Preety_India

Dissolve the attachment. Think that you're loving that person in letting them go. A man is known more by his actions

@integral This is my last thread on the forum. If I get any more ideas in the future that are aligned to all stages, I'll add them here.

It is green that's why.

Stage Pink

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Lol

@Yog lol. Nice though..

Stage Pink

Then you have misunderstood femininity. Femininity is about growth, fertility and positive motivation. You're taking it as something passive. Feminine growth is strong and positive and empathetic. If you integrate it, it's very helpful.

Luciferian consciousness To lose or deny free will and make everything determined To deny life and its progress which is first survival and then meaning then significance To deny the need for truthful speech and authenticity To destroy the self instead of redeeming it To deny relationships and conclude there is no need for relationships. To deny that matter exists Lucifer seeks to reing in arrogance and denies responsibility Make everything become determined To deny the need for truth and authenticity To deny relationship

Thanks for the share

Deflection as a strategy.

Why you should never be a victim of narcissists Well. A large number of people that you meet are narcissists. Too many. I can say from personal experience that nearly 80% of people that you come across are narcissists. It's important to keep a strict screening system in place to screen people before allowing them into your life And keep many criteria and shit tests and a thick screen to allow only a minimum number of non threatening non narcissist non malignant non sociopathic and decent people into your life. People who won't back stab you I'll elaborate on how to detect narcissists as soon as you can like instant ways.. This screening is extremely important. Most narcissists are Abusers and you might sense a general sense of fear or Insecurity around them. Remember that loving decent people would never make you feel insecure or scared or on edge. Anyone who makes you feel even a little negative or upset is a huge red flag.

To be very frank, I'm very conflicted on this topic. I don't think true diplomacy is actually possible. Maybe it's a quality of narcissists. It depends on the parties involved. If both are narcissists then it works. But if one of the parties is totally sincere then they can actually figure out all the diplomatic bullshit. Also in real life, everything is not black and white. There are strong egos, survival needs, lack of trust, deep psychological issues and traumas and experiences that color our perceptions and biases, all of it put together means some people just can't get along others no matter however diplomatic they try to be, it will always backfire. Let's say I'm trying to be diplomatic with my friends to get along with them, there will always be a point where I will say to myself "no, I can't do this. I can't support them with this." Similarly if I'm trying to be diplomatic with my boss, I might reach a point where his Behavior might cause me to have a fallout with him. What I concur is that, through personal experience where I have tried to be extremely diplomatic with several people only to let go in the end and surrender to my true sentiments, is that diplomacy is short term and for certain casual situations, it's not a long term strategy and if used that way, you land in the cross hairs of immorality where going any further means compromising with your own principles and that is not acceptable to honest individuals and that's where you start to back off with your diplomacy and dump it in the fire and just tell the person straight up whatever you felt. Human beings are not designed to get along with each other, because they are guided by selfishness. All that diplomacy is good short term. But long term the strategy eventually backfires, this happened with me too many times where I reached a wall or dead end and then I stopped being diplomatic. Also a true person does not want that diplomacy and sooner or later they walk away from the deal or relationship. I do the same when I see someone being too diplomatic. It takes away the essence of genuineness. It's okay if someone is not fighting the greater jihad, as long as they are authentic they can be forgiven.

Can you explain me what this greater jihad and lesser jihad is? What does that phrasing mean?

That's awesome

@DrewNows yep What do you exactly mean when you say a snake rising up the spine. It's like the coolest thing I have heard..

@DrewNows that ciakar looks cute

This is a bit stage Orange mentality. I recommend you to integrate the Feminine side in you Once you take in and absorb the feminine traits in you, you will start looking for positive motivation. This is not your fault alone. This is the case for most men. They thrive on criticism negative motivation. But the highly integrated males bypass this problem

@Eph75 the problem is that even though there is transcending between stages, each stage has unique elements that do form the foundation for the next stage yet get lost in the unique elements of the next stage For example when we discuss Green we only focus on the unique aspects of Green as opposed to the Unique aspects of Orange. Both are pitted against each other and for good reason. But in stage Pink the unique aspects of each stage is highlighted instead of letting it get buried during the transcending.

@DrewNows I like the idea of the snake rising up the spine. I added your profile pic in my journal if you don't mind.

Andrew's pic lol

I don't know why you think that it lacks systems thinking. It can be operated at a system level as well and quite successfully. It's nothing but a philosophy of integration.