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@Arcangelo just don't give your information to anyone and you will be safe. Be with people who you can trust. I do the same. I trust you.

@Keyhole I like the cat/kitten in your pic. Is that yours.

@abrakamowse thank God. Sue them. I'm cracking up. The best news is going to be on January 20 2021.

@Soulbass welcome after many days!!

I'm turning to psychedelics next year.

One thing that you need to know is that statistics are very important. Even if you did encounter a narcissist and ended up being victimized understand that there are many many people out there who won't show such tendencies in their behaviors so don't be discouraged. Also remember that every relationship that you have is not going to be with a narcissist especially as you learn to screen them really well and cast them aside. Learn it from the start to keep narcissists out for good. There will be many early detection signs that will tell you that someone is a narcissist. Usually they have some clues somewhere. Have a keen sense of observation to keep filtering them out as much as you can. Now let's say you have 10 relationships. At least one will work out. Yes it's a lot of hard work but statistically at least one relationship will be workable. So use statistics in your life. Of course it's a ton of hard work. But use a thumb rule and that is, screen at least 30 people and cast them aside before you select one person as good and decent. This is the criteria. Don't call a person "good" right away. Carry a list of criteria that they need to fulfill before they can be called good. Don't be too easy. Be serious and harsh with screening. Your chances are directly proportional to how hard you screen people in your life.

Ways to motivate oneself every day.

I slept really well last. So I'm feeling good. Baby it's all gonna get better.

Lmao you don't develop immunity like that.

Understanding that narcissists aren't evil but they are what they are. This is their psychological condition that inevitably ends up being hurtful to others. Also having a keen sense of recognition of Narcissists, Sociopaths, Psychopaths, Toxic Bipolars. You can have a Narcissistic Psychopath which is a very dangerous condition. You can have a Narcissistic Sociopath. But I like to categorize these people in different ways. Sociopathic Narcissist. Psychopathic Narcissist Bipolar Narcissist. Bipolar Psychopathic Narcissist Bipolar Sociopathic Psychopathic Narcissist. This I will call BSPN. These are generally the worst kind because they are so interested in hurting the other person in a relationship. They have a pleasure seeking neuronal pattern that is linked to seeking pleasure out of others hurt or misery, it's a case of sadistic tendency. Their bipolar condition acts like a safety guard because they forget the things they have done and continue as though nothing happened. Psychopathic component allows them to carefully plan how to target a potential victim.

It's not that easy and I myself struggle a lot with being gentle with myself. Sometimes I think if I felt intensely loved, I wouldn't have a problem with this. It possibly comes from a deep sense of deprivation or not receiving enough love in life which is an absolute necessity.

@Vipassana oh.

Time to sleep.

What does that even mean?

Just be your authentic self and have "I don't give a damn" attitude and you'll see you're less bothered by what others think. Try to be grounded in yourself. Hold on to your own set of beliefs. Don't surrender to other's views.

It's both masculine and feminine. Remember the sperm is a seed full of new promise and creativity.

@PurpleTree I can spout some bullshit and say that I believe it truly. That's not genuineness. By that logic every psychic is genuine. Genuineness means how close that person's ideas, concepts and projections are to reality. You get to test someone by comparing what they say to reality. She has already gotten it wrong by comparing Aquarius to feminine when Aquarius is strongly masculine and ordered Aquarius is known for order and discipline which is a great masculine trait similar to Aries. Pisces is very chaotic and feminine.

@Heart of Space in a way his parody is a blessing. Someone was needed to balance out the whole new agey spiritual wave. His parody helps me see the blindspots. Yes I agree I see some narcissism in his style of delivery, nevertheless his brand is set apart from everyone else and is unique. He is also good at parodying most stages of spiral dynamics and that's good too. Parody is absolutely essential as a form of art in understanding the gaps that we unintentionally bypass while trying to embody any philosophy or system of ideas The thing is JP is able to understand that in the end, nothing is completely perfect and we can't really rely on any system purely and every system has its flaws that are generally ignored in wanting something to hold on to. For me that's the greatest takeaway from his videos. Hint - JP should make a video on Actualized.org. That would go down in history as the greatest hit.

@PurpleTree I don't find her genuine.

Yea I can fix it. Just go to your browser. Click on the three dots on the upper right corner. Then click on settings and then privacy and then click on clear browsing data. Then under Advanced click on Cookies and Site data. A new window opens showing you the list of last websites you visited. Only click on Actualized.org and uncheck others. Click OK. And now all cookies for Actualized.org are deleted. Now you can post and no quotes or boxes will appear and you can post without problems. Leo taught me this.

@PurpleTree I don't find her genuine. Total fake

Calling oneself selfish for not liking something is another Fake morality pushed down your throat by moralists. It's just a choice of what to dislike and avoid.

@PurpleTree she is wrong. Pisces is feminine energy. Aquarius is masculine.

If the whole objective of forgiving was to simply annoy someone... Alas! The whole objective of forgiveness has been muddied. Do not lose yourself in trying to show others the direction.