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The troll will use your personal content as ammo to attack you.

Everything that a troll does is based on attention seeking and they use elaborate strategies to make their next attack.. They are always spying on the person who they want to attack They will generally lurk around a forum as a guest and constantly look up profiles they want to stalk or harass.

Depending upon the nature of a troll they can range from mild to lethal.. Your challenges in dealing with a troll can range from easy to hardest. I will say severe trolls are third degree trolls.. They take the game to the next level. They will build a bully group.. First degree trolls are easy to handle. They will leave you alone after a few disputes. How to detect a troll? When you tell them to leave you alone, they don't leave you alone.. They continue to harass despite your frequent requests to be left alone Trolls are deeply jealous and insecure people who get jealous of people who are seeking growth. Trolls don't like that a person is doing better in their life. They want to disrupt a person's reputation, career or a conversation in order to feel better about themselves By trashing a person they are convinced that they did a good job.

Aha, Cancer is easily manipulated without knowing. Cancer have great compatibility with a Pieces romantically and otherwise.. You're very sensitive and caring, very protective of those who you care about. You're deeply loyal like a Pisces. You love having great friends and loyal companions, they give you feelings of security and strength. You're a great team worker, you want harmony. You have a savior quality. If you see someone suffering, you feel like saving them. You have noble ideas about the world but they are very difficult to achieve because of resource related obstacles. You can be the best friend in the entire zodiac because of your loyal nature. You can get a bit moody sometimes, like ill moods. In your dark moods, you could easily feel suspicious about anyone around you. Your reputation is very important to you and you're very guarded about it. You want to hang out only with the best crowd. You are very sensitive and you like other sensitive people. You're attracted to gentle demure and sweet people. You dont like competition, you find it excessive and pointless. You like to be chill and light hearted around people. If something offends you, you don't confront it in the moment. You shy away from an open confrontation. You're deeply intuitive and you don't want to be too open about everything. You like to keep things subtle.

Trolls are drama Queens. They are addicted to starting and stirring up shit for no reason. They simply want to start a fight. There is no intention to have a conversation. When you ask them for a conversation they simply run away..

Are you a cancer?

Have better screening options Block the person in private messenger immediately.. When a new troll appears Use deflection technique Do not mention or quote anyone Do not keep arguing on a thread not started by you Use "combat " in the middle paragraph while replying to a potential troll.. Do not do it on the top line Reply to the first comment but don't reply again Choose specific people to communicate with Do not feed excess attention to a troll. Know that they thrive on attention Give a bland reply. Act meh, like you're not impacted. Block mentally whatever trash talk they are doing. Only reply to relevant stuff. Show them your maturity. ☚.. Let them know you're not buying their attacks Never fall for bait. Avoid any bait-y situation. If anyone asks for your opinion do not give If the troll is asking specific questions then ask them to private message and then draw the doodle. Haha. Minimize interaction to people who you trust and know Don't be too attached to the idea of reputation. It's fleeting. If a hater is trying to paint you as a bad person, then others will eventually see through his ruse and confront him In case of outright attack, report to mods Know that you have immense personal power. You don't need to feel helpless Let them not know your weaknesses Gain support. Make your MM palace. Always remember there will be trolls once you become popular. This is bound to happen. Most trolls hang around on the visitor list looking to dig into private information that can be attacked. Easy to know who the troll is by keeping an eye on visitor list Trolls do "hate following." They purposely follow you to read all your content and use that to attack you in the future Even if your reputation and dignity has been trashed right now by the troll, don't feel threatened. You can build back your reputation with new users. Old users can warm up to you Try to be in a happy mood. Trolls love to attack when they sense sadness, bad mood or vulnerability in emotional state Don't spend too much mental energy with trolls. Give them a short fitting reply and see the fastest way to avoid them Trolls are like insects. Like flies on a fruit. You have to immediately place the fruit elsewhere. It's like emergency action Develop your own Troll Radar.. Detect trolls efficiently and quickly One good way of detecting a troll, is to see if they write anything personal. This is the biggest indicator of a troll. Troll always write personal stuff this is because they are obsessed with you and want a reaction out of you. That's why they purposely make things personal. A decent user will keep a conversation less personal. They will stick to the topic. A troll will never stick to the topic despite repeated insistence from you. Because their agenda is not a decent long chat or conversation, their agenda is to hurt and enjoy a reaction. Their agenda is to slowly build a bully group.. A haters group. A group that will attack you. It's like a bomb that you need to detonate.

I do have temporary solutions in mind. One is obviously putting on ignore. Second - don't argue Third - use the report option Tell the person to not communicate anymore Have clever comebacks Use the dread emoji Probably private message the person to not communicate Ask the person to block you Many people simply use the ignore option

It was okayish.

This problem won't bother me for too long. I'll eventually find a solution for this. It won't be too long. I will hop around some gymnastics with the technicalities here and eventually find a solution.

America is pure stage Orange. I think the rural parts of America (think hillbilly ) are stage Red and Stage Blue (The Bible belt type ). And the cities are generally stage Orange like New York. I'd say New York is heavily stage Orange. Very few parts like where you have a huge concentration of liberals and Democrats are stage Green, example Seattle and bits of California.

There is so much ego battle here, like so much. People just battling hardest to prove that they are superior to others. How is this helpful? I'm literally going insane looking at all these ego games of who is superior and who is inferior. People are so insecure. Why not just focus on what you do. Why attack me and my content? All that I see on this forum is Everyone screaming at each other I'm better than you I'm better than you I'm better than you I'm better than you I'm better than you It's sickening.

This place is super competitive and I hate that It's like everyone is trying to attack one another simply out of biases Because they think they need to compete. It can be horrible for your development. You simply want to work silently I think the whole idea of combining personal development and social media is wrong. Some people are depressed about their own growth. So they start attacking others who are trying to grow. The social media nature of having a public profile destroys the nature of this work. Because you're hounded and criticised and put down (only politely ) and this discourages your work.

I'm telling you that this is not a good place. I feel absolutely miserable here and for a good reason. People are jealous here. They try to attack you when you they see that you're growing. I'm telling you man this is true I think the whole idea of personal development is wrong. Because one person is doing better than another. Why the need to attack someone? Other than jealousy???

You either focus on this or that.

Yea. Brain chemistry is quite interesting . Funny how it dictates a lot of our life decisions.

I'm completely straight. Heterosexual. Never ever had such an urge at all. I'm surprised how brain chemistry works.

A voting system is not good for the forum. This existed before. It only creates echo chamber and preferential treatment and bad treatment for others.. Everyone progresses at their own rate. Regarding number of posts. That's completely immaterial. You don't need to consider someone intelligent or dumb on the basis of that. It is your own poor judgement if you assume that someone's post count is so important to you, nobody says that it's important or any indicator of anything. Why is it such a big concern when it never counts. People who come here are at different stages of their growth. We shouldn't create a competition here of who is better or superior or who is worse, it creates ego battles. I don't think it's helpful.

@Hulia haha. Yea fish is extremely sensitive. One ripple and they swim away like scared chickens.

Yay. All hail the Aquarius I'm no match to your gregarious energy to top it off.

People think that I'm dumb. Really? How could I come so far if I were dumb?

I'm lolling really hard I kewled it. All the peeps advising me about trolls. I pulled my uno reverse card and won the argument. Nobody beats me.

Interesting. I have never looked into this I think I might try. Maybe I'll give one month to one diet A few weeks looks insufficient.

@dflores321 @Nahm Yes sagittarius aren't loving. I'm aware. Sagittarius is a fire sign.

@dflores321 @Nahm I need to know your zodiac sign. Care to tell? You're too moochy moochy and loving. (moochy is a slang for lovey dovey) Mine is pisces