Preety_India

Sometimes I just feel like I need supernatural help.

@Mikael89 I am like a horse I have an insatiable appetite for learning. I was 30 times more curious and ambitious 6 years ago. But over time, the family abuse, childhood trauma and boyfriend abuse slowed me down. With the energy I had at that time, I would have written 30 threads in a day. I feel sad that I can't reverse back time and become who I was in school and college. I was insane and I was like pure stage orange. I achieved a ton of medals in school. I was just achieve achieve achieve. I still have that drive, but it's greatly reduced

All of life is an experience, sometimes good and sometimes bad. I see both duality and non duality I also think that transcending the ego is important but having a healthy ego is also nice. One way of transcending is the awareness of the ego itself and its reactions. Ego transcendence is fighting the ego to retain the original self. Understanding that the ego is separate from self and has been created by the voices in the head. This ego is formed from the mind's falsified delusions of the self For example if you feel very insecure when there is nothing to feel insecure about, or feel triggered when nobody did anything, this is a vested ego showing up itself in ugly ways. Recognizing its delusions and Biases is cleaning out the Ego and keeping it in its hangar is the way to go. Ego cleaning work.

Absolute sense of self and a conditioned sense of self.. Conditioned self will carry a lot of trauma and drama. You're a story. Reality is a story. You're a story within a story. Taken from a thread The situation is I had a trillion questions that I wanted to answer an hour ago, just out of deep curiosity. Real juicy ones like "why do we suffer", "how do we live a principled life", "what should I be doing with my career", "what will I dream after the body mind dies", "why did I dream this specific dream right now, why am I this specific physical avatar" and a whole lot more cool

Do self love. I also depended on men. It wasn't good. EFt tapping, self love practices, shamanic breathing. Ego transcendence. That will set you free. What you're not realizing is your own lack and wanting to fulfill it in unhealthy ways. This leads to a pattern of self destructive relationships in the hopes of finding that ultimate love cure. Until you realize it's a false shadow of the self. A shadow causing you to think in certain ways. Liberate yourself from that shadow and you'd never want to look at that girl again You are right now in the love addict stage. You will attract a love avoidant I'm finally free from love addiction.

LfcCharlie4 LfcCharlie4 Member Posted 20 minutes ago · Read No Mind, No Problem by Ramaji, this book & meditTuon teChnique helped me so much with this question, no answer here will fulfil you, you gotta find it out yourself...

I have arrived to an insight which I will call absolute reality and conditioned reality.. Conditioned reality is something that you create. Absolute reality is something that exists on its one devoid of all conditions, stories and drama and is permanent. Like a Clean slate.

I like your contemplative brain

So what happens when someone attacks me with a knife? Do I think that I don't exist or my self is an illusion and no longer defend myself? If the self does not exist, then why should I defend myself?

Does this mean that you and me are separate?

Philosophical questions for future contemplation Who is God? What is reality? What is our relationship with reality? Do I believe in duality and non duality? What is Infinity? What is consciousness? What is enlightenment? What is spirituality? Who is "I"? What is ego? What is the hero's journey? What is the dark night of the soul? What is ego backlash? What is ego transcendence? Whats the meaning of life? What is the universe? What is Self or does self exist? Whats the purpose of human beings?

Break down your mental filters of logic, interpretation, reasoning and rationality. Disillusioning. Brainwashing. Bamboozling. Infantilizing. What stage of the Spiral is needed to cure this? Solid blue is the cure Blue. Minimal blue Blue and red Orange and Blue Turquoise and Blue One thing that a narcissist always does is break down your mental defenses through constant Gaslighting.

Thank God. What you did was right. He could have attacked you and harmed you because he was drunk. Never take chances with such people. Their anger can really harm. Treat it like a pile of garbage. Would you like to go near a garbage and sniff through it? Because if you do, you'll be getting the infection, the garbage will stay the same. The best it to recognize that it's garbage and move away from it and let the situation be gone. You waited for the person to leave which is the best way to approach negative toxic garbage people in life. Don't let yourself be harmed by their destructive tendencies.

Trying to make sense of reality. TTMSOR.

When you connect dots on a map, you get the answer. A mechanism to feed the ego Drivel of incel groups.

Some cool insights. Tiny abuse groups. Lost boys doing the dirty job for Peter Pan New Psychological Trends. Peter Pans and jerking lost boys. Fanboys fanboying. Mushrooming everywhere. Some token ladies. Bandwagon effect. MPM and Toxic Waste Pipeline.

Peter Pan and his Lost boys on a remote island, cozying up to each other and circle jerking each other. Haa

@Dodo I'm simply pointing your finger to another direction. Don't take my criticism as arrogance. I'm simply trying to help you. Don't engage in these thoughts like "I'm this" "I am" "I am all." so on and on. You don't understand that this is a distraction. Your ego is playing tricks on you and I'm showing you the trickery. What you're looking for is a finite answer to the universe through interpretation of casual relationships.. The problem is that consciousness is infinite and not limited by expressions like "I am". You should focus on expanding your consciousness and not in these truth or dare mind games. The I that you're talking about just doesn't exist. You are in a sea of consciousness and everything is only that. In looking at the moon, you are missing the sky. There was a deeper reason why I was criticizing you, to show you the mask of such thoughts that arise from the ego's needs to fulfill a doctrine, an assumption, a thought or an interconnection. Just wanted to leave your thread with this

@electroBeam have you seen a pendulum? Tell me what it represents, sussh, it's duality.

Boredom is peace misunderstood. Desire is just fear by another name. Taking drugs and thinking that you are happy is like taking a loan and thinking you have money. Happiness may be nothing but a lack of imagination. 99% of your worries today will amount to nothing in a few years; mindfulness is how you understand it now. For most people travel only broadens the photo-album, never the mind. If you need a degree to do it, it’s not going to make you wealthy. Inner peace will give you a face lift that money can't buy. Getting lost is part of getting there. The best relationships are built when you don’t need them. Nothing is lost except, eventually, the illusion of ever possessing it. The fewer words required, the deeper the understanding. The larger the group, the worse the conversation. Being right or wrong is always subject to timeframe and perspective. We are conscious of pain, but not its absence. If you don’t feel embarrassed by what you wrote a year ago, grow faster. You can be burnt to ashes by the same fire that nicely warms you. The difference between sounding smart and being smart is “I don’t know.” To mistake the name for the thing, that is the danger of philosophy. Have the drive to achieve a goal in one year, but the patience to achieve it in ten. Flow is always there. You're just in the way. The relationship you have with yourself will determine all your other relationships. You miss the present when you’re scared of missing it. Suppose nothing is wrong. What do you do, then? All self-help boils down to "choose long-term over short-term." Today's sin is tomorrow's alternative lifestyle. To have better friends, have fewer friends. A taste of freedom can make you unemployable. Salt water is and isn't the ocean. The goal of media is to make every problem, your problem. You are the only person who remembers your embarrassing moments.

This is one of the posts that I liked. Meta-Man This was a constant thorn in my side throughout my life as well. Rediscovering spirit is the true cure to this soulcrushing predicament. So you have to awaken. And as you might’ve heard, awakening equals death. And death equals absolute freedom. At some point you’d rather die than keep struggling. So in short the solution is to let go of the one that is suffering, struggling, efforting. Who is it that is working? The ‘I’ is always the problem, not the situation. Less ‘I’ equals less of a storyline/narrative (which weighs heavy on you). «I am in this and that life situation and it sucks» <- that thought/story is the suffering. More spirit in your life means more presence, joy, wonder and lightness. Awakening will let you sink into effortlessness, to the point where if you let go of the ‘I’ completely, you are no longer driving the vehicle. You leave it all to God. This is what putting ones faith in God really means. This is the ultimate laziness. There's so much text on this thread. Omg.

This is nice for Counterintuitive thinking. Thanks.

I have taken enough of this forum's dogma.. Tremendous Gaslighting of anyone who opposes even a little. Just abuse. I'm so done