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I don't get this nice guy thing at all. Who are these nice guys. Last time a man who called himself a nice guy turned out to be a creep. My opinion is that if you approach a girl and she doesn't show interest, it's 120% your responsibility. You don't know how to present yourself. If you present yourself as lame and lacking in confidence, nobody is going to like you. It's impossible. Because you've already shown that you can't do things, you are not confident about anything. Confidence is not a small thing. Why make a mockery out of it? Confidence is a great virtue. You can develop it. Confidence means you are ready for life, you know you mean it, you can take responsibilities in life, you can take charge and you will be faithful although it's not necessary that you will be faithful. But I can tell from personal experience that it's already hard with confident men, they can still cheat turn out to be a liar. But the guys that I dated that were not confident didn't even stand a chance when it came to happiness, commitment and loyalty. It's like a waste of time. It's like writing an exam. The confident person is confident because he is well prepared and so he has at least a half chance of clearing it. The one who did not prepare has low confidence and what are the chances that he will clear the test. Confidence is key in maintaining relationships. Sadly assholes have the highest confidence but it's false and fake confidence. And women can't detect false flags. So there you go. Build confidence and most women will want you. It's not about nice guy or not nice guy. It's all about confidence If you are a nice guy with great confidence you will get any girl you like.

@soos_mite_ah profile is so cute . Love.

You are right

It will be a huge error to straight up integrate the feminine without integrating the masculine first. There will be no polarity.

I did not fall for his looks. I fell for him because he showed me love and affection. I'm crying so much for him because I considered him my one true love. I had deep feelings for him because I shared so much with him. I was emotionally mature with him. He shared everything with me. That made our bond stronger. He constantly told me that I was his soulmate and that he will never find a woman like me. Nobody had ever told me like that before him, guys had liked me before but they were not so emotional like him. I trusted him. Why would I find beautiful or handsome men? I've no interest left now to find a man. Because most of them lie about loving. They don't actually love, it's only sex is what they want. But they don't say it Even men who don't want sex only, they want something more, but whatever they want is temporary. Once time passes by, they get bored. Men what many women but they hide this. At the same time they can't take a woman wanting many men They will justify their own cheating but if the woman cheats they will resent her forever. They will call her a bad person. But If they cheat, it's OK because it serves their purpose. Everyone has interest who doesn't? You act like a man is being selfless in a relationship. He is also with her because he gets pleasure and company. Why expect a woman to be charitable toward a man when a man can't do that to her? Maybe a man is with a woman because he is unable to get the next hot girl. Same right? Yea in that case he shouldn't have been with me and gave me false hope of love and trust? That's called cheating and there is no justification for cheating. If you don't love someone, don't be with them to use them for temporary time and then dump them when the job is done or the person is no longer needed. Remember he approached me showing how much he wanted and loved me. I didn't approach him. Lying to someone about love is called manipulation. You guys get so fired up if a woman is manipulative. Then you act so cool when a man is doing the same and breaking women's hearts. That time you suddenly become cold and start justifying hurtful actions. Hurt is hurt. Hurt doesn't come with a gender tag. Both women and men can get hurt. And you are acting oh oh so hurt because women rejected. Women also get hurt when men play games with their hearts. Yes. Haha what a joke. Most men do this. It's tough to know if someone is with you for genuine reasons or not. You can't blame the house owner for being robbed. Blame the robber.. It's easy to blame a woman who falls in love quickly. At the same time you will also blame a woman if she tried to test your love. You want a woman to easily fall in love with you and fall for your tactics, you hate her when she doesn't. When she does, you lecture her and say it's her fault that she didn't scan enough. Make up your mind. If women started scanning hard, more guys will be rejected, then you will start whining again. Be grateful that women are not too hard on you. Or else we won't have such a big population on the planet When you show power it's called masculine power. When women have the power, it's considered a threat. Women get rejected just like men but they don't keep whining 24/7 about it. They silently move on because they are taught to take things gracefully and move on. Men are not what they wanna show they are.. Men defend themselves because they are men, not because they are being right Of course. No man needs anything. PUA is coded in his DNA.

It was a relationship at the end of the day. I didn't cheat on him because I truly loved him. He didn't love me.. And decided to use me. End of the story. It's not like men don't do wrong things. Half of you guys, if you ever get a truly loving wonderful beautiful woman, you will immediately cheat on her with the next hot girl and won't have a problem with breaking her heart. Everything that comes from a guy's mouth is a lie. He says that he loves a woman. But then he cheats on the same woman he claims to love Then bitch about how women don't like nice guys. The nice guy is just an illusion, a lie.. Haha your pickup gurus teach you exactly that...... Lie and manipulate. Pump and dump..

That's not the reason. I decided in my mind that I won't judge a guy even if he got nothing. Give credit to movies like Titanic that glorify loving anybody and the whole misleading concept of true love. Yes it was true sincere love from my side. But true love hardly gets rewarded. Lesson learned - world is fake and loves fake tits

I broke up because he was abusive and a cheater. I helped him get a job and then when he got some money he immediately started cheating. I felt used and played. So much for really loving a man from the bottom of my heart That he stomped on my heart.. I get called a love bird. Yea im being called a stupid fool for loving a poor guy who pretended to be the nicest guy..

Yes.

These people talk about how they will have money and every woman will want you. Then how come I fell in love with a homeless man who had not a penny in his pocket. These same men who complain about how women will love them if they have money are the same ones who will chastise and insult me for falling in love with a poor man

@Leo Gura so what's your opinion on men Integrating the feminine? Shouldn't they?

I believe that Angels exist. Angels. I don't think I can take it any longer. Maybe some angel can take me with them and liberate me from my pain. It is difficult. Life is difficult. I can't take anymore. And I don't have the courage to commit suicide. I feel helpless and trapped. I wish my soul could be set free from this terrible world I was born into. I don't find peace. My soul wants to be done with this world for good. My soul cannot take the strain of life. I wish I could die right now but I can't because I don't know how to off myself. I have no way of living in this world of demons and vampires and people who look trustworthy but are actually cunning and manipulative and fake. Nobody wants to do shit. CALLING ME A DRAMA QUEEN DOESN'T HELP ME. CALLING ME ANYTHING DOESN'T HELP ME. I'M FED UP WITH FAKE FRIENDS. I'M FED UP WITH FAKE LOVERS AND FAKE BOYFRIENDS WHO ONLY WANT TO USE ME. I'M FED UP WITH FAKE FAMILY MEMBERS. I'M FED UP WITH THE DEVIL WHO DESPERATELY WANTS ME DEAD BECAUSE I FEEL HIS PRESENCE LAUGHING AT MY PAIN ALL THE TIME I'M TIRED OF LIFE.... TIRED OF ALL THE ABUSE.

This is how I feel too. I want men to understand intimacy and integrate femininity. But all they care about is sex and attraction. How can a woman be emotionally attracted to a man who does not hear her at all?

@MarcusAuron I can finish it for you by wearing a red dress.

That's his choice. Well nobody can stop him if he wants to make videos on that. But as a general suggestion, it distracts Leo from all of the consciousness videos. It also distracts audiences.. I would rather focus on @Leo Gura spiritual content.

And I'm not in the favor of Leo making more videos on dating like the above user said. Leo is quite good with what he is already doing. Enlightenment stuff that I really enjoy. Don't want Leo to regress from 3D to 2D.

@Gesundheit Leo already has a huge thread on this. To All Struggling Males Stop Playing Victim

This diagram complements the above diagram perfectly. I can see different aspects here. (I guess I broke psychological down into desire, memory, belief and physical down into external world and body the black background was where I represented consciousness the background to everything) ok, I meant it in the sense that people want only one of 2 things generally. To solve a problem in their life, or to achieve a goal of some kind. The two can both be the same obviously. Then to do that, you usually have to take consistent action over a long period of time. To do that you need to have a consistent mindset and thought patterns over a long period of time. To do that you need to understand the major factors that influence your thought patterns: Body Emotions External World (and everything that happens in it) Your desires, beliefs and your memory Then I showed that all those things are interconnected and affect each other. (Blue lines) Then each individual will need to work on different blue lines, using different techniques. For example one person might need to work on their emotions to affect their body, which will then affect their emotions and develop new memories that will create better beliefs that will lead to stronger or more evolved desires that will lead to better action. The different theriapies listed in red show what those things mostly focus on affecting. Which is why some things work really well for some people at a certain point on their journey, but not well for others. Or not well at a later point in time. I liked how thought was placed in the center. Because everything begins with a thought. Also consciousness in the background is a great idea. In this sense, thought is a primordial body and consciousness functions as a primordial soup in which primordial bodies arise and sink. I think the word subconscious should also be included. Because that's the repository for our thoughts. there are subconscious and unconscious elements to the body, thoughts, emotions, external world, memory, desires. for example usign the law of attraction will primarily affect your desires, beliefs and emotions but not so much your body or your external world, directly... only indirectly later also using psychological therapy won't fix a broken bone in your body directly. its more focused on the aspects that the red lines point to. These are real life techniques that impact the hexagon of thought belief body emotion desire memory external

This is it. I cannot go further than this. I worked too hard to come this far.

I actually hate the idea of power.. Confidence is one thing. Confidence is about creating trust. Whereas power is too red for me. So women who like power are definitely a bit messed up.

Yea stage green injections are always in short supply. The whole Blue Red thing lags overall human development.. Honestly I wish more countries were greener by now. It sucks tbh

@Parththakkar12 you want to portray women as these horrible manipulative men loathing, opportunistic selfish hateful creatures. But you want to paint men as angels and saints. None are. That's human nature. If you put women on a pedestal, that's your fault and your dissonance to deal with.

These are your statements. If that's not hateful then I don't know what is. You seem to be having a problem with demonizing patriarchy. But you don't see a problem demonizing women throughout all your statements. It pays us to see that women generally don't care on a biological level. It takes a special individual to actually have compassion for men and to actually not want men to fight each other. Also, it pays us to see that 'toxic masculinity' is toxic only when it hurts women, not when it benefits women! Not when women can manipulate it to their ends.

Well then you hate women only when they don't benefit you. Same.

That's a misogynistic mindset. Well it benefits the patriarchy right? Generalizations about how all women are going to be is not a great idea Both gender fail in certain respects. Let's not try to make everything a woman's fault.