Galyna

yes-yes, this is exactly what I was talking about...read couple messages above, silly right? lol

@Amit Like seriously, post something interesting here about Krishna and Shiva, I want to learn more.... better to talk about ancient religions and traditions. Teach us, please, Amit! I have never studied Hinduism in depth....Plus everyone will be happy and no drama and soap opera.

Very nice, thanks for a piece of wisdom Where is it coming from and what are you reading now?

Well... people think we are a bit dramatic discussing things here so why just not talking in a productive way, right? It has nothing to do with my sessions with @Nahm. I was asking you this for a long time, to share your experience, not for the sake of teaching here, but for the sake of the conversation....No more, no less. @Natasha said our conversations looked liked a TV soap opera so....why not discussing something interesting. That is it! You guys say it quite often here . Go "upstairs" in the topic for meditation and consciousness and look how other guys including you talk to each other: "Love you"...."love you too", "love you again", "love you even more", this is so funny, because poor word "love you" does not mean anything anymore. I get that you wanna use it to emphasize this Infinite love, but still....I found it funny, every single message ends with "love you" @Nahm Thanks for breaking it to us here. ...I wanted @zeroISinfinity to know that you were Aquarius for a long time....but could not say your sign here since it was not my personal information. @zeroISinfinity now.... do you understand why you are so crazy about @Nahm? Astrology, my friend is a valid science. @Amit I cant wait to see how you'll react on my last sentence..... oh guys, I love you so much, LOL

@Natasha Sure, I have been asking @zeroISinfinity about his awakening experience for a long time, so he may share this with us. I would rather talk about books and enlightenment. We can talk about Ralston.....I am reading him now....

You too! Even though I feel like when you say these words too often either to your friends, or family members, or a spouse, they depreciate in value and lose their meaning. I still have a lot to learn, read some, my mother is the best at seeing through ppl, I learned from her, she is very perceptive. She has a gift for this. Never even once gave me a wrong advice, always right in her predictions. I was raised in this setting, gestalt therapy every freaking Friday. We really do not need to prove each other anything in the verbal battle. We are here to heal and support. I do not have any bad thought about people in this thread. I love you all! I mean it. I promise you I do understand you.... Hugs.

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Well okay, no need for this. You shared, I shared...all is good....nothing personal..... I understand you too, you're being pretty authentic here with us, nothing to worry about it. I just do not like when any man challenges me with his looks or anything else. So...do not take it personally. I have never said anything like that that you hated women. so give me a break I am some jerk that uses women. I quite actually love them. - I guess we went too far in our discussion because you sound a bit offensive. You are not a jerk and who the hell am I to judge you? I am far from mature, I promise...never claimed to be this way. Keep writing in your style. Everybody loves you here... Sorry I was rude today. Just can not stand when man is overreacts about his charisma and personal traits so I lashed out.

You do not have to apologize for absolutely anything. Unless this "sorry" has a hue of dignity and self-pride, than it's another story. But Alex, do not take it too personally, really, if you died as a human, nothing I say or do can truly hurt your feelings. If there is a reaction somewhere, on the backyard of the psyche, than you still associate yourself with a human being. We are just discussing things here, nothing personal. I am giving you a response I would give to any womanizer! In real life I could touch you on the personal level if I wanted to....but I will never ever play with other people's feelings. I know the game, I know how it works, I know what man loves, what excites him...but it does not excite me anymore, it is a game of life. It is all silly and stupid. Nothing can be more attractive when you are being your true self, your honesty, your vulnerability, your compassion. All those things we think contribute to our success are just masks, social game, no more, no less, including your looks, social status, how many females you had sexually, and all the alpha male perceived qualities you claim to have.

Nah, I am nobody here, just a random stupid housewife ...for sure not worth any attention, especially from a guy your caliber! ?

@zeroISinfinity Alex, I am tired of you, Macho man. ????, where is my ♌️ Leo-knight , I miss him already❤️!

@zeroISinfinity Well, first of all....stop...you do not need to put on show to show me your best qualities. It makes you look cheap! Let me make my own judgement about you. Get ready to lose in the battle and let me tell you why.... I will tell you more, I was in love with one, I did not know he was a gay, later on he confessed. We were best friends for a long period of time. We are still in touch. This yours " I bet not", Alex, wow... you do not even know who you deal with on that side of the screen. Stop assuming things, learn to observe and listen. We are on page 53, this is probably the second question you asked me. You need to develop ability to listen and observe others, it is not all about the show, jokes, your girlfriend, learn to be a good companion by genuinely wondering about other people. It is not all about you all the time, every day. This is not a wise statement, naive and too confident. let me prove you why....any person can deceive you in one way or the other....always...with regards how good you are at reading other people. Simply, because no one can predict with 100% his next reaction or behavior. Do you think you know yourself with 100% accuracy? If yes.... Then you are BSing yourself. You truly do not know what life will throw at you in the next moment, what life will throw at your gf and how she will accept any challenge. Really wise answer would be: I truly do not know, I am good at reading others, but I truly don't know what person I meet in the next second and how that person will behave toward me, how smart he/she is. Wisdom is humble, it does not show off. And this is the most appealing feature. You know what you worth, but you do not scream about it, you let others to figure this out, and even!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! they tell you: " Oh our Lord Alex, you are so wise!" You take it with a grain of salt, because a truly wise person under any conditions or circumstances will NOT admit this about himself. By already saying or emphasizing this, you depreciate yourself in value. again, the show of the single actor. Let me decide this for myself. If you mean attractive your body and face, I do not even know what kind of self-development we are talking about here. I would find you as much attractive as the picture on my wall...very beautiful and? And what? I am asking you now.... what? Give me a God damn mature answer. I am a bit angry now... What your cute face or nice body would add to my life if I am a single woman? I find attractive many things, beauty is in every object. How does it relate to my personal values, deep core values I seek in man? Very shallow answer, Alex! Trustworthy, no...it is not in your cards, sorry for being rude. Not bc you sleep with every girl in your village, just bc you can not integrate masculinity and femininity. You need to work my friend on the root issues. Kudos to you that you are trying to work on your self-development. At least some progress, keep working.... Every statement is screaming like : "here I am, pay attention to me." I probably would...but you would not want to be mine....guaranteed! Because I am not going to be their to feed this self-efficacy. I would not want to admire man who would scream for admiration. You are not secure with yourself if still seeking for any approval. You can seek it my friend, but in a humble manner. This way you will more likely receive what you want. This could not be more further from the truth. No need to be ashamed of the desire to get a wonderful orgasm. If your statement would be true, sex would depreciate in value for you. You still have sex, are you telling me you're having sex for your girlfriend only? " I am selfless in sex" - he is saying. I am laughing so hard, so hard...sure...remember that woman forced you to have sex with her to avoid drama, "100% you are selfless", great guy, so altruistic. Where else are you selfless? Maybe I need to employ for my routine needs, you cook well, so who knows.... No woman and any relations will resolve your issues, period! And you know it, no need to repeat here.

@zeroISinfinity Reading your post I am just starting to realize that friendship between man and woman is possible, when one of the following conditions is satisfied: 1. A guy is a womanizer and you do not take him seriously, he is not a threat. He is your best friend. 2. A guy is a gay, and of course you can not take him seriously. You are a perfect male friend to come to for a dating advice. For the sake of argument, lets say I am single, living in your city, and I've just met you...there is no change for you, no chance. I would not really care how tall, handsome you are. I would never just take you seriously to give you my heart. Again, I am talking for myself. Woman thrives in man's loyalty. How can a womanizer help to open up a God within me (here I am spiritual growth in relations). It is not possible for a spiritual, tantric merge with womanizer, like a deep merge on all levels, when two become ONE. Please do not spend her time, just let her go....you understand that she is 27, she wants kids and marriage. You are playing around with a woman. In one post you are crazy about her, in another post you tell me you do not care about her.

@DrewNows Laughing now...

@zeroISinfinity Friend, you are next in line...."This call may be monitored or recorded for quality and training purposes only!" approximate wait time is 18 to 24 hours...

@Keyhole First of all, I am truly sorry that you had to go through such an experience, I can only imagine what you felt. If we are brutally honest there are two forces that are in charge: survival and reproductive. Deep-deep inside it is all about sex and survival, for human and animals. We are here to survive and reproduce. I know it might hurt us, women, but behind any man’s action there is desire to have sex with you. I have male friends, I dated. I know. Rarely man would even talk to you like your lady friend. It is hard to attract man with your deep nature. It has to be physical first. Same with animals, look around. “Men are incapable of loving women for who they really are.” I disagree here. If they feel attraction on the physical level first, it will deepen for them on a mental. Also, men in his 20 and in his 40th have different standards. They behave differently. As they mature, they understand that it is not all about your ass or boobs, it is about your personality. So is there any chance for you to find a mature guy who will not be into looks a lot? There are tons of average guys that would dream to have you as a partner. I am sure. Of course, they might not have all the qualities you want, but we must be realistic here. American men are not so spoiled here as in Europe. I promise you; I know what I am talking about. If you dated Russians, you would understand. In my culture basically it is all about men and how to please him. My mother still tells me that 90% of my marriage success is on me, and only 10% on my husband. Because “he is a man!”, like it is my responsibility to create this atmosphere. I grew up like this. Russian/Ukrainian YT has tons of videos about how to eat, sleep, pee sexy, so your man always perceives you as a sexual queen. It is two extremes I guess between our cultures. I heard it all my childhood, I was not even allowed to put my make up in front of the guy. It is not sexy. Everything has to be sexy, sex has to scream through you. It is in our survival pattern there. I am not very happy to talk about it either. “The fact that you're going to want to get a facelift when you're in your 50s goes to show that you also know the reality of their corrupt nature.” You are right about it. I want my man to be proud of me, because I was raised with the idea that I am a business card for my man, in a way I define him. I want other men like me, I will never deny it. It was my moving force, all my life. I can not live for myself, I need a partner. My whole worldview is predicated on the idea that I need to live for someone, to make other ppl happy, to make my family happy. I am not a loner by nature. I like solitude in a moderate quantity. My life purpose is in Love. I want to admire others and to give them inspiration, because without others, it would not be me. This "me" is defined by others! And if I need to serve the man I love, I will absolutely do it and I will be ecstatic about it. I feel like I was created for this. I will not allow any man to take advantage of me, but if he loves me and loyal to me, and there is a special connection between us .....oh Boy.....my whole sexuality enclosed in this, in admiring my man, in a healthy way....ofc.....I just love men, I think men are awesome, I can not live without males. I was hurt in the past, so what? I still believe there are a lot of decent men in this life, including my father and grandfathers. I will never deny masculinity, I will always praise it! But all my men in the past were good, the main reason I broke up with them was coz they were young and not ready for commitment. And I always wanted to have a stable relations. Dream for every woman. If you feel it is great to be in a solitude for a while, ofc do it! No pressure. “I think a lot of people who gravitate towards spirituality feel the same.” – everybody is different, cannot say for sure. But with the dawn of the internet, the social life as we know, is going to cease to exist, agree! “I have some sort of chronic illness it wouldn't really matter much if I took care of my body or not. I don't want to get stuck in that neurotic habit of having to poke at myself all the time in order to feel as though I'm attractive enough to be loved, I'd rather just focus on health for the sake of feeling more comfortable within my own body.” – I would say this, try to look nice and attractive with the body you have and never close up, believe that one day you will meet your true match, a guy who will love you to pieces with regards. He might not be perfect himself, so what? Appearance is important at first, but then it takes a secondary place. “I can't guarantee that I would be a good fit for anyone.” Me neither. Some people love me, some - hate me. So who is right? Nobody. “This can happen, but that is the exception not the norm, usually what ends up happening is that one partner becomes stagnant and the other feels resentful and it either becomes toxic or they break it off at some point.” – wont deny it, there are a lot of things we need to work on. Marriage is not perfect and it is not easy. It is a constant work. “This is because the masculine and feminine are not energies that can coexist and have it work out, they are competing energies.” – disagree, it is like saying black and white competing colors. It is a part of one. No division here. Would you acknowledge black without white, no…. “Look at how men have treated women all throughout history, They don't care about a woman's true femininity they care about the femininity that makes them feel good. It's a selfish form of coveting. “ – it is just an idea in your mind, rely on your own experience. Why would you feel bad about smth you were not a part of? Why would you care about something that happened 300 or 1000 years before? All you need to care is about your current partner, do not gather a dossier for everything men ever did in our history, it is not healthy for you. It has nothing to do with you, leave it behind and worry about your current experience. Otherwise it gets very toxic. Did it touch you on the personal level? No, what is the point to worry about it? “I don't think that we need duality I think that we need unity. unity is androgynous it isn't masculine or feminine.” It is semantics. But the meaning is the same, everything in this world, absolutely everything has it own opposite. We can not deny it. Birth has death, day has night, love has hate, etc. Why? For evolution purposes only, to not keep our world stagnant. How would you identify any quality without opposite? Sorry it took so much time to reply, I was really busy today, plus I spent the whole day on forum yesterday. I might sound rude, do not take it personally. Hugs.

Sure, I will reply back ?. I just have family and a kid to take care, how about tomorrow I will reply you back. I don’t want to do it today in a rush, since it might take some time and needs my proper attention, ok? hugs!

@zeroISinfinity @Preety_India @Keyhole Guys, I will run now, spent all day here.....for free.... My thing is when feminine and masculine energies are proper adjusted in relations, not even a porn , or sex with other people needed, for anyone. You will have this connection that will go above and beyond any human can wish for. The challenging part is to find a person like this, with whom you will click on all levels. Talk to you soon!

@Preety_India wise light worker, my sweet pea!

This world needs duality. Without masculinity there is no such thing as femininity. We can deny it all day long, nothing is going to change. These two need to contrast each other to appear and seem in the world as is!

This is closer to the truth....I like this answer, answer of a mature man who can assess the situation objectively. Again, nobody judges you here, I love all people in this thread. we are here to help each other. Alex you are neither good nor bad, you are yourself, Alex! Period! You are a Unique manifestation of the Whole Being! Own it and appreciate who you are and your experience! I am not in a position to tell you anything, but I want to help you sometimes to untangle this, it might lead you to some insights, let's hope it will. Pls do not think that I perceive you as an evil dude. For starters, I do not even know you personally. So treat all this forum advice with a grain of salt!

This is your perspective and your belief. Realize that you put negative statement on it. I do not perceive men like that. I could not disagree more. Healthy flirting only helps woman to gain confidence, to know that she is desirable and wanted. Woman nourishes in this attention. You do not like when men complimenting you or turn around when you walk on the street, like really? What is wrong about it, please tell me? Then as of right now it is the best choice for you, maybe you need to work more on how to be in partnership. Partnership is beautiful. Solitude is beautiful. But human being is a social animal and it can not stay long in solitude. Your partner also will get old, unless you choose a younger male. This is your thought pattern as of today. Tomorrow you might fall in love and think differently. What if you leave your guy if you grow older, nobody knows. If this is the issue, you can take care of your body, eat healthy. Look at some women at the 50th. My mom is 56, she looks gorgeous. Why thinking about it today, I hope in 20 years plastic surgery will resolve all our issues. I probably will do the face lift when I am 50! why not? yet they do, on top of that they reproduce, therefore, vicious cycle. Our parents are kids themselves, thus, we have so many issues. Agree and disagree at the same time. You can grow in relations. When my spouse met me he had unresolved childhood issues, boy...I helped him a lot. I would say he grew up with me a hell a lot. I would say this, one partner can pull the other as a long as he is conscious enough. The dynamic of the relations as we used to know will be changing, agree. The institute of family falls slowly apart, especially on the West. Nothing we can do, just to adjust.

You are funny , do you want me to go back couple of pages ago and show you that phrase " I did that and happy af!" Was your words, do I need to show this again to you? If it was sitty, you would not return back happy af. Poor guy was raped by the woman, LMAO I do. do you remember I mentioned it a couple of pages ago? Learn to see pass through your motives....you do not have to prove me anything, I am your friend, I am on your side. But it is my responsibility to show you how I see the situation objectively, no more, no less.

So you are telling me that a random girl can manipulate you like a puppet? BS....might as well tell me now: well, I am a weak guy, I allow women to take charge, like really? if you did not cheat while being with Pisces than why worrying?...not sure if I believe in it, I am sure you are telling me something that you perceive as a true statement, but you lie to yourself. if you truly did not do anything wrong, nobody can accuse with anything, period!

This is a lie, and you might believe in it to protect yourself from suffering. All women like men's attention. Perhaps if you do not have a lot of it in your life, to protect you from suffering would be to say you do not need it. Ego loves it! Agree, but if not having a relations creates suffering on the deeper level, then it is another lie ego uses to justify the situation you are in right now in your life. Then life would put you constantly in the situations where you would have to change your attitude, by avoiding relations you ain't going to resolve your issue. Jump into relations and grow, by maintaining limbo will only hinder your growth. Strongly recommend to change this attitude, it will lead you into suffering. Men are awesome, us, women, could not be women without men! How could you pursue your feminine side without contrasting it with masculine one. I would not feel like a woman now if all men disappeared from Earth. Only men can make me feminine. Guys have issues not because they are bad, but due to their background, mothers. fathers, families and upbringing. If you truly love a man, this can heal everything. I promise. By truly loving I meant to perceive him pass through your insecurities.