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Haha that made me laugh. Constant metaness lol

The victim is entitled to label the person who is gaslighting them because they got evidence to prove that they suffered it with the person who gaslighted them. But in order to decide that someone is not a victim, the burden of proof lies on you to prove that since you made that accusation. Remember it is always innocent until proven guilty and not guilty until proven innocent So if I call you a killer and then tell you to prove that you didn't kill. If I call you that, then it should be my duty to prove it.. Similarly if you're trying to deny someone their victimhood the burden of proof lies on you to prove how you came to such a conclusion.

There are diagnosable ways to know if abuse as happened or not. There are a ton of signs and red flags. Don't assume that all victims are simple people running around with pitchforks just wanting to go on a hunt. If someone is abused, often times they will have evidence to prove it like voice recordings or text messages or the styles of communication on the basis of which it can be determined whether the person was abused or not. So there is no form of entitlement in deciding whether someone is manipulative or abusive or not because such things aren't randomly drawn out of thin air but are based and backed by solid psychological research and a body of evidence to back it up.

Can you explain me this in a different way because I just didn't understand it

Gaslighting is a powerful technique that always works. Ask any psychologist If gaslighting was nothing, why would psychologists even coin such a term? To decide whether someone has been manipulated or abused or not is a serious case of entitlement.

Now that was funny

Totally agree on that one.

True.

Snake Red eyed protector The quirky girl.

Now I've the cruel devil which I'll call the Snake and the friendly devil, the benevolent devil and the quirky devil. The quirky Devil is all about strategic improvements and better survival overall in situations and environments where survival is a juggle and direct approach would be a better way cracking the puzzle.

@Saupahar a simple question. Is your mom controlling? Does she often tell you to do things for her that you don't like to do? If your mom is controlling, you should not listen to her as it might impact your way of taking decisions in life. If your mom is not controlling, perhaps she is telling you to help her out for genuinely good reasons, in which case you can help her and lying won't be a big deal so you don't have to worry too much about it. If the lying doesn't cause anyone any harm, you might want to take the little risk. Lying is not the biggest sin on planet earth. Many people subconsciously do it. When we're trying to be moral, a part of it also means not being too militant about it to yourself or others and accommodate others behaviors without having the need to constantly judge or punish it.

Agree.

@Husseinisdoingfine BTW, someone just privately praised me for putting AOC as the profile pic. I love her, she is a terrific politician along with Bernie Sanders. I see her as a role model. Maybe you should put Bernie Sanders as your profile pic. That would be fun.

Why did your mom want you to pretend to be office staff? What happens if they recognize her voice? I'm a bit confused here. Can you be a bit clear? @Saupahar

You sure that's the only complex thing. There must be many more things you must have seen around here that must have struck as odd. No?

That's exactly as simple as it gets. cheers.

This is quite informative. Thanks.

Then in my thoughts I met a girl who was like "let's fuck them in the ass" kind of a girl. She is quite smart unlike me. She does care but she is quirky. I'll call her the quirky devil

Maybe one day you find it and it will help you. Then things will begin to look so different? It will be a different kind of enjoyment.

When I'm thinking about the archetype of the benevolent devil and the cruel devil, I'm also learning about a different kind of a devil

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Let not life fuck you over when you're simply enjoying all the simple things. The sixth sense exists for a good reason. Unless it's given up for the rest of the five.

Time for the world to call out China on the BS, not only in regard to this but for many other evil things that China does as well.

Well the only advice is not to take anything for granted or with a grain of salt. When we take things too simply, we tend to lose our senses.

What courses? Can you give me info on this?