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@Zen LaCroix well the first hour I only approached 5 and I was full of anxiety as I had this high goal that I wanted to achieve. It was kinda like work. Like have you ever done a job where you had to do something hard or maybe in school, but you had to to do it? Like you can't just say okay fuck it, I give up. That is what it is like. Also I promised in different groups that I would do it, so now I had to proof everyone in the group that I could do it, so that held me accountable. Around 30 I thought I couldn't reach 100, that I should just give up and that it is impossible to ddo. But I kept going and I started to get into a flow, I started to approach quicker, less time in between sets, I started to care less and less, I would even go yell at girls like 20 meter away from me and they would yell back, it was funny. Then I got motivated again when I reached like 60, I was like oh shit I can actually do this. So I kept my pace a bit fast, kept pushing myself, kept having fun and eventually at 80 you know you can reach it and you can just chill out. What was it like emotionally? In the beginning very stressful as you have this super high goal and you only approached 5 in an hour and think you cannot do it. It is easier to have no goal as you can just chill and approach whenever, but with such a high goal, you feel all the pressure. Then some hopeless feeling like you can't reach it and then later when you keep going you feel like a machine, almost dead inside, but like just finnishing a to do list. And because I was so much focused on the process, I got these girls to engage with me so much, I never had so many girls be interested in me, because I was just focused on numbers (not phone numbers lol) just focused on the process. At the end you feel like superman, you feel that anything is possible, I felt like I could point at a girl and make her come to my home like directly. Probably because of the endless girls that had shown interest in me that night, if so many girls show interest in you, you start to think that every girl wants you, it becomes a kind of self fulfilling prophecy and you don't even register the rejections, all I remember is the good conversations. my biggest insight is that woman date up, they date the guy who isn't interested in her, if I put her on a pedestal and see her as the price, she isn't interested, but when I am not interested in her, because I am focused on my process (in this case 100 approaches) then she is interested in me, not all, but many. So that is what freedom of outcome is, you focus on a process rather then the result. This also makes you stop validation seeking and chasing, because you just don't care if they like you or not, you care only if you did the process correctly. What is hard is to balance that also with closing numbers and not to forget to close, there was only one girl I tried to close of the 100 and it was the girl I was interested in and you can guess it, because I was interested and put her on a pedestal, she wasn't interested that is why it is so easy to close girls that you are not attracted to. You have to find a way to not show interest in the girls authentically, you can't fake it and focusing on the process is key. Also time management, don't waste time on girls who are not down, not all of them will be down for you so don't waste time on them, only on the girls who give value to you back. Don't try to make a dead horse alive, that is like a dutch saying.

I will go out tomorrow and try to approach as many girls as possible. There is like a big party in a city and I don't care about my status there at all. So it is gonna be really busy, I want to aim for 100 sets of woman in one night, but I don't know if I will be able to do that. I am just gonna approach as much as I can, having no breaks in between. I am just writing it down here to keep myself accountable. Tomorrow I will write down how it went.

I live in Amsterdam as some of you know, and the interesting thing is that Amsterdam is one of the most green stage cities in the world. It is very liberal. I lived in Budapest for 6 months and when you live there you realise that they are more in stage orange and blue. Which was very interesting, because you can be as green as you want, trying to rebel against everything, protest, be a free thinker. Yet you go to budapest for 6 months and you adapt to the stage of the society. Also I realised there are significant benefits in stage blue and orange that we don't have here in Amsterdam. The order and obedience makes everything overall more peaceful, Amsterdam is full of chaos, protests everywhere, always some nonsense happening and everything should just be allowed. Where in Budapest they don't care to rebel, which makes their goverment quite corrupt lol especially when Orban was in power and people are overall more conservative. Yet it was more peaceful. To just name how opposite it is from Amsterdam, in Amsterdam you have free palestine protestors all week long, there you have israel flags hanging on the bridges. So even tho I come from a green stage city and I am naturally more green, moving to a city that is orange/blue will make you be completly different, until I come back to Amsterdam. So how can someone truely embody stage green in an orange society? You probably can if you really want to, but you have no one backing you up and you have to be a loner. Same thing in a green society, you could be stage yellow, but you would have to be a complete loner in doing so as no one in the society is backing you up. If there will be eventually a society that is yellow, then people will be more yellow naturally and people who would come from a green stage society would adapt to become yellow and it will become normal. And we are naturally more drawn to become like our environment, it is very uncomfortable to be against the environment you are living in, stage blue/orange or green, it would be a constant fight and a lonely path if you really wanted to embody a different stage.

@something_else I think I was in too much abundance, which made me think there is always better out there and I wasn't chasing, which made me attractive, but it also made me forget to close.

@Rishabh R because I am hard on myself, this is what I did yesterday myself, it is not like 100 woman approached me, I had to get the courage and will power to do it

@Rishabh R there is a difference between 100 in a day and 100 in your lifetime, go try it today, approach 100 woman, it is not easy

@Rishabh R you can only be jealous if you put in the same amount of effort as I do approach the same amount as I do

@something_else I know, I am still crying about those 2 girls. How many times do you find 2 lesbians who are ready for you and they were attractive 20 year olds.

@Heaven Just cause you can, doesn't mean it doesn't effect you. Actually allot of Americans resonated with Budapest when I was there, more then I see them resonate with Amsterdam for example. I think Leo has allot more orange, because he lives in an orange city. But he is also a bit of a loner so therefor he can be okay being alone and developing further into green/yellow/ or triple turquoise as he likes to call it.

@LordFall yeah looks cool

@Zen LaCroix here you go @Rishabh R for you aswell, this is what happened

I heard from several sources that bitcoin is going back up around october, it already has gone up a bit, which I am happy with as most of my money is invested in bitcoin and ethereum. I have been a bit lazy and not done much homework around following the bitcoin news. So I thought of asking you guys, what are your plans for the next few months around bitcoin?

I am not saying every woman wants a complete douchebag. But I think it is quite obvious that no girl wants a nice guy. As a men you should do everything in your power to not be a nice guy, because you are literally not being taken seriously. They think your sweet, but they will never have sex with a guy that they think is sweet. There is no desire in her to sleep with a guy that is manipulating her with nice guy behavior. It is manipulative, you might not do it consciously, but unconsciously you are being nice to get her to like you. And even if you happend to be genuinely nice, she probably would still misinterpet that as you being the nice guy leech. There is no real value in being that. Why is one guy attracting all the woman and the other guy can't even get a woman to be slightly interested? I think it has at the end to do with this, tell me if I am wrong, but I truely belief that this is the biggest thing. You put this woman on a pedestal, making yourself lower value and therefor you become almost like a beggar begging her to be with you, desperate, needy. Also then if she doesn't want to escalate after you bought her something, you are trying to provide for her when she doesn't want to be provided for, how is that not manipulative, how can you be dissapointed that she is friendzoning you when you are thinking that by spending 5 euro on her meal or coffee she should want to be with you. This is redicilous. At some point every guy has to accept this truth, if you don't then you will either get a girlfriend that uses you and might be cheating behind your back with a guy that she actually desires or you will end up alone, I don't know which one is worse. Truely it is that serious, it is not just something about picking up girls, it is about the whole relationship. The whole relationship will be ruined if you do this. Every guy that I have ever met that is good with girls is alpha, grounded, good energy, not needy, not a nice guy, every single one. I just want to make this post to wake up some guys on here that think they can get maybe a 6 and just settle for less to then be nice to her and be happy without learning how to be a men. This is the reason I make this post, because I am actually terrified for your future, you are probably a good dude and mean well, but that doesn't matter, in this world that doesn't matter. If you wanted to be a good nice angel, you should have been born a woman or remain celibate.

I think that is why it is also easier to get a girl that you are less attracted to, simply because you act less interested

@Inliytened1 yes and if I am totally not interested, they are totally interested, it is so strange, I mean it makes sense, but it is strange.

@Inliytened1 haha yeah, that is important. I don't know woman chase those who walk away and are disinterested, when I am very interested in her, I put her on a pedestal and she loses interest. It is a weird thing.

@Inliytened1 do you feel you are even interested in woman? Today I was talking to the woman and I was like, you guys are so boring. I don't know never had it this much, but because I wasn't interested I felt it helped me allot to make them interested in me.

@Inliytened1 Yes I noticed today, I was talking with a set for like 20 mins or so and I barely said shit, they just talked and atleast 4 times I wanted to walk away, because I felt like I was wasting my time. I literally walked 2 steps away and then was like, okay maybe just a little longer. Maybe I should just chill and ask questions as you said

@Inliytened1 so what do you do when anxiety starts to come up in the conversation? Like 2 mins in or so. Because that is what happens in my first few approaches

@Inliytened1 It was weird, because today I felt like it took 15 to 20 approaches to have that approach anxiety to be gone (mostly) and only from there started my genius come alive. And after 60 approaches you start to feel like a king. New God complex unlocked. Like some power ranger spirit. Anyways if Valach says do 3 approaches, then I will be with way too much approach anxiety in those conversations probably.

@Inliytened1 how many girls do you approach on a night? but you also drink right? The problem is that I am sober, so therefor if I have approach anxiety I feel it allot more. I could drink, but I think drinking is stupid and ruins my health.

@Inliytened1 I want to become better, more confident, more abundance (dating options), more attractive, I am not really looking for a serious girlfriend as that is like a fairytale to me, but maybe a short relationship. I don't think I want a serious relationship at the moment, unless the perfect angel comes falling from heaven, but that is unlikely. So I don't mind a shorter relationship of a month/ 2 months, one night stands where she never calls back is not what I am aiming for, because that would sound like I did something wrong and she doesn't want to talk to me again, but if she is like open to talking and being atleast friends afterwards, then I am okay with it, fuck I am so nice, like seriously I don't want to make her regret the next day what she did.

@Inliytened1 don't get me started, I don't want to get banned

@Inliytened1 don't encourage me you little devil hehe

@Valach after 3 approaches I am just warmed up, how does that help anything?