Preety_India

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  1. @ColeMC01 I forgot one more thing. Don't put effort around a woman who is not getting seduced easily. Bad try. Part of my issue or weakness was that I was getting seduced pretty easily. So the guys had no trouble in seducing me. My ex seduced me in the very first conversation to sex. So. You need to hunt for women who are more easily seduced. Won't work with women who are tougher with men. Or who are too closed off. Be a bad boy for sometime. Just for show and edginess.. Not actual bad boy.. Play cheap games. Be flirty and fun. Remove that nice boy image. Image makeover. Get down and get dirty. Get flirty and dirty..
  2. @ColeMC01 sorry about that. I'm not sure what to say if the attraction is missing. Maybe read some books on how to build attraction. You said in your original post that you are not flirty. That's a huge problem. I've never been attracted to men who aren't flirty. That's fundamental to me. I get bored if the guy isn't flirty. That's a standard trait. Not flirting with a woman is like keeping her dry. You need to know how to make a woman wet. That's a key thing. After all this is romance and not a friendship festival. For that learn push pull romantic games. Try to tease her, dominate her, romance her, drop sexual cues and signals, appreciate her beauty and body, if you have a great rapport with her you could touch her arms or hold her sometimes, just flirt a lot to show you're interested, sometimes piss her off, act detached, act like a punk, start a fight over nothing, white knight her, build sexual tension, act arrogant, simp her, create sexual pressure by acting desperate for her sexual attention, overpower her verbally, show that you care but dominate, be affectionate but dominating, try to kiss her, show sexual interest. I can't get more ideas. Basically seduce her. Good luck.
  3. @ColeMC01 just go out and meet a lot of girls. It seems like you don't have much to work on yourself since your life looks pretty much sorted out to me.. So that angle is solved. What you need is experience with women. So talk to a lot of them, gradually you will find the one that you like or someone with whom your chemistry is working, someone who finds you compatible to her and she likes your company. That way you land the girl. By telling people here you won't find her. You need real practice. Go to different places and socialize and you'll find a girl. Attracting a girl is not just about you and your skills but also about finding the right person to have a connection. By meeting just 1 girl, you can't have it. You need to meet several women in many different places. Don't hang out in bars, maybe they will reject you. Also don't go for the hottest girl. Try out average girls around you, they are more likely to accept you. That way you get a girlfriend. Having a steady girlfriend gives you a lot of opportunities to learn how to talk to a woman and enjoy her company. This is some hard work. You should also have money to take her out. Be talkative. Talk a lot to her. Travel with her. Be her best buddy. Its not gonna happen without showing interest in many women. You try many and at least you find one that has a chemistry with you.. It's not so much about you but how much effort and investment you put into it. You just aren't trying. Much of the experience that guys get is direct and that's how they actually learn, not by some guru. @ColeMC01 also learn to take rejection and take it as fun. Don't get upset.
  4. So for me there are many different spiritual modes or models tailored along the Spiral Dynamics model. Stage Purple Model Patumba Stage Blue Model Religion and Connection Stage Yellow Model Chakra System 3 forms of spirituality to include in my life. ?Baseline Spirituality - Chakra, Maslow, and Spiral Dynamics, Self Discipline, Personal Discovery, Self Awareness, Mindfulness and Consciousness. ?Blue Spirituality - Religion, Christianity, Witchcraft. Orthodox systems. Gender based spirituality - feminine masculine duality. ? Purple Spirituality - Patumba, tribal models, Eagle Mountain Spirituality.
  5. Non spiritual chakras Root and sacral Basic spirituality chakras Basic pack Solar Plexus - raw wisdom, productivity. Flourishing Heart - love and empathy. Energy work Throat - researching and exploring truth.. And developing healthy paradigms and worldviews. Third Eye - energy and Intuition Crown Tier 1 - being mindful and conscious about everything and investing in truth and karma
  6. Spirituality can be into 3 main categories Values Consciousness Energy
  7. Reptilian chakras Root sacral Lower Spirituality chakras. Energy chakras Solar plexus. Heart Higher Spirituality chakras. Consciousness. Throat, Third Eye and Crown Chakra
  8. Morality should not come from a skydaddy. It comes from love. Sorry.
  9. I have been not very clear on this subject in relationships. It does have a ground of confusion and debate. Enough clarity doesn't exist on this topic I wanted a Megathread where people will discuss neediness. Different elements to discuss - Needy behavior, examples of needy behaviors. Genuine examples of needy behaviors versus when you are gaslighted as needy or projected as needy even when you're not. Also want people to elaborate how being needy is different from actually having basic needs. The pros and cons of needy behavior. How to avoid needy behavior. The subconscious psychology of needy behavior. When to call yourself or the other person is needy. What needy people should do. And when such behavior is slightly okay and when slightly overboard. How to balance neediness for both men and women. Please discuss all the above aspects in this Megathread to remove confusion and bring clarity to this topic. It seems many people are very confused on the subject of neediness. Me too. Thanks
  10. Embrace grace and mixed
  11. This journal will be used to study the Bible.
  12. It's the most vulnerable that need the most help.
  13. Short description of different chakras. Short classification Root and Sacral Chakras - Survival chakras. Basic physical survival and animalistic instincts. These are the Reptilian Chakras Gender - neutral Solar plexus - the major masculine productivity chakra, one of the lower spirituality chakras.. Gender - masculine Heart chakra - the major feminine love chakra, one of the lower spirituality chakras. It can also be higher spirituality. Gender - feminine Brain chakras. Throat chakra - expression, creativity. Creative brain. Lower brain. Intellectual skill. Great analysis and reasoning. Rational understanding and deconstruction. Objectivity. Smaller truths. Gender - masculine Third eye chakra - Intuition. Intuitive wisdom. Raw wisdom. Intuitive brain. Energetically strong. Tribal wisdom Gender - feminine Crown chakra - higher expanding wisdom and consciousness. Truth. Conscious brain. Bigger truth Neutral gender. Evocative. Cultivable.
  14. You're never really awakened. Your consciousness is always growing. Like this... https://youtu.be/00crN5J5drc
  15. I forgot. You came late. Pfft. Now who's gonna save me from Covid.
  16. Intuitive and Counterintuitive For the Feminine Intuitive Healthy intuitive (productive) Unhealthy intuitive (unproductive or Counter productive) For the masculine Counterintuitive Healthy Counterintuitive (productive) Unhealthy Counterintuitive (unproductive or Counter productive)
  17. On the forum I learned about relationships, society, politics etc. In the last 20 days.
  18. After a 20 day rigorous stint on the forum I learned a lot in a very short span. My knowledge and awareness of things and solutions increased by at least 30% Next I want to focus on a ton of knowledge and understanding