Preety_India

Have you tried shadow work? Try it and get to the root of it

I want to seriously focus on this now.

@Leo Gura so you don't want to answer questions? Are you trying to escape.

In what context did she mean it? Some girls use such statements to enforce boundaries. What was she trying to say or claim about herself? Without context, it really is difficult to tell what this was all about. I don't think we should vilify someone who speaks like that. Maybe they just want to say that they are different

@Marcel I love you.

I love you

I have to get back on my feet and revive myself Once Again I want to be Reborn. Emotional Reconstruction Surgery is what I will call this part of my journey.

Emotional Reconstruction Surgery What do I want as a woman from a relationship Genuineness Sincerity Emotional Connection Emotional Maturity Compassion Understanding Respect Appreciation Openness and Vulnerability Harmony Joy Love Space Morality

Beautiful Harmonious Joyful

What does a woman want in a relationship Care Comfort Joy Love Respect Gentleness Compassion Space Understanding She doesn't care if you are an asshole or not. She wants you to create a beautiful, harmonious and joyful relationship with her. She wants interpersonal value from you in the form of a beautiful, harmonious and joyful relationship with her.

The teas that I want to try this week. Tata tea gold. Tata Teaveda Brooke Bond 3 roses Brooke Bond 3 roses nature care Cambridge Tea masala Taj Mahal Tea - rejected So i tried lipton darjeeling tea and it felt a bit like green tea with too many leaves and too much caffeine with a sweet cream flavor. Not my thing. Totally rejected. So far Tata tea gold and Teaveda are bearable.

I love tea brewing. Going to explore different kinds of tea.

@something_else I wasn't talking about committment. I was talking about emotional connection.

Have you heard the term self esteem

Respectful communication does not involve calling a person stingy just like respectful communication does not involve calling a woman prude

This infringes on basic decency. Because opinions can easily turn ugly, indecent and also gaslight.

I'm not responsible for their preference nor should I put up with their labels and judgement. They can't call me something I'm not comfortable being called.

You mean to say I can simply go around calling a guy abusive even when he is not. Or I'll say that a guy is being a pervert even when he has no bad intentions. What people say or don't say to each other have consequences. Nobody can go around simply accusing someone of something or calling them something that is not acceptable to that person. We don't live in society with zero standards. Do we just go around calling men abusers and women prude? How does that work? By your logic even calling someone fat should not have any consequence

Thank you for the encouragement.

Honestly I'm getting fed up with this dating forum. If things don't change, then I'm leaving this dating section forever. The posts that constantly criticize women negatively have begun to bother me. I know I shouldn't take it personally, but as a woman it hurts that a lot of posts don't show any understanding or compassion towards women, like bashing women somehow is the regular pastime on this part of the forum. How much can someone take? Women are criticized way beyond what they deserve to be criticized for. And this attitude of bashing women is mainly encouraged and enabled by Leo and his coterie. Not fair.

Question to Leo. @Leo Gura I do not agree with you on some of the recent posts where it seemed like you were being critical of women who wanted an emotional connection before wanting to get sexual with a guy. I think this is like sexually pressuring women and making them feel guilty for having emotional needs. How do you respond to this? Btw you had recently said that you would put effort in making this dating forum appealing to women. How is shaming women for their emotional needs exactly appealing to women? Remember you said this last time.

Marcel this is how you rescue me

I just can't laugh enough about this hun.

I was watching this yesterday and it reminded me of you. @Marcel