Preety_India

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  1. You can create an alternate YouTube channel and transfer your original content.
  2. I don't see a problem at all. I only see a problem if the guy is 20~30 years older in which case it can set up a power dynamic. I don't see any problem with older men approaching young women. (unless the girl is underage) Looks like a non issue to me.
  3. I was listening to this music yesterday. And it's so soothing. https://youtu.be/P56dZxKN3bI
  4. @Someone here I'm not a doctor so it would be wrong for me to make any claims. I can only say that it's not good. You can look up online to know more about it.
  5. @Someone here yea
  6. I love the beach. Especially a beach where there is literally nobody or very few people. The idea of a beach makes me want to contemplate deeply on life especially when the breeze is blowing across the face and through the hair.
  7. It's great for everyone.
  8. I liked all these answers for different reasons. 1st answer I liked the depth of my answer. Multiple cascading paragraphs with in depth coverage of the issue and delving deep into it in a contemplative fashion. I would really love to answer that way in the future. More detailed, philosophical and contemplative with enough literary, creative, informative and intellectual content. I would like to make a solid answer like this one. 2nd answer I like the second answer because it was a frank non offensive way of disagreeing with a thought or idea. I also liked the post to which I replied to in the answer. I want to make such posts in the future. 3rd answer I like the third answer because I was being concise and informative /suggestive. Not debate based. (usually I don't like arguments unless I'm making a strong point/opinion.
  9. @Leo Gura you r voice is so masculine.
  10. Even if something is centric to a culture, it's not necessary that it can't apply to the whole world/universe. Maybe the model is a standalone concept and has nothing to do with culture itself. Geographic location shouldn't matter.
  11. I wouldn't recommend spending so much money. You know if you're living somewhere near the woods, you could construct your own retreat room out of wood at much lesser cost.
  12. I'm working on changing my voice. I hired a voice coach a few years ago. He taught me different ways of humming. Singing helps.
  13. I can only tell you this much. Don't take rivotril.
  14. @hyruga Paracetamol. Twice a day for 3 days. And then once a day for additional 3 days. This is to reduce inflammation but I tried natural ways to reduce it Best is Orange juice, (guava juice is preferable high in vit C). I drank two bottles of orange juice just an hour ago to build up my immunity. Drink lots of water to flush the inflammation. My brain is still stuffed from inflammation but it is getting better.
  15. Update 1, February 3, 2022. I'm trying my best to recover. The fever is almost gone. I'm having some energy, not a lot.
  16. How will you categorically classify intelligence? What different forms of intelligence exist?
  17. <composing draft poem> I worship you my sweet pineapple With you everything feels like sugar and maple When I'm alone I'm dull and sloppy With you my joy is triple
  18. You made me a poet.
  19. <composing draft poem> I'm laying in your arms and sleeping like a baby. Your protective arms surround me You make me feel like there are purple diamonds around me
  20. I'm feeling so much better today after many many days of being sick with Corona.
  21. @Marcel I'm crying so hard right now. Thank you for your kind words.
  22. I have made a huge leap of progress this year. Two years ago this would have been almost impossible. I have made huge progress in terms of emotional maturity. A couple of years ago it was impossible for me to reject a guy. It used to create intense frustration and fear and guilt in me if I rejected a guy. I used to feel guilty for rejecting him and it used to feel like a crime almost. My emotional state was too fragile and saying "no" was the biggest struggle. Can you imagine that I used to spend around 4 hours thinking (sometimes 2 full days) how to respond to a message/text from a guy and I used to break out in total nervousness and fear the moment I used to receive a text from a guy. And it used to make me feel that the guy will ruin my life or tell everyone that I'm a "bad girl" for rejecting him. I used to go back and forth in my mind for hours on end just worrying that the I'm humiliating a guy if I'm rejecting him and I used to worry about the consequences of not responding back to his messages. To the point that I would run away the moment a guy would spot me, out of this deep deep fear that he would approach me and I wouldn't know what to do. I don't know if someone can relate. I used to feel mortified if a guy approached me and break down into nervous sweat and total fear. I used to give false numbers (if they asked me for my number). Just giving my number to a guy was a traumatic experience in of itself. My self esteem was so low that I did not feel like I could say no. After working very hard on my anxiety and low self esteem over the last 2 years, I have been able to cope with this fear and low self esteem and I can finally comfortably reject a guy. (without feeling awkward or sweating into a nervous freak). Yay. This is huge victory for me emotionally. You might find this absurd or exaggerated but this was incredibly hard for me. I still struggle and feel incredibly shy and nervous around guys, especially guys who look in my direction. I still have moments where I freak out if I see a guy and I run away immediately if he looks in my direction. Even if he is not physically present around me, his text messages alone can give me anxiety and shyness and constant tension. But my emotional journey is going stronger each day and I'm slowly learning how to not be afraid to say "no" especially to men/guys without constantly worrying too much about it. My self confidence has slightly improved. Just slightly. I feel bad that I'm not making remarkable progress emotionally. But maybe one day I'll be a really self confident emotionally matured woman. I don't have any sexual trauma. It's just that I get too scared around stranger men and almost mortified when a stranger man approaches me offline or online. Previously I have had sleepless nights thinking what will happen if a guy didn't leave me alone at all. I'm still not open to the idea of talking to a stranger man. It still creates a lot of fear, a lot lot of fear and worry. I still go into hyper alert mode whenever a man gives me attention offline or online. I can breakdown into tears if a guy followed me or tried to talk excessively to me. I can get excessively nervous or freak out. But I'm learning to relax and take it slow and easy. Although this is extremely tough for me, the discomfort is extreme yet I'm trying to not get too freaked out. I try to tell myself that it will be okay and the guy won't do anything hurtful to me and I try to keep my worry in check. I just try to avoid stranger men as much as possible. And when they approach me online/offline, I simply go completely silent. I have found that silence is my best weapon and it causes me to worry less. So if a guy approaches me on the street, I simply look down, remain silent and walk away. Or I don't reply to messages at all. This helps me way better than getting angry or freaking out or spending too much time worrying about consequences. Also saying "I already have a boyfriend" - this line helps a lot. They generally tend to leave me alone if I tell them that I already have a lover. But some men can be adamant. Then I have to simply avoid or deflect any flirting attempt. But I'm much more comfortable this year in being able to confront men and feeling confident in saying a firm "no" and rejecting much more comfortably without too much tension or worry. I'm able to deal with male pressure better than before. A small emotional victory!
  23. @hyruga yup. Thank you.
  24. Yet these thoughts are powerful in navigating reality?