Preety_India

This is so true and I experience this same issue an awful lot. I've decided to record myself whenever I speak, even when I'm in the shower, because I want to capture all my thoughts as fast as I can. I wish there was a software just for this like a mind reading software haha

Focusing on Love and only Love

@Hulia yeo. .

It's time I focus more on happiness. I've been depressed,lonely and sad for quite a long time. I want to post some happy songs.

The theme of this journal is to focus on trailbazer videos. Both inspiring and motivating.

I eat this like a pig.

This song cracks me up. Good for those who suffer from TDS.

Who said they do ? Obviously if a woman doesnt get it she is simply going to reject. At least we owe you a rejection if our needs aren't met.

Telling someone to grow a thicker skin and not whine about things is not exactly toxic masculinity. So we're not supposed to tell men to not whine about rejection now ? Then why don't you tell Leo that's it's toxic masculinity when he tells men to stop victim bullshit and get laid!!! Hypocrisy much!

I get these rape dreams that I absolutely hate..

My life will mirror me and I'll mirror my life. Guess that's how things work Life is never perfect remember. It's always broken. Maybe I'm always looking for a perfect life.

I don't know what happened to me. I just felt so upset suddenly.

Personally I'm sick of the objectification of women on this forum.

Trust issues. You can't trust a person who don't give you closure

Because they are shy and are scared of being rejected ! Not because of false accusations. Only if the guy is really harassing her. There is no reason to think if he isn't harassing her.like I said women like and enjoy a man flirting with her. So you're thinking that all guys who have girlfriends are Narcissists ? What makes you arrive at this sort of a strange conclusion? This got to be some comedy..the whole thing just doesn't make sense. Women go for Narcissists because they want to escape a good guy ? Like what ? Why will a woman jeopardize her own safety? Maybe it's because this biological wiring came from facing a ton of violence and rape ? Have you ever considered that a lot of women have been traumatized and it's difficult for them to trust and they shouldn't be blamed if you aren't able to establish trust ? You want a woman to simply say yes to every guy and jeopardize her safety without screening if the guy is safe to date ? You're contradicting yourself. Maybe it's your fear. I'm yet to see another man here saying this. Even a lay count is a challenge!

Exactly what is going on ? I didn't see a single man being falsely accused ? You're saying something totally weird and something I've never heard of. Are you using one thing to generalise all women ? You really believe that men don't have girlfriends. How do you think men and women have sex if women were busy accusing men ? What sort of logic are you applying ? Why shouldn't women deserve an explanation of inappropriate behaviour? Isn't the behaviour directed at her ? Why would you want a woman to be unsafe ? Just because I called out your limited beliefs, it's automatically "anti-male." You're acting as though you're the only male. How is calling you out biased against other men ? I don't think any man told me they were falsely accused. Fair enough if you want to make it look like that. But do you have a problem if a man enjoys being challenged by the woman ? Does it mean that just because it's bad in your eyes, it's bad for every man ? I'm sure a lot of men enjoy finding a woman a challenge. They want a sought after woman. It wasn't my advice. It was the other guy LastThursday who gave some excellent points on advertising oneself. I don't think I'm smart. I'm not stupid either. You're stooping a little low in wanting to insult my intelligence. Doesn't reflect much about me

This is some serious bullshit. Very incel-type thinking. I have had men flirt with me, I never accused them of anything. Most women prefer being flirted with. You're conflating dating strategies with some stupid limited beliefs about women..you can't get success like that. First of all women don't owe you shit. Second, if a woman accused the guy, how do you know that he didn't do anything inappropriate ? If you have a personal experience that's similar, then no man would be flirting with women in this world. Just because you've these negative beliefs about women, the world doesn't stop dating or having sex, your limiting beliefs are your own loss and no man wants advice that won't help him get a girl..if what you say is even remotely true, then Leo won't be telling guys to go out and talk. You're making up hypothetical bullshit scenarios because your ego is not allowing you to approach women so your mind has come up with ego defense mechanisms to avoid having to put the effort in attracting women so you can feel good about yourself and not have to suffer ego resistance. When did I say that being falsely accused is a good thing? What nonsense. I didn't even mention false accusations. It's something you created out of nowhere. Twisting the meaning of my words to fit your narrative. Look how you make up shit out of nothing. I can say right now you already have a huge list of reasons to not date a woman. You're doing some self prophecy fulfilling bullshit here. You say something which will obviously generate offense and then use that as a justification to ridicule those who feel offended. And then you say it proves your point ? How about first looking at the stuff you say ? Now if your mind is neutral enough to understand what I'm saying without taking a biased meaning out of it then this is what I meant - I said if flirting is hard it's a good thing. Because it's a form of challenge for men. Men enjoy being challenged. It stimulates them. They like the idea of winning or achieving something that's difficult. So if flirting was super easy, most men would be bored. If flirting is challenging, it gives men an opportunity to renew their strategies and try new skills of creating attraction. This is good since this becomes a learning process for men and helps them know what works and what doesn't,at the same time giving them a sense of direction. I have no idea how you interpret things but you completely change the meaning of what's being said and distort and gave it a very twisted meaning. Watch out your projections. Look at the answer above on how to advertise yourself.

The Covert Narcissist's Abusive Behaviors These self-serving tactics can include gaslighting and distorting reality; manipulations to get what they want; showing contempt and giving the silent treatment; dominating and controlling their partner; and belittling and humiliating verbally and emotionally.

There are four types of people who narcissists tend to be attracted to: People who are impressive in some way, either in their career, hobbies and talents, their friendship circles, or family. Someone who will make the narcissist feel good about themselves, through compliments or gestures.

In summary. There are several telltale signs of a covert narcissist. They are often overly critical, demoralizing, dismissive of your needs and feelings, and passive-aggressive. They are self-centered and lack emotional empathy.

This sounds like a good strategy.

There are 2 types of narcissists. One is an overt Narcissist And the other is a Covert Narcissist.

So last year I came out of this toxic relationship. And I'm very glad I did. The thing is he contacted me again to ask for forgiveness. And he began complimenting me telling me that I'm a wonderful person, blah blah blah as he usually does..So I told him that I have forgjven him. He acted like he is missing me too much.The thing is it triggered all those pent up emotions of hurt and pain that he had caused during the relationship. So I angrily and resentfully texted him back that I have forgiven him. And the next thing he said is that he still cares about me. He left me messages over a two month period where he would say things like "Where are you? I miss you" "How is your mom?" "How are you?" " How could you forget me?" Messages that make me emotional or remind me of the time I spent with him and the whole toxic relationship I had with him where he would play mind games. I don't like his emotional manipulation. At the same time, I haven't been able to get over all the hurt. I want to know what perspective will help me heal faster from all the hurt. Was I being very rude in texting my reply to him ? What do you think of my message to him ? Was it very rude? He was being kind. But I don't find his kindness genuine. I just see more manipulation. I used to trust him a lot ..but he used to break my trust all the time, so I never trust him again. His compliments is also manipulation in my mind. How to move on without feeling hurt/bitter ? And how to not give a shit anymore about him. These are the messages I sent him when he told me that he cares about me

He gave a heart emoji to my text where I tell him "bye" Like how dare he ? I'm sick of such games. I feel like he is mocking me again.

I can't block him permanently because I still care about him somewhere in my heart..so I don't feel like blocking him. Although I don't have any romantic feelings for him, blocking him feels like I'm being too cruel to him because I know that he wants to talk to me still. He tells me to not go away. But I'm so so so angry. I don't talk to him usually. I reply rarely after receiving a boatload of messages from him. The same complimentary bullshit messages How can a person act like they don't understand my hurt ? As though his compliments are going to heal me ??????