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@Craigxt22 everything related to self development and spirituality.
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Preety_India replied to 7thLetter's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Why do you think this is control? -
Preety_India replied to Daniel347's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@Daniel347 psychedolics will make a person realise and feel God but not in the sense like a stone statue but in the form of infinite consciousness. Of course psychedolics have a great impact on one's Consciousness and this is a pathway to some awesome realisations. This is how psychedolics operate. Psychedolics have a great healing power and they help you see reality differently. -
Preety_India replied to Thought Art's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Leo Gura just imagine the potential that we're losing if an asteroid comes and hits planet Earth. All of our technology and means....like poof...right under our noses. We need to human up. -
Preety_India replied to Vrubel's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Well, nothing to worry. Nature will take care of God. -
Preety_India replied to Vrubel's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
"not for human consumption" -
You're associating shame where shame wasn't associated. Leo also told him to do better. Why don't you say that Leo was shaming him ? This actually shows you look at things in the most biased ways. It's not about the Feminism or this or that. It's your own bias at work. It was never about men or women or Feminism. But you have a shadow against Feminism and you found this outlet to let it out. Nobody said here that women are good. What women do was totally irrelevant here. By the way you can never generalise a gender. Advising a guy is to help him get a girl. Don't see how that can be manipulation. Don't go around looking for faults. You're finding fault where there is none. This thread was never about Morality. He tried to hurt someone and he doesn't want to do it.. You're making it to be something it's not.. There's no benefit over here. Open your mind that people are trying to help the guy. You're blowing this up unnecessarily getting all petty about something that never happened.
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There was absolutely nothing to do with Feminism here. It was all about dating and insecurities and inner anger the OP was feeling. He himself admitted to it. Nobody shamed him. He wanted to explore himself. In fact he didn't want to do it again.
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@Hulia @Hulia @Hulia What about reiki ? Have you tried reiki?
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@Hulia Do you like acupuncture and alternative health stuff ?
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Spiritual communication is about Spiritual knowledge. Topics like chakras, Consciousness, insights, contemplation, reality, afterlife, atma etc these concepts can be discussed. Philosophical communication involves discussing things like different philosophy schools, literature, models by different philosophers in history like Emmanuel Kant, Nature of human, life, political philosophy, social philosophy etc Emotional communication is about discussing mental and emotional issues, development of emotional and mental health, talk therapy, venting out , discussing inner stuff like personal stuff, encouraging and supportive communication to help the other person feel better etc Psychic communication- this will involve some high level skill, like really understanding the other person in such a way that the advice you give me is exactly what they need. It's almost like a telepathic connection between two people where one can deeply communicate with the other on such a level that the other person feels very surprised and benefitted by the advice given..almost like an angel is talking to you. Very few people can communicate on this level. It will need some skill.
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I'm trying to understand male psyche with regard to dating and it's kinda hard to get around this. So I grouped different male behaviours into specific boxes or categories to get a better understanding of the male approach. 1. Needy guys These men aren't looking to really fulfill a woman. They want a woman not to love her but to fulfill something they need to fill in. As a result they are more likely to cheat, it doesn't matter who fulfills their needs, as long as they get what they want, it's all they're looking for. Not that neediness is wrong, but a healthy dose of neediness sustains a relationship whereas neediness that is only cheeky, cheap and superficial destroys a relationship. Now the neediness need to be analysed to see what sort of neediness exists. For example neediness for a person is a sense of wanting and belongingness that becomes a glue that holds the relationship together whereas neediness that only concerns the needs regardless of who is fulfilling it, which means it doesn't matter whoever fulfills it is merely an illusion or it leads to transactional and contractual relationship that easily end when these needs are no longer necessary or someone else fulfills them. This once again dissolves the relationship. Needy men are simply looking for gratification and the woman wrongly or falsely interprets this as love. Only to realise that she will be dumped as soon as there's someone else to fill her shoes. This means needy guys are not a recipe for a loving lasting relationship.. 2. Nice guys Nice guys finish last, in a way they should. It hurts nice guys but there are women who complain about nice men because nice men aren't exactly nice. Wakey wakey ! Fakey Fakey ! Behind the facade of "Nice-ness," is a guy simply looking to get into the woman's pants. He does all the nice things, acts gentle and kind and patient but for some weird reason it appears too nice to be true, kinda fake. This fake-ness is detected when you give the nice guy some cold shoulder and immediately his anger/resentment becomes visible. His Nice-ness suddenly disappears because it was all an act and his real self emerges from this superficial facade of nice act. This self is in complete contrast with previous "nice" self that he was so proud of. Not only is this completely contrasting, it can appear downright creepy. How many women talk about nice guys turning out creepy in the end ? There are memes that describe the "nice guy" as the "creepy nice guy." Or Mr Creepy. Because he is so nice that it can't be true or it seems there is a plan behind all that. And that plan seems deceptive. Often times nice guys turn out to be unsafe and worse than your regular "around the street corner" asshole punk guys. These guys are openly arrogant yet they have an honest side, they're hard to deal with but they don't like to hide/lead double lives. They are self assured. But it's not like every asshole comes with a golden heart. They are quite rare. Most asshole types only end up hurting women. 3. Desperate guys Desperate guys are always avoided by most women. Because they are not giving out red flags, they are giving out huge alarm bells. Desperate men scream "danger" in a woman's mind. They can be stalkerish, overly attached, zero sense of boundaries, sociopathic, blackmailing, threatening and obsessive, possessive, compulsive. Desperate men are generally avoided for the fear factor and a woman always feels like she is taking a huge risk in dating such men.. 4. Manipulative guys Manipulative guys can be handsome, charming, sweet. The difference between these and the nice guys is that they won't appear creepy. They just know how to play the rules. They know what a woman wants to hear, they know what can get a woman sexually excited and they play their moves very carefully so as to not appear needy or desperate. However all of this is only to get a woman, not to love her. They use the same tricks with other women and win themselves a harem. Playboys and Casanovas are a good example. Charming and sweet like a snake only to sting in the end like a Scorpio. These men are ultimate Heartbreakers because they know how to win a woman's affection only to break her heart in the end. They are able to attract women because they can easily hide and very cleverly disguise all red flags that the men described above can't. Most of these men are covert Narcissists. And they put on the facade of the ultimate good guy that women fall for. One way of detecting these behaviours is to see the wide gap between actions and words. Their Actions never line up with their gregarious words. These men also love to boast too much. A lot of Alpha Chads belong to this category, am I right ?? 5. Detached guys Last in my box are detached men. I'm not talking about overly detached guys because that would mean lack of interest. But a moderately detached guy is a good sign of high committment and low manipulation. He is healthy,not needy, not desperate, not "fakey nicey" and not manipulative. He is self assured and secured and doesn't make the woman the pedestal of his life. He doesn't give the Princess/Queen treatment yet he is responsible and loving. He wants his intentions clear and known and doesn't leave room for doubt. He is not being selfish so he is more likely to commit to his words. He is not fake complimenting to impress but genuinely interested in growing together and leading the woman to a commited fulfilling relationship. This much I could write. Let me know your thoughts/opinions.
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@Myioko Do you like Crystals and reiki and all that ?
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Preety_India replied to Thought Art's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I'm not interested in finding perfect people. I'm not perfect either. But instead of focusing on my imperfections , I would rather focus on how to serve the world with my gifts. Life is short. I have no time to focus on evil. The greatest wisdom is to employ all my good qualities and use them as much as possible because time will run out even if I was the greatest saint in the world. So I if spend time thinking about my evil aspects, my time to do good will further shorten. An opportunity lost. There's enough evil in the world and my own goodness won't be enough to compensate for it. Yet If I focus on my hidden flaws, I'll lose whatever little opportunity I am given to create good. -
@Eternal Unity this is such a cool video.
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Preety_India replied to Thought Art's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
So true. -
Preety_India replied to Thought Art's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
If there is capacity for evil and Devilry, there's also capacity for good and noble virtue in equal amount. Realising this is just as important. And goodness shouldn't always have to be about superiority and ego. -
Preety_India replied to Thought Art's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
It's not about ego games. It's about perspective. In honoring one perspective you're defeating another perspective. I'm trying to condemn this perspective where if a person is being good, it's still regarded as coming from an egoic source? Just because someone wanted to do good in this world, it's not because they want to look superior or a pat on the back. By using the word mask you're probably implying that. There are lots of selfless Buddhist monks in the world trying to establish hospitals and schools genuinely helping the world, doing noble things out of noble virtues. Would you still think that they're operating out of ego ? Everything doesn't have to be ego Realize that people can have genuine good intentions. Amen. -
Preety_India replied to Thought Art's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
When I say me, it's not just me.its several thousand millions like me. Have you looked deep inside to see you have ignored all that are like me? -
Preety_India replied to Thought Art's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I always had a huge problem with this kind of thinking. Not trying to be Judgemental but I feel judged. Why is being good considered a mask ? I can tell I'm genuinely a good person. Is my goodness such a threat to the world and to people like you that I have to be labelled as "fake" in order to satisfy your paradigm ? Then maybe you have a shadow against people like me ? Shadow against genuine goodness? Perhaps look into how good people are routinely demonized with such absurd justifications like those elaborated in the post ??? I have nothing more to say -
Preety_India replied to Thought Art's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
You really believe humanity can survive. How do you factor in the shortage of Resources? Have you looked into Nasa research on how lakes are shrinking all over the planet? -
Is that the reason I ain't getting enough vids from you ?
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Preety_India replied to machiavelli's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
If you're the creator, what about the other person who you're talking to ? -
@Myioko I like this video about human energy. I hope you enjoy it.
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You're such a cute mommy. I like how you pay attention to little details.
