Preety_India

Going to post hourly updates.

It's 5 am. So 12 hours back from this point is that is 5 pm yesterday in the evening. So evening hours - like 10 or 12 hours ago. 7 pm will be 10 hours ago. So roughly anywhere between 10 to 12 hours ago.

Haha. What a strange law.

Agree. Gems are always rare and rarer.

I know right. It's the most ridiculous thing ever.

One word to describe all of this in a single phrase "be charming."

@Keyhole lol that was a sweet gif. Haha. Kitty says yes to Leo.

@Peter-Andre agree

Why does it matter if someone is called a nazi?

@Nahm mods please close this thread. It's enough!!

I have a certain kind of sadomasochistic attraction to Dominant males. I find myself in a submissive role around such men. However I'm often left feeling guilt over my attraction. Is this healthy attraction? I also get feelings where I feel like I want to be raped by such a dominant male (like a strange rape fantasy) in such a way that it repeats or continues the inner trauma in me. I don't know why I get such dark thoughts. It feels like a relief to recreate/relive traumatic scenarios because it feels like familiar attachment or at least a memory of such bonding /attachment. Also being controlled sexually by a dominant male creates a false sense of security, but security nevertheless. But I don't want any random male to do this. Only the male I'm attracted and seduced by and someone I connect with.

@Sauvik I've never supported abusive behavior in my post. So be careful with your judgement. Hard sex or rough sex or extra playful sex is not Abusive behavior. It's my sexual fantasy and no need to congrats me and then go on to put me down. A girl expressed her sexual fantasy. Big deal????????? No I'm not looking for some disrespectful man to disrespect me. Understand the boundary between disrespect and sexual fantasy. And no. I never said that I get attracted to disrespectful men, they are a huge turn off for me and I reject them right away. To impress me it takes a ton. So don't be quick to judge.

The whole thing that the left calls everyone a nazi is so over the top. Well don't spread nazi type ideas if you don't want to be called one. People say bigoted things but when the Left lashes back with a big roar, they instantly begin to play victim. You can't have your cake and eat it too.

I guess you're losing yourself a bit here. I understand that she shouldn't be so flirtatious if she doesn't want it to go further. These are simply mind games that both men and women play to be frank. You don't have to take it seriously. There is always a way to test the waters. Respond back in a flirty way when someone is being flirty to you. I know it's difficult but don't have a sudden emotional attachment to what people say when they really don't mean it. One way is to be tough and not give into the temptation of ending up looking fooled. Just say something flirty or "I knew you would say that" something along those lines and then be busy with your work. A person who is genuinely interested would have a serious conversation with you later. Give them your number instantly. That's the litmus test for women. And the other test is if she turns up for a date. Ask her out for a Saturday dinner. Is she ready? If her messages are nothing beyond a hi or hello then she is just flirting, nothing wrong with flirting but dropping hints of something being there is very annoying. I personally had such experiences with some men at work and the best that I do is simply avoid them because generally such play very annoying mind games. An example of such mind games can be where a coworker is friendly with me on a day and next day acts like he doesn't know me. It's a mild form of passive aggressive behavior. I have seen women doing it too. By not responding to them you basically cut the crap and save yourself some tomfoolery. If someone gets flirty with me in a decent way, I like to be flirt as well but I don't like the ones who do it in a gamey kind of way. Those are the ones who are trying to trick psychology. One trick I use is this - if you feel utterly confused about a person and their behavior, chances are that this person is not likely the best person to be around you. People who are genuinely nice are generally the sincere types.

Think that you are not a person when you get intrusive thoughts. Cures all problems instantly.

Umm no. Going blue is not much of a difference for a stage Red audience if the blue is tailored to help them maintain their status quo. Nobody said there is a problem with his psychology lectures. His psychology lectures are okay. But his political doctrine is not. He is always injecting his agenda into his political statements that are not helpful for the American youth, but rather dangerous. He tries to demonize the left by making them look insignificant and diminutive yet I feel that he puts a lot of personal biases into his political ideology and this is dangerous to American society.

So true.

This is fast devolving into fiction. If it's a serious proposition I won't call it a conspiracy theory.. But generally such proposals are more fiction than reality. I read this before on the forum and someone implied it was a conspiracy theory and I didn't bother to look into it again. See how the word conspiracy theory creates confusion. Because in today's world there are so many conspiracy theories floating around and so many things being called conspiracy theories. The problem is that most conspiracy theories labeled as conspiracy theories are genuinely conspiracy theories. But the right wing media has been labeling anything legitimate as a conspiracy theory in the past couple of months so now people will need to actually sort through the actual conspiracy theories and separate them from the ones that are simply accused as conspiracy theories despite being legitimate. This looks like a rabbit hole now. Since it's associated with major high reputation companies like Google and Apple I'd be less inclined to call it conspiracy theories so I retract what I said earlier. However I'm still not sure of its efficacy, that is something only time can tell. I'm surprised that conspiracy theories about it being a conspiracy theory (can anyone notice this strange loop, it's driving me mad) are already floating around. Good luck to future generations with sitting through and sorting out and debunking through these conspiracy theories without tearing their hair apart, im sure they're going to hate conspiracy theorists a ton for creating this mess. The history book of conspiracy theories will have a ton of angry red marks all over it by kids in the future.

I'm sorry. Can't really answer your questions because certain conscience related things are involved here. And the only judge of the self is you I'd give more preference to the child personally.

@Barbara yeah

This feels like conspiracy theories stuff. Not buying this.

@WonderSeeker thank you so much. Will definitely try that.

Hmm. This is kinda hard. Actually the child never did anything to beholden this. Sometimes children are greater and larger than life. I can't advice you much. Hope things work out.

I get what you mean. But that's just a case of paranoia. My mom used to often not trust me at all and repeat the same thing nearly 10 times and more. But people like my mom are too invested in the drama aspects of things rather than trying to get along and make good things happen. I sort of misunderstood you a bit but I get your point. If I say that relationships are no good, because I was simply getting messed up with little insignificant things then my take would be born out of immaturity. But if I say relationships are not worthy because I saw a sizable chunk of my life lost sorting through it, mending it or hopelessly jumping through hoops only to land on a hard floor breaking my knees, then I'd be much wiser to stay out of relationships altogether.

@clararockmore you are so lucky to get used books on Amazon in your country. In my country it's very hard to find a used book in Amazon or other place because most people couldn't afford to buy the book in the first place and if they did they don't wanna sell it at a lower price. Wish I was living in America lol, just for the books.