Preety_India

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  1. Drink lots of water. It works for me.
  2. This time no joking. Serious meditation okay? Say om and breathe away the stress. Don't be a lazy ass. Be like this doggo.. Keep incense sticks, mat and candles ready. Arrange the pillow. Now start. Om..... Om...... Now look at this picture below. Stare at the gif. Breathe along with it. C'mon.
  3. @Alastair maybe people don't have the objectivity to see through a Green's perspective? Maybe people should start wearing green contact lenses in their eyes. That will cure it. Btw I got better things to do right now than bicker about Orange hating Green Have a good day.
  4. Nice woman.
  5. @Keyhole I like her soft demeanor. Instantly subscribed.. Also appreciate her autumn lipstick color. I want that lipstick so badly now..
  6. @Hardkill I think you have been misquoted or something buddy.
  7. @Alastair people always find a way to bring down A OC If you are having a bad day, I specifically ordered this for you. It's delicious yogurt. It's Greek yogurt by the way. Specially ordered from Greece.
  8. I kinda had all sorts of banshies and golems and demons and elves and gnomes in my dreams Ugh.
  9. No. I'm a bummer But one day I will do all these self development exercise stuff. Right now I'm operating in lazy mode. Covid is a good excuse for not moving my butt.
  10. How do you deal with cancer? Early Detection
  11. You're making some errors. Narcissism and sensitivity are two different things. There is an overt narcissist and then there is a covert narcissist. I've had the pleasure of dealing with both. Covert and vulnerable narcissists have a lot in common, they are quite subtle in their control and power mechanisms.. Covert narcissists are always looking for someone to latch on to.. They want a power figure in life to feel better about themselves. Overt narcissists are your regular run of the mill bossy Trump type narcissists.. Vulnerable or hyper sensitive narcissists play or engage in excessive victim role and you have to be the monster to make them feel better (excessive blaming, a key identifier is when you apologize deeply and they still don't forgive you and keep larping, and followed up with stalking once you leave them - in some ways its parasitism) Even hyper sensitive narcissists don't have enough sensitivity. They just pretend to, to have a sense of control or disguised authority over your emotions. The inherent lack of sensitivity (both in the overt and the pretentious hypersensitive narcissist) can be fixed through therapy where they can be told to integrate sensitivity and greater understanding of people around them and also be encouraged to develop more empathy for people around them. All of the subtypes of narcissists have a fundamental lack of both sensitivity (tunnel vision syndrome) and lack of empathy (zero emotion for another or lack of understanding) in some form or another. The vulnerable or hyper sensitive narcissist tends to beautifully mask this lack by superficial displays of sensitivity and empathy. This is only discovered when you scratch the surface and subject them to understanding other people's emotions and they fail the test because they try to play a victim instead of an empathizer. That's the crucial difference. That's what you were missing.
  12. Course Proficiency Catalogue 10 major branches Dark Tetrad Influences (4 subset) . Closure and wrap up for each situation . Brainstorming Room (the quirky girl) Accountability partner Words, sentences from the universe and affirmations Survival guide Tunnel water theory (finding the sweet spot)
  13. I'm getting good at detecting a hyper sensitive narcissist. Recently I had a conversation where they made a strong false accusation and I could smell the mindset to put me in the "monster" box and gaslight, I immediately said no, no and walked out. Never again. The experience with the second ex was more than enough, it got burned in my memory, not gonna have someone like that again around me.. The best solution - walk away after knowing. They don't change and you end up losing a lot if you don't detect early.
  14. So I imagine this girl in a room lecturing me. It felt good because we both were discussing issues and solutions to those issues. She was like the quirky girl minus the orange shirt. I will call this the brainstorming room with Miss B. B for brainstorming.
  15. I have been imagining a girl in my dreams for the past few days and today I woke up and saw this clothing store ad girl and she looks exactly like that Then I imagined her in a room like a dark room or underground place standing next to black chalkboards and a table. She was kinda lecturing me on something and we both were talking about certain problems in society. And there were messages written on the chalkboard that said "closure" and "wrapped up" It reminded me that whenever I was dealing with a situation, i would want to get to the bottom of it, I would closure and move on in peace only after wrapping up that situation/segment/episode /incident in my life.
  16. monad dyad triad tetrad pentad hexad heptad octad nonad decad
  17. Accountability partner.
  18. Course 10 major branches Skillset Dark
  19. You forgot to add 2 more ideal wives to the list of tradwife Stepford wife Trophy wife
  20. Also added to the list are words, phrases and sentences from the universe. And affirmations.
  21. Seems like mild concussion.
  22. 4 character subset The scary Snake Devil Scary Red Eyes or Benevolent Devil The quirky girl The Ice man All 4 combine together in an icy cold story in the mountains.