Preety_India

There's always beauty in life. You simply have to be open to it.

Note to myself You know that this is abusive shit, don't you ever understand? How much dumber can you really get, huh? Get this person out of your life for God sake and never ever have anything to do with them.. You must learn. Learn that this is bad. This is straight up toxic. Learn to detect such things. When your inner voice tells you that something is not right the first time around, that's it, you got your answer. My only advice is don't trust too much...

Change will come only when you start thinking positive. That's the first step.

My next affirmation I won't let anyone or anything snuff out my light. I'm divine and I let my sacredness guide me.

A few days ago I desperately needed something to make me feel joyous and peaceful. And 4 days later the universe offered it to me. I was amazed by how the universe works. The universe is the single most beautiful thing in the world. It's like a door that opens to a treasure trove. I want to really work with the universe. Yes I will heal. I'm a survivor. Shout out to the universe. I'm already finding elements of synchronicity. I already found 2 elements. One is the universe and the other is nature of the skies. Funny how consciousness works. To the universe I call out for help, and I shout and say Although I'm a victim, I'm not a defeated victim, I am a survivor. I will triumph over my tragedies. The universe will help me

What I want is what the universe will make happen for me. This is a basic belief towards healing from abuse. Keep it.

You are the one to decide your own value. Careful with judging yourself. Your mind is constantly shaping itself around your own judgment. Don't let your shadow become your reflection.

Point noted. Very important point in male psychology and communication. Thanks for that little note.

How would a high quality man communicate in different situations? What are his mannerisms during communication? How would he communicate and handle a situation where he disagrees with what the woman says? How would he communicate in a conversation where she mocks him or triggers him? How would he communicate normally in everyday situations? How would he communicate when he sees someone in trouble or with someone who is describing their problems? The context of this discussion can vary from both dating type situations to general everyday life situations like between friends/colleagues etc

@BornToBoil you're already a better person. It's just that you aren't realizing your own value. You decided to look down on your own self and let projections win. You're always better than you think you are.

Not the final outcome of life. Planning a date is not the same as planning a suicide. You can't simply stop eating and drinking water. Your survival instinct will kick in and you will go back to eating. Some people might have suicided by starvation, though it's just another method of suicide. It's still suicide.

God loves everyone. Such is his greatness..

She is dead. But her spirit is selfless and doesn't want you dead, rather her spirit rejoices to know that you are living your life to the fullest. Dead people are not simply dead. They exist in the spirit realm in the afterlife (or the underworld as in some cultures). Spirits communicate but through a different form. My father's spirit communicated with me before his death and left me a message. Strange incidents happened in my life that made me to believe that there was much more to life than what I saw. I had a couple of supernatural experiences in my life where I felt I was saved from sudden death. When I touch my dad's walking stick, I still feel his presence to this day. I've felt many times that something was watching over me. These are not delusions. These are real paranormal experiences, however it's hard to make someone believe Even if my mother was suffering terminal illness and dying and suffering, I wouldn't want her to die. Not for myself. But because her life is sacred and time is divine. It's time that has the right to decide when a soul needs to depart. Time itself is a mysterious entity because it never goes back. It's infinite like consciousness, mysterious as cosmos. Life is not life. Life is a phenomenon. It's a spiritual phenomenon happening in a material world. As such we're nobody to decide the outcome of life.

@Dancer good to see that you are ready to have long talks with your lover.

There is no person without a mother. Even if the mother were dead, her spirit is always yearning for her children from beyond the grave. Every creation of God is sacred. In Hinduism, sacred does not necessarily mean hell or heaven. It simply means the pure and sublime, the one that should never be tainted. Life is sacred. When it's created, there's an emotion of joy. When it's gone, there are tears. No matter how much you hate your life, your soul doesn't wish to die and its desires need to be respected. Killing the body is killing the temple of the soul. The container of the heart. The spirit leaves the body on its own at an appointed time in its journey. Killing the self is an act of destroying the sacredness of the soul, smashing its true desire to live through lifetimes. Abruptly cutting the cord that brought the soul in the world. God loves you more than you will ever know. God works in mysterious ways. And God is represented in your soul. God is hurt when any life is cut short.

@WonderSeeker yea I did. It's awesome. I liked it so much, I put it in my signature lol.

Umm. Life is sacred. I've always believed in the divine sacredness of life. A beautiful soul created into existence. Imagine the pain a mother would feel when she realizes her beautiful creation has come to an end. Imagine the pain God would feel when he realizes his beautiful creation gave up hope. In every soul, there is a hope,a promise, a beauty, a spirit and a breath. Snuffing out this breath feels unfair.

@WonderSeeker I like it so much. I'll use it everyday from now. I don't even need another. Thank you a gazillion times for suggesting this.

These definitely come in handy.

This is what I found when I clicked it.

I meant your girlfriend or lover.

Good answer I've a question for you. If your woman is unsure about something and is asking you for a clarification about something you did would you have a long discussion with her (example a long text) or you would answer in an abrupt fashion (like a short abrupt answer). What would be your communication pattern in such a situation?

Before awakening, chop wood carry water. After awakening, chop wood carry water.

I love these pair of eyes. They pierce through my soul. They represent to me the benevolent devil. I feel like these eyes are giving me strength from the devil's cup. Assuring me that I need to be the better truer version of myself. These eyes say to me "Wake up." Another version of Kali. Sometimes when you are too selfless in life, life gives you a slap in the face and tells you to get up and be selfish and not be so dumb and naive. Time for me to get rid of my naivete. It doesn't serve any purpose other than getting perpetually abused by vultures and energy vampires who feed on innocent blood. Time to set boundaries and say no if I don't like to be treated the way I am being treated Don't succumb to pressure and gaslighting. Be brave. Be strong. And no longer stupid. I always felt like I lacked something in life. A certain force. A certain persona. I was always this fragile childish person. Too innocent and free. And often times some people struck me as odd by their stern exterior, their bossy intimidating presence. I was always easily submissive to such people, even sadomasochistically in some manner, their nature was a complete contrast to mine. Their domineering towering personality went very well with my fragile frame, I'm generally very sweet in real life and lots of people tell me that from time to time. My sweetness needs to compensated by someone who is stern and dominating. It's like opposing forces. I was always well received by dominating people. They would find my submissive nature perfect for their needs. I never fell in love with a submissive guy. I don't remember. I always fell for the more dominating ones, not just dominating in the bedroom but in every aspect of my life. I like to be lead on. I like to be the follower. However there's a problem with this. Often times such people come with bad intentions.. Their need for domination also means they want a certain degree of power and control and a need to exploit what they see as weak and submissive. So a lot of the domineering men that I fell in love with, who made rules for me, turned out to be abusive. I never factored that element that a lot of domination also comes with abuse. It's very hard to find a real life benevolent devil. Someone who acts like a boss, is attractive but is loving, protective and kind at the same time.

I'm doing quite okay today