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I really want to have a strong bond and a connection. I'm looking for that. I know it's tough but I know it is worth the wait.. I won't give up easily.

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I already resent social media so much. But here I am. Now I'm thinking how I should navigate this whole platform. One thing is to not get stuck with people who are disempowering and move on with people who are empowering, the universe is too big and you will always find people who resonate correctly with you somewhere somehow. Wait for it to come to you. You aren't doing the "waiting " correctly You are waiting and approaching the ones who are not resonant but dissonant. And not only are you waiting on and waiting for the wrong people, you are also getting stuck and trapped with these people who aren't exactly beneficial to your energy. And chump change benefit you get from these people is meager and not worth the sacrifices you make for these people. They aren't lifting your energy up. They are simply draining your residual energy. What's the point? What are you accomplishing? Nothing. Go with people who build your wings and power you up.. Who want to see you soaring high. Who are not afraid to be with you! Who are not distrustful of you! Who believe you and accept you! Who make you feel belonged and cared for! Who won't abandon you! Who won't leave you over a silly argument or difference of opinion? Who aren't with you just because they need something out of you! Who cherish your presence and reciprocate you not only equally but more! Who like you,need you and miss you! Who make you feel loved and cared for! Who respect you! Who understand and accept your flaws and don't judge you for them but correct you politely! Who are in tune with your sensitivity and in tune with your emotions! Who are not with you for sexual reasons Who wish to grow with you Who aren't afraid to break your boundaries and tear down your walls when you are being introverted

Motivation is not like saying to yourself "hey, don't judge yourself. " It's not a simple line, of course it could be inspired by a line. But motivation is more of a system.

Making notes to show it to my doctor .

I really want to be able to do this. Waiting for dark clouds to go away

I'm not interested in pursuing any relationships anymore. I'm single and I'm okay with it. (not happy but okay!)

If you are feeling uncertain about a message and just keep to yourself then simply don't reply and just leave it be Just don't stress too much Real friends understand real things

I agree with this

Ah, yeah Like a movie scene In the sweetest dream I have pictured us together Now to feel your lips On my fingertips I have to say is even better Than I ever thought it could possibly be It's perfect, it's passion, it's setting me free From all of my sadness The tears that I've cried I have spent all my life Waiting for tonight, oh When you would be here in my arms Waiting for tonight, oh I've dreamed of this love for so long Waiting for tonight Oh, oh Tender words you say Take my breath away Love me now and leave me never Found a sacred place, lost in your embrace I want to stay in this forever I think of the days when the sun used to set On my empty heart All alone in my bed Tossing and turning, emotions were strong I knew I had to hold on Waiting for tonight, oh…

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Although motivation is mostly a mechanical process just like yoga or meditation, and the same reason why so many people stay away from it or never get around it. There can be inherent fundamental sentimental emotional aspects to motivation. For example, you could be motivated because you want to change the world or because you feel you should in order to make a point or you see a fundamental reason why you should live. Learn to celebrate life Be grateful for something. Motivation is basically love in action. Just saying that you love yourself is not enough. Show it.

How to motivate yourself from the ground up? Learn to be at peace with yourself Control frustration. Get the bad guys out of the way Get mechanical about motivation Watch Tony Robbins Kick in your survival mode and hone it little by little every day Watch how Satan plays his ruse. Don't submit to destructive elements Be objective about motivation Create a strict discipline Love yourself abundantly Let your lover motivate you Be kind to yourself Be gentle with yourself Gently push yourself to do things Create creative energy and creative flow in your life. Motivation is all about creating. It has great creative energy Once motivated, maintain momentum Motivation is not a spiritual value although altruistic spiritual motivation can exist as well though rare, yet much of motivation is about bare survival. It is based in opportunism and raw predatory instincts. Will be difficult if you are innately a spiritual person. So motivation is like construction work, boring but someone got to do. It's like cooking on a lazy day, you have to do it no matter what because you got to eat. Motivation can be combined with enthusiasm and passion to make it less boring and less of a chore. When you are naturally happy with your life, you are more motivated than when you are upset or frustrated with your life. There's a direct proportional relationship between motivation and happiness. Read books on motivation. Watch videos Motivation is not a one line thing. It's like jumping through hoops. It's not as simple as saying - love yourself or don't judge yourself. Motivation is a whole lot of stuff. It's basically a system like a survival system of circulation and digestion A clear cut Life purpose is also a great motivator. Find things that can motivate you. Every hour you will find a different reason to be motivated. Example. Today you're motivated to lose weight for health reasons. Tomorrow you are motivated to lose weight to fit into your favorite dress. Although motivation is mostly a mechanical process just like yoga or meditation, and the same reason why so many people stay away from it or never get around it. There can be inherent fundamental sentimental emotional aspects to motivation. For example,

Taken from the Preety Life System Program The foundational Principle of my Life System Program. The foundational principle of this system is that your life loves you infinitely. More than you'll ever know. So you need to love your life in the same way. Your life will love you back even more. Treat your life like this. Always remember that no matter how much you hate your life, your life loves you more than anyone in the world.

I was using Queen Renelia as a source of motivation for some time. Using fantasy figures helps

@BornToBoil good. Thanks

I still suck at this

@ethanb121 you're loved as well.

This is great combo that I tend to lack I lack self awareness I lack self reflection I lack motivation

First I have to survive. And then transcend survival.

If I have to integrate Turquoise, then I have to also integrate stage Red because I will bail out on survival otherwise. I will become a spiritual zombie. Well haha, no thanks. I'm too clever... Won't fall in that trap

Creating another diagram. System based values Two systems Survival and Spirituality

And integrate both stage Red and stage Turquoise. Integrate stage Red(raw masculine) Integrate stage Turquoise (acceptance) everything becomes holistic/wholistic