Preety_India

Finally happily married. Time to celebrate.

And your exact point?

Well that's not narcissism on both sides. You can rest easy.

That's awesome. I thought the same actually.

Bad news. Finally omicron got me. So i tested positive for Omicron. I'm also unvaccinated. I have been having intense unbearable body ache, I cannot even walk, I feel intense fatigue, constantly coughing, sneezing but the water is clear. And headaches don't go away. Constantly feeling feverish. The doctor told me to get rest and sent me with some anti inflammatory medicine. My neck is swollen with pain and cough. In my apartment 10 people tested positive for Omicron. Anyone who has omicron, take care and God bless.

So Bob Proctor passed away 2 weeks ago and that really makes me very sad. I'm trying to stay calm today. I can say today was a great day. I got some stuff done. I had important insights.

I really have to look into reasons that prevent me from experiencing happiness and health and from doing spiritual and personal development work.

Also what prevents you from experiencing happiness and health?

Just rise up and walk. Don't think too much. You have you. You have yourself at the end of the day.

So my thoughts on your stringent enforcement — The very first policy of your forum should be "MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS" if you Leo wants to create peace here. A policy that nobody follows because people here are too keen on minding other's business rather their own. Some users use this platform to boast how much they know better than others. How superior they're with their extra long posts. Although their posts are useful, their behavior is not. They tell other users what to do and what not to do -— a power tactic. They try to restrict other user's growth, its like flexing muscles to other users. One user in one thread even pointed this out "that this forum is more competitive rather than collaborative." I would like to see more unity here. So users who constantly critique a single user or other users are looking for a power boost or ego boost. This needs to be checked. For a long time I had this problem with the forum that members did not mind their own business. They are more interested in other's growth or lack of it, instead of focusing on their own. These users are looking for some target to leech off of so that they can feel better about themselves at other's expense. It would be nice if everyone minded their own business instead of constantly looking into other's business? You can say that this is a "public" forum but still people shouldn't use a public space to impose their power on others or sabotage someone individually or collectively. This very much reminds me of the reputation point system you had on this forum many years ago . It lead to a lot of discrimination and some users being more popular than others, an unnecessary power differential, some users getting huge reputation points from their own friends leading to a "mini cult" feeling around such users. Even if you removed that system, what users are trying to do now is an indirect form of boosting each other's ego at the cost of sabotaging other's growth via constant unnecessary critique. Criticising a user if they're using vulgar or bad language on the forum is completely fine. But criticising a user to flex your intellectual muscles or show authority is not fine. I think this forum needs a "MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS" policy in big letters so people can work on themselves in peace without being trampled on(sabotaged) by such power wielding ego boasting authoritarian users who are overly concerned about the forum rather than their own growth. A lot of chaos can be reduced if everyone minds their own business instead of constantly critiquing what others are doing with their time. Why not focus on what you want to do with your time? If someone is distracting you, then use IGNORE. Why not? If a certain user or their posts/threads are a waste of time, then why not simply ignore their posts and move on to other posts? Is that difficult? Why is the ignore option given on this website if people don't want to use it? Don't like a certain user then why not ignore the user (instead of constantly going after them to flex their own muscles)? If everyone worked on themselves without minding too much about what someone else is doing with their time here, I think there will be a lot more peace and unity on this forum. We don't need aggressive authoritarian policing kind of users. They can go to other sites to show their power. My main point is that there should be unity on this forum. You need to keep quality here, I understand. But with quality you also need to have unity here along with every individual getting their own chance of growth independent of criticism from other users. Let's not create a closed cult. Every member is equally important, no is less or more. Having followers and having people say "you are the most intelligent user here, you are the most that here" or complaining comments like "this user is this" and "this user that" create discord and disharmony and make a user feel unwanted undesired or left out of the community. We don't have to create a "league" here. We're here to create a community. A supportive community that supports and helps. Not a community of competitive users who finger point other vulnerable users and say -"this particular user is a problem" and complain non stop about that person. This kind of complaining can come out of personal bias or personal vendetta and less to do with wanting good forum quality. I think such complaining users need to be told to keep unity on the forum and not make it too strict or competitive for their own egoic reasons. They are attempting to hijack power and I think such users should find better things to do than come here to trouble other users with useless complaints. You know that creates a feeling that people are playing politics here against each other. And such social politics involves obvious discrimination and bias. A member should not get warning points just because a user or a group of users have a bias against them. Not fair for the targeted user. My point is keep it fair and keep it as neutral as possible. If someone has a problem with another user here, their problem should be a valid issue for example like a personal attack. If that user wasn't personally attacking, then why unnecessarily complain about them and make them into a hot target for everyone to chime in with the attack. This serves no good purpose other than "power show" and "ego boast." I will call such users "aggressive" because all they do is flex muscles. "I'm better than you" behavior and a strict forum becomes a perfect playground for their egos to play "police" Let mods be the police not users. And even with mods there is possibility of vendetta and biases. Even if they consult you for a ban, mods still have the power to give constant warnings that can reach up to 20 to make a user leave. This will be mod abuse of power. You have to take into consideration that a lot of people want to be mods just to flex power, rather than helping they want to hurt specific users out of general dislike or bias. My point is people come here for their own growth and not to be controlled, dominated or sabotaged by power hungry users. If everyone leaves each other alone, there can be a lot more peace. Leo, all I'm asking from you is to enforce this -peace on the forum - unity on the forum - equality on the forum - minimal bias - less interference from other users - less competition and more collaboration - minimal hostility - more love and support for another - clamp down on overly critical behavior and power hungry nonsense - disagreememts but respectful non invasive disagreememts - less vulgar language and more respect and politeness - less trolling - less sabotaging, more supporting - less ego boasting. And less spiritual dick measuring contest -more openness and open mindedness and space and respect for every perspective - less personal attacks and personal intrusions and more "mind your own business"

Just exiting because I'm done with Power games.

I'm just thinking that I really need to start talking things seriously.

I want to follow the following teachers Bob Proctor Rupert Spira/Sadguru /Osho Tony Robbins Morgue

My two important insights - Self love Law of attraction Yea. But keep focus on a couple of important insights or you'll get drowned in an ocean of insights and lose hold of important ones that matter more than others Yea you gotta pay attention to these three if you want major change in life. 1. Block all negativity 2. Invest in self love. Connect with self deeply 3. Law of attraction All we need is a combination of Rupert Spira and Bob Proctor and Tony Robbins Rupert Spira to teach fundamental truths and Bob Proctor to teach relative truths Yea. Exactly fundamental truths are good as they are and they do make sense and need to be applied as and when needed. But relative truths are more effective in real life. For example self love is a fundamental truth. Whereas blocking negativity is a relative truth A relative truth is something that indirectly supports the fundamental truth For example if you block negativity you can love yourself a little more

I really want to apply the teachings of Bob Proctor and Tony Robbins and Rupert Spira in my life. As someone on the thread said Rupert Spira is stage Turquoise. Rupert Spira - stage Turquoise Bob Proctor - stage Green Tony Robbins - stage Orange Sadguru - similar to Rupert Spira

Awesome.

All we need is a combination of Rupert Spira and Bob Proctor and Tony Robbins. Rupert Spira to teach fundamental truths and Bob Proctor to teach relative truths

And this.

Yes exactly. Beautifully stated.

I appreciate the responses. Cheers. It took an incredibly long time and hard work to get this insight. I was waiting for this since 4 years. It brought tears in my eyes. @Nahm this was a super emotional insight from me that I obtained from spending my time here and I give this insight to you. Treasure it please ?? namaste

It's my most beautiful insight so far and I finally came across this in my mind after serious contemplation for 4 years. Now that's something.

Totally agree. Beautifully explained.

@Marcel I'll be back with better solutions to your issue on the same thread. Please wait. It will take some time.

Yes I can sense that. You're sort of abusing yourself by being too hard on yourself. A kind of disservice to your wonderful being. Why would you do that? I can think in your case you lack self love.