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So one guy in my past relationships was someone who scammed me financially. I mean he would cry to me that he was in big trouble financially. And I would help him by paying his way out. I always had this instinct where I would jump to help people if they were in need. With this guy I had a long term relationship and at the end I discovered that he was lying to me and he was living well with absolutely no problems. In fact he was using me and exploiting me financially to get stuff for himself. And I was naively believing his lies. In the end I found out that literally everything he ever told me was a complete fabrication. I felt duped and scammed. I felt hurt, betrayed, exploited. I lost quite a lot of money and he disappeared from the scene so I could never get money back The money is really not the issue. It's the hurt and betrayal and all the long list of lies that hurts a lot. I felt like my feelings of compassion were being misused. I wasn't good at spotting his lies He would even give me suicide threats. So that's when I began to get suspicious of him. What are ways to avoid getting scammed when you want to believe what your lover says but at the same time you don't wish your trust in your lover to be taken advantage of ? How to know if your lover lying to you ? Especially being in love makes it harder to not trust.

DeSantis is a crook.

Fridge.

Lmao it's not like nobody will see it. Maybe it won't have so much traffic. Because I'm not too much into the money side of things.

Covid vaccination is not a dogma.

Do you mean even after vaccination the person can die?

Hey they're not safe. Don't ever eat that stuff

Sounds like melancholy.

@modmyth these days into a lot of German. The energy in this song lol.

I think all my life this is what I had been looking for. And I never got it

@modmyth even these are similar in tune.

That doesn't look like it has ever been used.

So what do they actually want?

Wherever U go, whatever U do Oh please, remember that I'll always be there for U U don't have to call, U don't have to say Just think about me and I'll be on my way I don't have to worry, I'm sure U'll be fine 'Cuz if U stay happy, then what's yours is mine Wherever U go, whatever U do Remember that I'll always be there for U Wherever U are, think of your dreams Oh please, remember life ain't always what it seems For each rainy day (rainy day) That comes your way The Sun will come shining and U'll be okay Keep on smiling, every girl and boy Remember when U were children U had toys Wherever U R, think of your dreams Remember that dreams become the life U lead Whatever U play, it's okay to lose Ooh sometimes (sometimes) As long as U learn from every game U choose If one thing is sure, U'll always endure If U try your best at everything U do Say what U mean and mean what U say The price for a broken heart, it's to much to pay And nothing is worth it, if U don't have to try The higher the stakes, the higher the sky Wherever U go, whatever U do Please remember Remember that I'll always be there for U

@Hulia you know Gregory1 is German. @Gregory1

You know those who keep typing away from basements. Lololol.

Yup. A sense of entitlement. Actually much of incel material is indirectly about entitlement if you look at it differently. It's less about failure

@Hulia what happened to your journal. We were going to celebrate. Get some drinks or juice. I was reading your journal.

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What should you detach from? Detach from life Detach from situations Detach from pain Detach from people Detach from men/opp gender Detach from social image Detach from society Detach from wealth/success/tragedy/hurt/accomplishment

There are lots of concepts under this umbrella that I would like to discuss.

Types of validation Social image based validation. Social validation Ego based validation Sexuality based validation Popularity based validation Acceptance based validation Life based validation Self esteem based validation (the most dangerous)

You should not seek validation with the following stuff Social image Life in general People in your age group Men (opposite gender) Other competing women Social Media World and society Authority figures .