Preety_India

Anyone who attacks someone's self esteem in a racist manner is pure trash and the one who supports such a person is also pure trash. Everyone is equal and wonderful. Nobody is superior.

Am I undeserving of love and appreciation and acceptance? Absolu-fuckin-lutely Not

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I need to focus on living in a positive Space.

@ivankiss having a kid is not the same as having a pet. We don't chain our kids,do we? Kids can speak to us in the language we understand. They can narrate an entire story. Pets can't. Pets remain pets forever, always at the reception of our mercy and at the mercy of our ability to nurture them . Kids grow up and move on and start their own families and full freedom and autonomy. Pets can hardly do that. They are tied to us their whole lives. Many pets are put down by their owners. Do we ever put down children??

@Roy I had cats for the entire of my childhood till the age of 15. I was practically raised by cats. Yes I understand them intuitively. But understanding intuitively and direct communication through language, the difference is heaven and hell. For example my cat couldn't tell me if the neighbourhood kid had hit it. There would be no way for me to know if a certain person was harassing my cat. I would only know that my cat is acting funny or it is upset but I cannot know the exact cause merely through intuition.

@Hulia yes the cat is a chonky. But what if the cat eats too much out of desperation of being fed at wrong times. I've never seen chonky cats in the wild. Or street cats. I used to take care of 10 Cats as a child. But they had a huge backyard house. They were allowed to be cats. I used to feed them real fish like salmon, just real food that is available in the wild. No fake supermarket balls. I used to let them hunt for food if they wanted. They had the freedom to have a full tour of the house as well as roam through all the neighbouring bushes and trees playing, having fun in sunlight and fresh air. Final result??? Not even a single cat was chonky. All 10 cats fit and healthy, never grumpy. How is it fair to keep them inside and go to work, feed them a box of boring bullshit supermarket food and having them to beg for it, always restricted within the walls of the house, bored to death , no form of outdoor exercise, either fed poorly the same damn food everyday or being overfed. We indulge in comfort food when we are unhappy and to cope with boredom . I think the cat is eating too much to cope with the condition of being trapped in the house like that all day every day with the owner always going to work, pretty much like a bored housewife.. You know when we get fat? ......When we eat shitty food!! The cat is eating shitty food..no cat gets fat like that. If the owner was really loving, he would never allowed the cat to get this fat. It's definitely a coping mechanism to loneliness or some other problem. My God that cat is miserable,I can tell. I've great experience in detecting emotions in cats. The most important thing that cats want is freedom to do what they want. Not being holed up in a clumsy apartment.

@Roy with children they can at least speak. With pets, they can give us signals yet they cannot really tell us how exactly the they are feeling We cannot really know if they are in pain or not A child can tell us that they need help. And the exact Nature of the help A pet can only make helpless movements and gestures but cannot say where they are exactly experiencing pain. I'm sure the cat in the video was probably dying out of hunger and the owner was taking it too lightly because the cat can't communicate it to him.

You've got the whole definition of emotional cheating wrong. By your logic, every friendship would be considered cheating if one of them have a partner. Yes, we usually turn to our friends after breakups for emotional support, absolutely nothing wrong with it, friends are gender neutral, that is, their gender doesn't really matter. It could be a woman paying compliments or it could be a man. The man supporting the woman is just what friends normally do. This is not limited to the woman alone. My guy friends used to talk to me if they broke up . Many men hang out on a cup of coffee with a long term female friend they had since school or college to discuss issues with regarding wives and girlfriends. The female perspective offered by their friend helps them understand their own wife or girlfriend better. This is just plain friendship and it's not emotional cheating. I never told my boyfriend not to talk to his female friends. In fact he had several female friends and I had no problem at all. People who try to characterize friendship as cheating are just deep down very insecure people. Now what is emotional cheating exactly? It's when you aren't exactly physical with someone but you use the same gestures, language and mannerisms that you generally use with your partner. For example I'm not going to say "I love you " to a male friend. When the language between two people is of the intimate nature,even sexual where the boundaries between friendship and romance get blurred, that's where there is a strong likelihood that the person is engaging in emotional cheating. Because they are crossing the lines of friendship and veering into a more platonic form of love or romance which hasn't taken a physical form but the interpretation is the same, they use the language of lovers. For example if I casually said to a male friend"hugs" just to assure them when they are upset or sad is very different from saying "hugs,I wanna kiss you." That's where boundaries need to be drawn between what's friendship and what should count as emotional cheating.

You're changing the context and twisting it. Those who get the meaning understand what I'm trying to say. You don't.

Have a different perspective.

You are trying to use semantic correlation which is kinda absurd because the point was that when we consider the implied meaning of the two statements, it creates a paradox.

I have been anxious since the last week. The vaccination right now is only for 45 and above. I'm suffering super high anxiety and I can't calm down when I sleep. This covid anxiety has lasted for a year and I managed to block out any thought about Covid for a good measure of 4 months. But it has resurfaced again.. I don't know how to calm myself.

I was in such a delicate mental condition when you left me Did you even care?

Let the tears flow.

Weren't you supposed to protect me?

The thing that I craved the most.

I need to post some study results.

Will add later.