you mean here....sorry... Yeah, I used to spend the whole month when was a kid in July with my grandmother in Russian village. Everything was organic, berries, eggs, milk, mushrooms in the forest, herbal tea, fishing and kayaking on the river. Miss Russian village so much. I thought I would fly to Moscow this fall to see my dad, but it is not going to happen in the nearest future, this is so sad.

Surprising to hear when comparing our cultures. Why? What was shocking that lady actually bought something for you? Just wonder... I agree something super rear to find. We have the same dreams. I wish I would have more people like that in my reality, not only online.

@zeroISinfinity Mine does not really care about house that much, I mean what curtains to put or sofa to buy. He game it to me completely. As he does not have have any clue about design and fashion. Not a good cook either. Thinks I am a good cook since does not know what a really good cook is, poor thing All he cares about to have his macbook to study coding, his table and his own space (in his room where he works) and a piano too. He is a musician. Wait till you see all her cosmetics in your bathroom. Just let me know how it feels. We have separate bathrooms, I do not even allow mine to step in my bath, do not want to see his hairs in my sink, lol and do not allow him to be in my closet ( he has his own) I think his closet is more organized that mine. Thankfully, mine is pretty tidy, never puts his socks in the middle of the room, washing his own clothes, I never wash his clothes. I agree with you, air is great for us. My first love was Gemini, we could talk non-stop, were best friends and still in touch. Imo, Libra is a bit boring for me, but still they are interesting. Aquarius would be my top number among the most intriguing, interesting and intelligent people. Have a lot of friends in this sun sign, never had any lovers (I mean boyfriends in the past) among them, so can not really say if they would work for me.

@Preety_India thank you, my dear! Hugs

@Preety_India here we go, the picture of me, do you think you can give me a website and I can order it from there? I can not find a good henna anywhere, so I stopped using it, now my hair color more like a golden nut color, not red anymore as it used to be couple of years ago.

Nice thread my dear, you know what I truly want? I wish I can order a real henna. I used to die my hair with henna, I will show you now.

@DrewNows @DrewNows my spouse, and I am a crazy Aries

@zeroISinfinity I am bringing you here, some people will complain about us again. @GalynaTaurus is extremly jelous is it. Oh boyo good luck with that. Also can only imagine arguing btw Aries and Taurus. Fireworks.Beware folks. ? 4 horns pointed at each other. Oh boyo. Now I am greatful for my pisces. Doesn't have horns. Easy arguing bit neurotic but nothing compared to signs with horns. Oh boyo but Scorpios those are crazy ones. No points topic is education. Zodiac is part of it. ____________________________ Mine is a weird Taurus, for sure. Not very jealous. Very patient with me. Very calm, very slow, very polite. My mother-in-law says that no man on Earth would tolerate my temper but her son. He is extremely patient. BUT!!!!!! if I push all his buttons, he can be very aggressive, to a point that sometimes loses control. But only with me because I am a crazy redhead that can provoke the most quiet human being on Earth. (twice a year, for sure, we have a fight where we divorce each other on a regular basis) but no more than that . Did I tell you about the vector ring couples, that's us. Love and hate relations for sure.... According to the horoscope, it is a vector that forms where one is a master and another is a servant. It is on the level of energies. Not from God for sure. We have experienced it couple of times in our marriage. But we have a fight like this only once a year. Usually do not argue seriously.

So true! 100% my dear!

Look at this statement closely, find what is hidden there.... I wanted to help you with the advice. I have no idea about your life situation. We were just rambling about life there, in Eastern Europe, I did not say a word about you being immature. It had nothing to do with you. At the end, it is your conscious choice what to be, right? You can be anything you want with regards of what other people think. I was just suggesting some variants about studying abroad that may refresh you from your daily routine and could help you to find more inspiration. Of course not! It is not going to make you happy. But it might inspire you to build the life that you want. life is incredible and it is all up to us to believe it or not. Life is going to be exactly as you perceive it. That is true for sure, 100%!

It depends on a family of course, but yes, pretty much how it works there: they support you when you start; you support them when they are old.

But it wasnt his choice either. Imagine us be born in the USA and travelling to the Eastern Europe, do you think you would be different? I doubt it. Culture has a great imprint on your personality.

I believe you 100%, looking at my American family (in-laws and everybody) I know it. You guys just can not imagine and actually it is not your fault.

@ZeroInfinity @allislove I think living in the poor countries is a good school of life. If you manage to survive there, you can survive anywhere. So guys, be proud for your mental fortitude and experience you got! It is going to be with you for the rest of your life. When you come to live in the countries like USA or anywhere in Europe, their problems to us seems like a kindergarten, I do not want to sound rude but it is so true.

@zeroISinfinity @Raptorsin7 I remember that feeling back in 2006 when I first came to the USA as an exchange student (I worked in Oregon and than lived in Las Vegas for one month) I was amazed that with 200$ you could buy so many clothes. I remember myself returning back from TJ Maxx and Marshalls. Oh boy!!! Absolute money freedom , dining in the good restaurants, buying all those brands....LOL

@Raptorsin7 @zeroISinfinity Well, my mother came from a very wealthy family. At that particular time my mom's dad was working in navy, and in USSR it was very prestige, his salary was in dollars (while everybody received in rubles) and on top of that he traveled the world, while regular person from USSR did not have such opportunity, they were not allowed to go abroad. So he managed to save so much money that by the time I would graduate high school I could study in other the most prestigious universities of our country, have a car and buy some apartment. But that was not the case. When USSR fell apart, my grandfather came to the bank and the person told him that all his savings from his entire life have disappeared due to the bankruptcy of the bank. We thought he would really have a heart attack. Imagine for a minute you would have in saving around 200K come to the bank and find out that there is no bank anymore, and you have zero. That how the USSR ripped off the entire nation. So many people were left with nothing over ONE night.... It was a very hard time, mafia took off, we had so many rackets (crimes). To buy a loaf of bread or something you would have to stand in the line for quite a while. Oh man, thanks to God we had dollars due to my grandfather profession. Other people were absolutely drowning in poverty. In Ukraine you can not just buy everything you want. You have to plan for every single thing. So @zeroISinfinity is right. What could be the best remedy for you right now is to take care of yourself and become really independent. I left my parent's home when I was sixteen and went to live in another city to pursue my first bachelors. It was the best five years of my life. I do not know your situation, I do not read everything here, I do not have time. Have you taken the life purpose course? Maybe start with this one. Too bad you can not travel now, it inspires me a lot too. Have you considered the chance to go and study in Europe?

@Raptorsin7 @zeroISinfinity guys, I can tell you our story when USSR fell apart, do you want?

@Preety_India You've changed your avatar picture, I love it....

@zeroISinfinity I want to do your dish that you have sent me, I can not find a normal zucchini here, lol, went to Asian store yesterday, but they were so small, did not get those. I also want to bake this mini cheese cakes, do you guys make it there in Serbia? It is from cottage cheese and flower, if you are on diet, you do not have to add any sure and actually can bake them in the stove, instead of frying them on the skillet.