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I was talking about nihilism. Nihilism is good. It makes you feel comforted when things go wrong in life. You accept that suffering is okay, not wonderful, but okay. You're not allowing yourself to be consumed. In a way you say - this is my bad fate and I deserve this It's damage control. Islam has a lot of nihilistic premises that are very self soothing. If pain is what you gotta live with, you better befriend that pain. You become a friend to the enemy so that the enemy hurts less.

@asifarahim umm, what do you find meaning in? You mean you're starting to look for meaning in spirituality? I'm confused about your path.

@Karmadhi most men who project way too much on a woman's looks tend to be insecure about their own looks. Just saying.

Fair enough.

Look you go around generalising way too much. You already said that you don't want a hot girl and that you'll be okay with an average girl. Then why that question? And even if you're into hot girls (you're denying it so much earlier), understand that the simple answer to your question is that they got way too many options. Then why bother You be you and be with a girl that is in your league. If you're not happy then be with those guys that get those girls. There is no point in ruminating over why so and so. To tell you frankly even Charles Manson had hot girls falling for him Hot girls used to write letters to Ted Bundy. I have been to Netherlands. I have seen hot women with ugly men all the time. The best example is Donald Trump. Women have fallen for all sorts of men.

Why do you feel the need to look at me condescendingly and tell me something that I already know. Does that make you feel better about yourself? Also why keep targeting my post count. Why does it matter to you? Is my personal stuff relevant to you? How I come to things in my life is my way and my choice, who are you to dictate me how I should choose to grow in life? What If I don't want to grow through Leo. I'm not some Leo puppet to get an instant awakening after watching his video. I have to do my spiritual work on my own and come to the results on my own. And I how i choose is up to me. And if Leo's videos are the end all and be all, then why have this forum to begin with? Why would you need anything at all if everything is explained already. I suggest you stop focusing so closely on me, it feels uncomfortable and better focus on yourself and your growth and let me focus on mine. If you were sharing your insights on the forum, I wouldn't be hounding you like this. Stop discouraging me. This is probably my first ever post in this section regarding my insights And you come finding me. Did you come over to my thread to simply spew some cynical shit about me?

Yep. The experience can be truly touching and mind blowing. You feel dipped in deep love. The closest way to describe God in my psychic/parapsychic experience and the most human way to describe God or understand God is that God is love and love is God. This love is not a romantic love but rather the kind of love that you see in animals, in innocence, in children, the most pure untainted innocent form of love.. This is how I see it in my psychic experience. This love is very pure and unconditional and very deep and very spiritual as though God becomes our second nature when we come very close to him. So as you get closer and closer to this form of love, it's almost like you become God. Because it's like God-realization. You realize that your true nature is God and that you were running away from this true nature for the rest of your life. And how silly were you in order to keep escaping from your own self and trying to fix yourself with external things in the world which is never gonna work because it's not your true nature. Your true nature is to become God, to realize God consciousness. To become your true nature. When you realize this, you're filled with tears knowing how much you love yourself, how much God loves you. This pure love is hard to contain and the cup runneth over.

For me understanding spirituality psychically, intuitively and conceptually is extremely important. This was my passion even when I was a kid. It's like the bread of my life and I'm quite fortunate that despite my bad personal issues in life, God gave me the opportunity to explore what I was always been pining for.. I like spirituality a lot.. Learning consciousness and learning all these things. It gives me deep fulfillment even when I make little progress. Every bit of it is very satisfying. Exploring spiritual stuff is my deepest passion ever since I was a child. I used to get attracted and drawn to books on ghosts and afterlife and morality /religion /spirituality. They used to occupy my brain and fascinate me so much. I really wanted to know the mystery of life.. I always had this gnawing question in mind - what's beyond life? I knew that there was much more to life than what we see in this world. Something deep and mysterious and elusive that keeps hiding away behind reality. How do we measure it? What should we call it? I don't know what it is. But it is definitely something. I really wanted to know this something. I had an insatiable curiosity to know such things and this curiosity exists even today after so many years.

So I created another diagram to understand this better.

I sometimes like bad things happening to me because these bad things reveal people's true colors to me..

Yup you got it!

Counter intuitive Try to be happy as anti dote to the pain of existence.

@Ilan nice one

Detachment Don't be attached to life. Because existence is not meant to be graceful and beautiful. The more you are detached, the less is the impact.

There were 2 people who were quite deep on this forum. Byun and Forestluv.

Thanks.

You're stuck with a paradigm. You think that belief in God has to be religious. You simply connect two things when they don't have to be connected trying to denigrate belief in that process. People can believe in God without needing a religion. They don't have to be religious for that.

@impulse9 climate change is real and also dangerous. Even if it's presented in an alarming way, people still don't take it seriously, just imagine that.

I don't care about people coming to my blog.. Who told you I cared about people? When I'm creating a piece of art, I'm not thinking about whether people would like it, while creating it.

It's like when you go deeper and deeper you discover the truth. When you aren't afraid of exploring further, that's when truth reveals itself to you.

Nihilism Detachment Don't be attached to life. Because existence is not meant to be graceful and beautiful. The more you are detached, the less is the impact. Counter intuitive Try to be happy as anti dote to the pain of existence.

I have seen hot girls with average men many many times. Just improve your game and you'll get too instead of whining.

@Karmadhi Ridiculous!! You want a woman on a silver platter delivered to you directly with all the best features in the world. You're looking at a woman as though you're shopping for a car model. You don't know anything about women at all. Women are human beings who need to be taken care of. A) you're expecting too much out of a woman. You want her to look super hot and young for you.. But majority of female population is average women and minority of women are hot. Most women are very insecure about their looks. If you walk into a Walmart you won't find the hottest women in the world, you will find some obese woman shopping for chips. If majority of women are hot around you, then consider yourself lucky. Or else not. B) you expect that women should not have a survival agenda whereas men get to keep their survival agenda. Men's survival agenda = fuck a hot woman, get her pregnant /or not.. Fuck more women (If they don't want family). A player lifestyle with many girlfriends. Or at least one hot girlfriend and steady supply of sex. Women's survival agenda = have a man who will fuck her, get pregnant, start a family with him, monogamous relationship for life.. Will she care for looks? Somewhat because fucking an ugly guy is difficult. What else can she look for apart from looks? Stable, independent, high income, wealthy, confident, dependable, smart, good decision maker, tough, strong.... Why? Because he will be a good provider to her and if she gets pregnant (which she will at some point), he will also provide for her kids. Why does she need a provider even if she is financially independent? Because women don't like the idea of splitting the bill or a man not paying for household expenses. Since evolutionary times, women have been largely dependent on men and this has turned into a biological wiring where a man is considered manly when he provides for the family. When he doesn't take responsibility or doesn't provide, the woman sees him as unmanly. The woman can't change this because this is her biological wiring.she cannot simply focus on looks alone. She has to focus on his traits that are suitable as a family maker too. Even if she wants a boyfriend she needs a dependable boyfriend. Why? Because who will help her if she in trouble? She will obviously call her boyfriend. So this means her boyfriend has to be strong and dependable? Why does she want her boyfriend to look good? Because she wants to feel sexual when she looks at him or else there is no arousal. If he is charming and smart and dominating, masculine, she gets arousal. If he is meek, not masculine, incel type, her vagina is dry. So as per your thinking and reasoning, a man gets to keep his survival agenda. But not a woman? This is hypocritical. A man can be free in choosing what suits his needs. Whereas a woman is asking too much if she wants a whole package? Blame nature for it because a woman is not simply looking for a guy to fuck(otherwise pickup would be super easy), she is looking for a boyfriend or partner she can rely on in every way. C) Not only do you want a woman who is super hot, you want her to completely forget her survival agenda of having a better father around future kids and simply focus on looks of a man, now you also want her to give up options for you. Since she is a super hot girl, she has many men wanting her and giving her anything she wants. These could be really rich wealthy awesome men who can be great attractive boyfriends to her. For what reason should she abandon these wonderful options to be with an average guy like you? Why should she give up her options when her options are great for her. Imagine if you were constantly being called by a lot of hot women wanting you. Would you give up on all of them for an average girl? Of course not. You'll never do it. Then why are you expecting that a hot girl should drop her choices and options and come to you instead. D) you consider yourself an average guy. Yet you want someone out of your league. You want a hot girl but you don't want an average girl. But the hot girl is basically out of your league because her league consists of hot guys. It makes perfect sense. Hot people will date other hot people. Average people will date other average people. Why will a hot guy date an average woman? Why will a hot girl date an average guy? Dating someone out of your league is not entirely wrong but you have much less luck that way since they consider you to be outside their league. Dating within your league is much easier. E) you want a woman to only focus on looks of a guy. For that the woman has to be super rich. Only then she won't care too much about female agenda as her needs are met with her own money(even then most women will still) You'll find someone like Madonna. She was dating lots of men just for looks because wealth was secondary since she didn't have to worry about money. She used those men as boy toys. However you won't like Madonna because you will find her too old for your taste F) you don't focus at all On what you can give to a hot woman of your choice. You only focus on what she has to give. What about you? If you can't give her wealth, fame, money, stability, looks, confidence, charm, intelligence, sexiness, domination, security, then what can you give her? Only sex? But she is looking for an entire package, not just looks. Do you see how you're using different permutations and combinations to have a woman who is not only hot but comes with every feature that benefits you but doesn't benefit her. You want her completely tailored to your needs. She has to be some kind of a sacrificing Saint along with being a hot woman. This is next to impossible because human by nature is selfish, man or woman is irrelevant.

@assx95 I don't have the money to move out. I can't go into details.

Yea. Both are physical attributes. Physical attraction will always exist. Men are attracted to hot girls, women are attracted to taller men, even to shorter men, complaining why women are attracted to tall men is the same as complaining about why men are attracted to hot girls. Both gender have their attraction preferences, do men change who they are attracted to, do men get attracted to unattractive women, then why expect that women be attracted to short men. Even then, women still don't mind a man being short, they still give men some leverage, yet men are the ones who are more concerned about a woman's looks, to be fair, when men are so concerned about a woman's looks, they shouldn't really feel so judged if women do the same to them, it's kinda hypocritical to assume that a woman should sacrifice looks in a man when all that men care mostly about in women are looks. Strange logic.