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@oOo Thank you so much for putting in so much time in writing this down I love when you said. `Awareness should sharpen consequence-detection: less manipulation, clearer consent, deeper humility, harder accountability.` that is exactly what many of these gurus are missing, they get put on a pedestal and they need to protect their status, otherwise they will lose the status of a guru, because they should be `all knowing ` and have no flaws. Yet, they are also human with maybe an awakening experience, but still they operate very much like everyone else, so when you would hold them accountable, they wouldn´t listen and maybe even say your pocessed by evil, like Bentinho said towards Keilan. Its a threat to their status, that what made them famous and populair in the first place. So I would love to see in the future, and I think Leo is getting there, teachers that are more transparent about their flaws, about how they don´t know everything, how they are also human, maybe with an awakening, but still they don´t operate like God, they operate like a human who have to eat, shit, sleep etc. So basically these `awakened` humans get put on a pedestal and anyone that questions them will either get a vague answer or will be send out of the tribe and be demonised or making you the problem instead of them. As the guru is always right and the student is always wrong. hmmm at this level of development I no longer resonate with these types of games being played.

@Leo Gura Also things coming out about Deepak Chopra makes you really rethink all these consciousness teachers, many of these teachers also get put on a pedestal so they have to act `pure` what probably leads to supression and coming out in private, in dark ways. Just cause your enlightened doesn´t mean you are now more then human, for example I have never seen an enlightened person make something float, they can say they are God, but you can´t make a pen float. hmmm, how could that be? So they aren´t so different from the rest of us in my opinion, but both their followers and themself make them be praised higher then they might actually be. I think an ongoing process of becoming more aware makes you stay humble and accountable instead of feeling better and more holy then everyone else.

@Leo Gura no I never attended his events, but have been following him since 2017, he speaks very much like he is enlightened, but even if he is enlightened. That doesn´t make him perfect and this is the problems with gurus, cause everyone puts them on a pedestal and they abuse the power that they have gained. If you believe your enlightened and tell everyone about how you are pure, how are you gonna keep yourself accountable? I believe growth should never stop even after enlightenment, keeping yourself accountable.

The problem with gurus is not what they teach per say. It is the whole culture of people bowing down to another human. The culture puts the guru on the pedestal when he is human, maybe more conscious, but still just human. Its like saying, I am more intelligent so now bow down to me. What happens is that we put people before God, we bow down to people and people are never ever, not even Jesus, perfect. We are and will always be NOT God, we might be connected to consciousness, infinity, be one with God, but that does not mean that everything a guru says should be taken as facts. There are allot of flaws in every teaching, there are allot of mistakes in every Guru, even in Jesus, Buddha, Krishna, you name it. To put any individual on a pedestal makes us have this dreamy idea of our own potential. The idea that we could be God like, when we are human and should embrace the flaws that come naturally with being human. I don't even think every spiritual teacher wants to be put on a pedestal, but more then not it happens and when that guru makes a mistake everyone is suprised. HAHAHAHA Look at the pope, if the pope does something off its all over the news. The only difference between you and the pope is that he prays more or spends more time reading the bible. Maybe he even is in a more meditative state, but even then, he is not NEARLY, not even 0.0001% like God, God is everything, everyone, unity, infinity, consciousness, therefor a human could only access that, as its the source, but it can never CLAIM to be THAT. You cannot claim to have the same powers and same understanding about everything and everyone and the world and every other world like God has, so don't believe these clowns calling themself gurus, I used to follow them, but I learned that they are playing a game, a status game and if they stopped playing that game they would lose all their followers. You have to act HOLY and display yourself as innocent or sinless, otherwise they will ruin the reputation of the guru or popes or whatever. In that sense I like Osho the most of all gurus as atleast he was embracing more the flaws of humans instead of being weird about it, but even Osho has been put on a pedestal way too much. These are all humans, they know something about oneness, but that doesn't make you superman and it doesn't make you sinless, innocent or whatever. Your human, they are human, everyone is human, at the highest we can have a great or deep connection with God, but if you truely wanted to be one with God you would be dead.

Money is so important, but besides money. Why are you here? Are you here to touch peoples heart? are you here to live your full potential? I hope you are alive for more then to make a living. I hope that within what your doing there is something that is touching you, something that sparks you and others. This is why a star becomes a star, because they shine, why can't you be a star? You don't have to be a singer to be a star, you don't have to perform anything, but somewhere in you, there is a star that wants to shine and that part of you is what will heal your life and others! From my heart I wish you read this message and something deeper gets touched inside you, this is not about skill, this is not about performance, this is not about anything but you. To live fully, to experience life in its depth and not just the superficial side of life that is only about money and status. YES don't ignore basic needs, but never praise the rich or praise money, status and looks, because in the praise of the worldly you forget the reason why your here, a spiritual mission far beyond superficial stuff. And then if you live with such purpose you hear people saying daily to you "you made my day" "you put a smile on my face" when you shine others can shine too. Haters will hate, but in your grave you wouldn't care about any hater, but about all the opportunities you didn't take. I am feeling inspired to share this message, there might be one person that needed to hear this message today. God bless.

I think I will just use this forum to express my thoughts. If someone gets some value from it thats awesome. I think that sometimes trying is enough. To get to a certain goal, you don't need some miracle, you don't necessarily need luck, I feel that you can achieve most goals simply by trying. The only problem is that you might not understand what trying is. Trying isn't trying one time, trying the same thing a thousand times, its about trying in every possible way for a long long period of time. Trying is actually trying, like what if you actually tried to atleast achieve one goal this year. Look at your list of goals and just pick one, and really really try every single day till your absolutely tired and exhausted. The periods of my life where I really try, I am busy with it day and night in fact I even dream about it, only then you know you are really locked in, when every night your dreams are about the goal. Your even trying in your dreams hahaha. And also sometimes you then try and you fail, maybe fail awfully, but then after that bad day, you wake up the next day and you try again and then almost like karma you get what you put back into it. Now putting your mind to it is one thing, putting action behind it, using both your mind, inspiration from others that have succeeded at your goal aswell as your own action that is what I call trying. Trying is waking up, giving it your all with no idea if you get anything back in return, its a certain level of faith, your not getting angry when it doesn't workout, you just trust in the process. That when you try, you really try, you don't say you try, you don't complain how you tried and failed, you don't get angry why your not getting your way, no you ACTUALLY try. You put all that positive energy into one direction, into one goal, if its for a month, a year or longer, at some point you will see all of that hard work being paid off. You couldn't do it by hard work alone, you needed time to think, you needed to look at others succeeding at it, you needed everything from your body, from your mind, from others, you really really tried, then I don't believe you can fail. So look at your goals for this year, pick one goal and then ask yourself, have you really tried? Have you given it all you got? Because often times, its just about getting up and trying again so many times till karma or something can't ignore you anymore. Your "lucky" days are on the other side of waking up day after day trying. Good luck!

@merimo28 I appreciate it

@Stick I will wait hehe

@YIDIRYIDIR lol

I have had great success in the last view days when it comes down to making money. The thing I learned is that abundance comes with clear goals, and hitting those goals. I already knew this, but I either set too big goals that I would never reach them or too low. What I feel works best is to have a goal everyday how much money you want to make and then when you reach that goal either set a new goal for that day or bask in the abundance by just not quitting after you reach a goal. That is my advice for anyone that wants to make money. Its almost like law of attraction. You can set your goals really high, but I would suggest try to find something slightly ambitious, but not something that feels impossible, and after you achieve that you can always set a new goal. And its just weird how you start behaving and thinking completly differently with these daily goals, you literally do things completly differently, you start seeing opportunities you didn't see before. For example, when you need 5 euros to go to a hospital and its a life or death situation, you get that 5 euros within 5 to 10 mins. Because you take every opportunity you can get instead of having excuse making momentum where you see every way you cannot get it. Trust me, when you need something and your life depends on it, you will get it. Urgency is key and that is why goals especially daily goals work. Let me know how it goes for you. God bless.

This is not talked about enough. Balance. A balance is where the sweet spot is at. What do you think about the war in Israel? Is Israel right? Is Palestine right? All of these things are black versus white. That is why in a low conscious society there is much more war. Now we can have disagreements, not allign with eachother, but to be in an aggresive verbal, non verbal conflict is basically saying that you are right and they are wrong. I notice in myself and in others that we come to premature conclusions, what if your right, but its a half truth? You can convince yourself you are woman as a men, nothing is off the table anymore. If you can believe your a woman as a men, you can believe one country is in the right and every other person in the other country should be killed and be conquered. This is the power of belief. I would like to see a world where war is of the past, I probably will never see it in my lifetime. I am not for Palestine, I am not for Israel, I am for standing on balance what is that both have a point. So does everyone have a point. Even a drug dealer has a point to selling cocaine. Everyone has a point from most extreme to least extreme points. A perspective about you being a woman, you supporting Palestine or Israel is in my mind a premature conclusion. The only point of phylosophy to me is to never come to a conclusion. To realise that nothing is black and white and that balance is where real growth happens for humanity. When we stop standing against eachother and instead question our own beliefs. The only war that is worthy of fighting for in my opinion is that of conquering our own mind, which is split in black and white thinking. Your either for this or that, but what if you just don't know? What if you were not too quick to come to any conclusion? And made your life a question instead of rigid black and white answers. What I realise that the more I seek balance the more I actually get to the truth of the matter. A great performer once said, being a performer is to be in complete balance. I think this messaged could help someone out here get to a higher state of consciousness. Who can be so radical to choose balance over black and white thinking? Maybe the only enemy is your own mind stuck on limited perspectives.

I notice something consistently. In the beginning, I cared a lot about manipulative tactics. I thought they were the only way to get what you want when it comes to dating and socializing. Now I’d say it’s more about energy, What energy? Positive? Being a hype guy? Super happy? Super energetic? Spiritually healed? No, The only energy that works is adrenaline, Why? Because it’s the sweet spot between being bored, demotivated, and being stressed. It’s where you become very attractive. When you’re already stressed internally, it’s very hard to get into that adrenaline state because you’re overloaded. So you might need to take some time to relax and destress first, and then socialize, BREAKOUT, This means that before doing any interaction, you go to a square where many people can see you and do something bold, like running or yelling. The whole square will look at you. You’ll get a lot of attention doing this, but it’s not about the attention. Attention comes and goes. It’s about breaking out and getting into a state of adrenaline, In a nightclub, you can’t yell at the top of your lungs, so do it on a big square first and then go straight into socializing on the street. You’ll notice that no manipulative tactic can beat the raw energy of adrenaline. You’ll outperform any guy with a smart line, a good opener, or some push-pull technique, Of course, there are other ways to get into adrenaline, but this is one of the easiest and most reliable. For example, I used to go to the middle of the dance floor and dance, but sometimes that doesn’t spike adrenaline enough. This does, every single time, And you’ll start to understand what real confidence feels like, You’ll also notice how interactions open up like crazy. It’s almost like people have been waiting for you to break out, to step into that state. It’s very attractive. It’s like a magnet, The interesting part is that you can do this on a square, socialize for 20 minutes, and then later go out again, and your state will still carry over. You don’t have to go directly from the square to wherever you plan to socialize, Doing this will improve your social skills massively. Even if you already know all the tactics, you’ll perform much better simply by being in the right state, We notice energy before words. When your energy is off, you can say all the right things and still fail. Especially women, they tend to pick up on this quickly and will disengage if you seem stressed or boring, Hit that sweet spot, adrenaline, and you naturally become more entertaining, expressive, charismatic, quick-witted, and attractive, And honestly, who can compete? Most other guys are in a low state, drunk, high, boring, or too nervous to even approach, Approaching isn’t the scary part. Running around and yelling in a public square, that’s scary. And once you’ve done that, approaching feels easy by comparison, BREAK OUT, Be free, and discover what it really means to be attractive, instead of over-focusing on tactics and manipulation,

@moonawakening444 yes try it out and let me know how it goes!

Girls I am curious about what do you want in a relationship, especially as a more high conscious girls. I know all the stereotypes of marriage and kids, but besides all of that, what are things you would want in a relationship?

I feel that the older I get, the more I realise the fakeness of everything. Money doesn't make you happy, relationships are great experiences but won't last and will leave you heartbroken, getting fame in small or big amounts gives you validation that wears off, highs turn into lows. A middle path as the buddha describes is maybe the most blissful way to exist. Things seem to matter less to me the older I get, I am less intrested in making money, less intrested in helping people, less intrested in making friends or getting into a relationship, maybe I am going through some spiritual depression where the meaning of things seem to evaporate and the only thing that is left is just this moment. What is really the goal here? survive? Leave a contribution? gather beautiful moments that are very small and temporary? I think I glorified life when I was younger, now that illusions break more and more nothing really excites me. Even spiritual practices seem just a way to avoid a bigger problem, what is that you still have to survive and live and without any ambition to do so, as illusions of a great future or even a great NOW as eckhart tolle would say seems to fade away, if I want to be NOW all the time, I don't have to be in this physical body suffering the maintenance of keeping this body alive. Survival seems truely pointless, unless there is meaning to your life. For me, very little meaning seems left in keeping this body afloat. I guess not upsetting anyone, but that is just to keep the peace, not really a reason to keep going. Going through the motions is probably the most true statement I have heard, that is how my life has been feeling for years, it has been feeling far from something great. I think I might even be jealous of Jesus, cause atleast he was able to use his suffering for good use, my suffering just seems of no use and therefor it becomes moving through the motions instead of moving towards something. I don't hate life or people or existing, I think I am just tired and have not much left in me. I had an exciting run in my younger years until truth started to become more clear to me and illusions, dreams of the ego started to be realised as illusions instead of great promises for a great future.

I feel that a deep relationship with a girl is almost impossible and therefor I feel less and less want or desire to be in a relationship. My first relationship I went all in depth about spirituality, both me and her got awakening experiences and it was beautiful till it all backfired. She wasn´t truely intrested in spirituality, she just got into it as I was making my whole life about it. Then it ended up breaking both our hearts, as she wanted to be less and less with me, the deeper I got into it. There was resistance from her to go into the depth and I don´t say she is wrong for doing that, it just simply meant she wasn´t ready for more and neither do I feel other girls are ready for such depth. If you want a shallow relationship, I know a million girls who would be excellent partners, but that just doesn´t sound meaningful to persue and waste time on. Also what are you getting out of a shallow relationship besides sex and comfort? It is not even a deep friendship, as even that goes deeper then a girlfriend that doesn't want to go deeply into the depths of spiritual rabbit hole. I have had 4 girlfriends, the last 3 being superficial girlfriends in the sense that I didn't mention anything about spirituality and we kept things basic and "normal". I just don't bother going in such a relationship again, cause it just feels like a waste of time and I don't enjoy it much. Neither do I think its good to bring girls that are not ready into this whole rabbit hole, it will only backfire on you and on her. I think I might give up on relationships for now, I don't even romanticise as I used to do, because I literally can't imagine a relationship beyond the superficial ones, my belief in such a relationship existing feels like a fantasy. Just needed to put this out there.

For me the more high conscious I become throughout the years, the less I feel drawn to survive and take care of survival. I feel like I should have taken care of my survival more before getting into spirituality. I actually block myself off from growing further as I know if I grow any further I wouldn´t be able to get any motivation to play these games anymore and even now its getting very very close to it. I would say for most people starting this conscious journey, don´t start yet. Like literally do this when your retired or have enough money to not have to make any money anymore. The stereotypical reality of spiritual people being lazy and doing nothing is not just true, its much deeper then that, its that the more conscious you become the less you want to survive, as survival is selfish in nature and being conscious is selfless. That is why God is dead and you are alive. If you feel the same way let me know your story.

As a performer its very important for me to gain attention and be funny and even tho I got chuckles in the past, actually someone breaking down in laughter rarely happend until I realised volume. Its not so much about the joke, its about being LOUD. Why? Volume is the number one way to get attention, that is why before making a toast you cling your glass, why they blow a whistle before the train leaves, why you have the noise of a fire alarm and why an ice cream truck has bells or has an ice cream tune to let everyone know it is there. It instantly grabs attention. Now we are scared to be loud, because subconsciously we know that if talk almost as loud as yelling, that people will notice. So fear has to be overcomed. Once you overcome the fear of being seen, gaining attention both positive and negative, you will be able to be ALLOT more funny, gain attention, make people stop. Like everytime you approach someone on the top of your vocal projection (not yelling, but just one volume below yelling) you make them stop everytime. For most people its not being 2x louder, but 10x louder. People simply ignore low volume. So next time you make a joke, say the joke as loud as you can without yelling (as yelling is a bit too aggressive) notice how much attention and laughter you get. Now this doesn't work if its a really shitty joke or it might even work with a shitty line if you really dramatise your volume. Now its also safe for others, because being loud means not only the person you talk to hears you, but everyone around you aswell, what makes it not a secret creepy thing. Being loud shows your not hiding. If your loud without humor, it can come off a bit too aggresive, keep in mind people are scared so aggression needs to be mixed with something funny or cute, being loud is aggressive so that always has to be combined with something cute or funny otherwise you will scare people, because remember, LOUD is the number one way to gain attention, but that also means you can come across as the alarm clock instead of the loud charismatic person. Unless your a cute girl hahaha, that is why loud girls like Cardi B or other celebs are so big hahaha because they are cute and loud as hell. Balancing the agrression/ cute & funny.

I just noticed how important hooking is when it comes down to interactions. I do allot of approaches and I am getting to understand how a good hook in the beginning makes all the difference. Its the same thing as with a youtube video. You watch a video based on the hook, if the hook is good you keep watching. So what are your best hooks?

Anyone that recently has adopted a more abundant mindset that actually worked out for them? Meaning not someone that says they are abundant and then remained broke, but a mindset that brought out actual change. I would like to dive a bit in that mindset and what changed for you internally? Specifically around carreer and money, not relationship wise.

Am I the only one that went from listening to the big spiritual gurus to more basic almost beginner meditations? I don't feel these gurus have the effect on me they used to have, I rather do a quick 15 minute basic meditation on youtube. I am intrested how you feel about this and what is your favorite meditation?

@Recursoinominado yes I think that makes sense why I don't resonate with it anymore, thank you for your answer.

I have spend 6 months trying to find my purpose realizing that how most people find their purpose didn't fit me. I now have found an alligned path for me, but I know many people might have some issues finding their purpose as most peoples purpose is very simplistic and unconscious, like be a firefighter or something simple and a bit stupid, to be honest. For me it was much more conscious and deep, touching me at my very core, but to get to that, it took me going through allot of resistance, allot of painful humbling moments where I had to realise I had to start from 0 again and that I might have to embaress myself, put myself out there, be couragous, what my ego definitely didn't want to do so it wanted an easy, comfortable purpose. Anyways enough about me, if you have any questions around purpose let them know below, I might be able to help you get some clairity and insight.

@Joshe I agree with this to great extend, I would say my purpose first was more brought and then it became more narrow, by noticing what resonated with me and what didn´t or as chatgpt says `what fucked me up` hahaha. I would say first find the broughtest thing that could be your purpose like. Inner work, inner growth for example. Or self development. Or even more general like growth. Then you take in this case the direction `growth` and explore all aspects of that and just go in a direction that resonates more with you and overtime it becomes more and more specific. Because even if your purpose would be cooking, it wouldn´t be likely that it would be all the different dishes from all the different countries of the world, you would probably resonate with either Japenese cooking or french cooking more then cooking all of the different dishes. Unless you have a very specific personality type that wants to cook a dish out of every single country and never get to perfect a specific dish. If everyone had that personality type then the world wouldn´t have Indian restaurants versus Japanese restaurants, I think we are naturally going from more brought to more specific, but its about not rushing that natural process and starting as brought as you can.

I have an intresting question or atleast I find it intresting to hear from different people the same or different answers. How do regular people respond to you, not people into spirituality, regular folks and strangers, after you are very present? have been meditating or when you are in a super high vibrational state? I am intrested to hear everyones response to this.