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@Natasha LMAO....

@Natasha that’s a good way to start my day, ????❤️ hugs.

@Natasha ????

@DrewNows So... I watched the video, honestly I do not even know who I am anymore I do not have any patience whatsoever, it is so true. Like not even 1%, want everything right here and right now, if it is not available, the interest is lost. Aggressive, yeah, if you push my buttons, can absolutely lose my mind. But it is rear.... My numerologist told me that actually in relations I am not a boss, at work yes, but at home I was not created for that. Somehow my bd which is on 27th should represent some feminine features and my mission in life to inspire my man. So he told me to forget about Aries and all the crap connected to Mars.

@zeroISinfinity You are welcome, love you too! I will be your marriage counselor, hahahahah! Well, joking, ofc it will be Nahm, he is the Pinnacle, so I would not even think to take his place! He is the best of the best. So grateful we have him in our lives.

No need to be hurt, I mean do not take argument seriously. I still love you too, my little online friend! All is good. See, I am not like this either. It is childish. It is hard to explain. I guess Osho explained it in a very beautiful way of how it should be between man and woman. I am not a boss and never will be! Respecting and loving myself and being a boss is different. I would absolutely compromise with my spouse. He is alive being and not my trained dog. What I mean is that if I am not happy in relations, I would not cling to it. When man loves me I will worship him completely. But if he is a selfish and ego-centric, it is not going to work out with me. But if he is weak and does everything I want, it is not going to work either! I, from all my heart, want Leo to make a video about mature relationship. It is not about my power vs. your power. I see ideal relations as a synergy. Where my man opens the best parts in me and I open the best parts in him. It is more like a partnership. Nobody proves anything to anybody. Like I am cooler than you, look how other men look at me. This is so silly. Actually this is so simple. I think ideal relations is when you feel comfortable with her to that point where you and her can absolutely be vulnerable with each other, can say what you want or how you feel without being intimidated that she might not understand what you mean. When you can cry in front of her and not being scared that it might look like weakness to her. I think it is a total free self-expression, natural expression of your being. When you truly meet your person, you let your guard down completely, to a point where it is very scary to lose yourself in another being. But it is huge, because this way you become mirrors for each other and with time the relations become so strong that you feel so connected on all the levels and become ONE! It is actually a very mystical experience. You become closer to God this way. This is so pretty, you grow a lot and the most interesting part of this relations is that you did not even know that you were capable of doing some things you are doing now with that person!

Here is what I think about the relations: there is no need for argument, I promise. You can talk it out, no need to prove anything. No need to be intimidated. If I disagree with you, I will stand for my position, why would I be scared to show you my opinion..... I do not think I am more mature than any other lady on this forum. I just love myself to a point where I am not going to be in a detrimental relation just because I am scared to be lonely. I do not like loneliness but not losing myself and dissolve in man completely where I do not remember my own name, or he becomes my whole reality. This is not healthy. Together but free probably is the most appealing for me, I am not talking "free" to sleep around or be swingers, I am just saying to do what we like and never be scared to say: " Hey, I need my space and time to be alone, I am tired!" I had a bf in the past, he was so clingy, like he wanted even to go to the gym together, do everything together. This is crazy! I love my freedom.

@Preety_India I love you too, my Dear! I do not take you seriously, my dear, so no worries. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ But if I meet a man like this, lets say ten years ago, oh man....it would not work out, for sure. I mean it. I would slam the door. Your looks, properties and money are not going to save you, sweet pea! I do not like to mention anything about my looks, how can I access my looks? Not a queen, not a model, normal, average, but for some magical reason it was not a problem for me to find a man. Never! In my relations the door is always open. You want to leave, please, nobody is going to chase you. I will help you to pack your suitcase and remain your good friend. I hope I'll always exercise and eat well, so finding a man is never a problem for me, just in case if I am single again. So even, lets hypothetically say, if I meet a guy like you, he knows that I love myself enough to not be his slave.

@zeroISinfinity See, that is why I say with some people it is so easy, with others you need to take some effort. I remember when I was like twenty I met a very handsome guy, Scorpio. Of course, as with other scorpions we had an instant crush and passion, oh Lord he was a womanizer, told me that women were standing in line to date with him....that was so funny, but I could not date him because I was in serious relations already. We are still in touch, he is married ofc. But he always loved me because I was not chasing his looks, never called him first, never initiated the communication.... Dating a womanizer is fun, because it is like a game. But at the end, the game becomes very old and you grow out of it. You want authenticity, not a cat and mouse game.

Hey Sweet Pea, I am so sorry, womenizer takes all the time to respond. I am trying to bridle that animal instinct in Milosh....we are here for the self-development, right? I still love you too! I will watch that trailer you sent me.

Nobody can force you for anything. Period! Yeah, this is going to be the most interesting part, to show your true nature with all the crap. I would rather bring everything to the table immediately not to be heartbroken at the end if she does not tolerate that part of yours. I wonder if you are self-realized, what is holding you from being authentic self? Just be who you truly want to be...you want to curse,- so curse, otherwise you are wearing a mask and pretending to be better than you actually are! That is a game, my friend! Why would you need to show off, if as you claimed in the earlier message, you can be with any woman you want, then just relax and let them see your real nature. You are a "dream" at the end, so why bother? If they do not except you, you will find a new one. Right? I do not get what is the problem here? I do not get why are you struggling? No my guy, that is not how it works! You are not forced (let me repeat it again), you've met a woman you really like ( I would not use the word "love" here, because it is too early) and now you need to compromise with her to not lose this relations, since you probably never compromised with anyone else before or did it on a rear occasion, it is an emotional labor for you and you are out of your comfort zone. And you do not like it. Well, congratulations, someone should give that lesson, right? It's a part of maturing.

Well flirting with women and being spoiled it is a slightly different thing That would be a huge decisive factor for me. Having fun with you sexually and starting a family would be different. See, you are already position yourself as a "dream of all women". what kind of self-development we are talking about here? Be honest have you ever met a hot looking, intelligent, educated women that were a "dream for a lot of men"? Or just an average woman with charisma? Who is independent enough? I wouldn't not give a shi...t how cute your face is, or how thick your wallet is. Unfortunately a lot of women would run after this qualities :good looking guy with money. This is not a definition of being a real man. A lot of men in Ukraine think that if they have penises and lets say some money, they can dictate the poor girls what to do and how to be. And a lot of women would worship that penis in the house not to be alone. Our whole culture revolves around this concept. Just watched the interview last night with a very famous Russian singer, she did the same, with all the fame and money she had, she worshiped the penis not to be along....the guy (her ex husband) actually wanted to kill her and take all her property. Which is so sad! America has a lot of hot looking girls (because of the blood mix), it all depends. When my male friend (Ukrainian) came to Nashville from Chicago and we took him in downtown, he was impressed, we met so many hot looking girls in our bars and restaurants. So....you can meet different people here. Also, in US people are more sport oriented than lets say in Eastern Europe.

I think it is a wonderful opportunity for your development. Go for it and do not be apprehensive about the future. If we are totally honest, nobody can guarantee us anything. You repeat the same phrase in different variation over and over again, so you've already made that choice and intuitively you know what you want and how it will be. She is the One for you! Congratulations. I am happy for you. It is not that often when you can meet your true match, some people go through life and never meet their true match. I do not believe in matches as such, but I do believe that with some people it is way easier in all aspects than with others. Friendship holds the same principle in life. Sometimes, you meet people and there is this explainable chemistry, while with others you do not even know what to say next.

So you're spoiled by women's attention, hah? See, that was a big huge red flag for me before I met my spouse. I love when the guy who is humble. You would not believe, but my spouse is a very handsome man, but he is very-very humble, he is not womenizer and never been, guess upbringing and my mother-in-law did a wonderful job about it. I also understand that in ten years he might want a new sexy body or something like that, but he has a respect for women for sure. He is not a dog! Marriage should be a quite harbor where you can both relax and trust each other, not be scared to put some extra pounds when pregnant because he will not get horny any more. Believe me, Ukrainian men are so spoiled, I had enough of it. You literally better be going to the gym right after birth.... My culture is very judgmental about the looks, thanks God in America people are more relaxed about it. I am not talking about being an ugly cow, eat a lot, put weight and forget about high heels, of course not! but thanks to American women who trained their men to respect femininity! At least people here do not scan your body like they did there.

@zeroISinfinity This is hard for me to grasp, if you really like her, like truly in bed and in other aspects of life, and you are telling me that you're constantly falling in love with her, then what would it change to have more and more random vaginas in your life? Will it make you happier if!!! you even considering such opportunity? The more vaginas you have, the happier you will be? Do you have any issues with self-esteem? What were you trying to accomplish by being a womanizer? There is some hidden complex here for sure. I just can not understand the nature of it. Sorry, I do not want to sound rude, I guess I become a little bit emotional about that, when it comes to womanizers. I guess I understand about your desire for sex with other women, I guess you can potentially cheat on your partner, nobody is insured from that, but chasing so many skirts constantly, why? Please explain. p.s. Taurus and/or Capricorns for sure....for the rest of my life, lol

what was not honest about it, please tell me? In my opinion there is no need for tests, it is either your woman/man or not. It is important to stay authentic and communicate. Tests are silly, it is a game. No game should be involve in love. Love means being vulnerable; Gosh I hate water signs because they really manipulate, and they do it for they lack confidence. My mom does the same thing, hiding behind her pride and dignity, sometimes likes to put on show. She is Scorpio, I told you. A little humor now: my dad is Sagittarius, been married three times, so nothing to worry about marriage, it is not forever thing either, LMAO, ofc I am joking, but it is true per statistics. Currently,his wife is Aquarius, he loves her to pieces, so that is a security for sure. I know quite a few people of your sign with multiple marriages, it is not uncommon for them.

@zeroISinfinity I remember when I was on the cruise ship, I had a best friend from Serbia, he name was Ivanna. What a nice memory. I remember one day our ship docked in Dover, England, and we were visiting the castle with her together. I think I still have a picture of her in my fb profile.

I have different opinion, when you love someone, aren't you suppose to shower them with little things? I always did and do for my spouse all the time, when I go to Europe, or travel here in US, or even go shopping, I always buy some yummy things for him or something he really needs. He loves herbal tea and 86% dark chocolate, so I always buy small things for him and he is so happy. I think she tries to take care of you, do not look for a hidden meaning, for woman it is natural I guess.

Is it hard to get married for girls there? I remember when I was seventeen and lived in another city due to my university, I was taught how to cook by my best friend (male) He cooked and I was washing the dishes. He loved to cook. Honestly speaking, I am not a housewife, I do not like to cook, but I have to now. Sure, we will make a kebab party for you when you come, you shall love my friends, they're all Slavic. Do not worry you will blend in.

LOL, you drop into details..... How do our Ukrainian women do it for the rest of their lives? Carry big plastic bags from the supermarket in two hands with no help, no cars, just public transport: shuttle buses or subway, my dear. You would not surprise me with this, it is not America where you have your own car. My grandmother does it every day, she is eighty!!!! no one helps her, she carries her groceries from the store on her own. Pretty common thing for people in Eastern Europe. I remember those times my self. It is not just a heroic action, pretty usual thing. What surprises me still is how our veterans made through WWWII? How could the girl in the age of ten carry a weapon and shoot the nazi soldier, protecting her little siblings, this is surprising, my dear... Not sure what you mean here....sorry... Yeah, I used to spend the whole month when was a kid in July with my grandmother in Russian village. Everything was organic, berries, eggs, milk, mushrooms in the forest, herbal tea, fishing and kayaking on the river. Miss Russian village so much. I thought I would fly to Moscow this fall to see my dad, but it is not going to happen in the nearest future, this is so sad.

Surprising to hear when comparing our cultures. Why? What was shocking that lady actually bought something for you? Just wonder... I agree something super rear to find. We have the same dreams. I wish I would have more people like that in my reality, not only online.

@zeroISinfinity Mine does not really care about house that much, I mean what curtains to put or sofa to buy. He game it to me completely. As he does not have have any clue about design and fashion. Not a good cook either. Thinks I am a good cook since does not know what a really good cook is, poor thing All he cares about to have his macbook to study coding, his table and his own space (in his room where he works) and a piano too. He is a musician. Wait till you see all her cosmetics in your bathroom. Just let me know how it feels. We have separate bathrooms, I do not even allow mine to step in my bath, do not want to see his hairs in my sink, lol and do not allow him to be in my closet ( he has his own) I think his closet is more organized that mine. Thankfully, mine is pretty tidy, never puts his socks in the middle of the room, washing his own clothes, I never wash his clothes. I agree with you, air is great for us. My first love was Gemini, we could talk non-stop, were best friends and still in touch. Imo, Libra is a bit boring for me, but still they are interesting. Aquarius would be my top number among the most intriguing, interesting and intelligent people. Have a lot of friends in this sun sign, never had any lovers (I mean boyfriends in the past) among them, so can not really say if they would work for me.

@Preety_India thank you, my dear! Hugs

@Preety_India here we go, the picture of me, do you think you can give me a website and I can order it from there? I can not find a good henna anywhere, so I stopped using it, now my hair color more like a golden nut color, not red anymore as it used to be couple of years ago.

Nice thread my dear, you know what I truly want? I wish I can order a real henna. I used to die my hair with henna, I will show you now.