Preety_India

Don't destroy. Build. Don't hurt. Heal.

Both are equally important.

Sometimes there's a patronizing tendency for people from first world countries to automatically assume that someone from a third world is dating them only for money or to leech off. It can easily become degrading for the person from third world to be considered a leech for absolutely no reason even when they haven't asked for financial favors.. Any woman who is Asian from a third world country who dates a white man is automatically thought of as a goldigger wanting a guy's money. It's a very demeaning thing if you've been in those shoes. When I was dating my American ex, some people thought that way but I never asked him for anything at all, if anything I was the one who helped him with money on multiple occasions. Not everyone is looking to scam or dupe, that's an unnecessary suspicion, demeaning to the other person and a scarcity mindset based perception. If a guy has such thoughts about his woman, he better just not date her at all and let her know what he thinks and save everyone's time and heartache. A lot of women suffer humiliation and heartache when they're accused of shit based on preposterous projections and insecurities. It doesn't help to hold deep insecurities and fears and then not actually communicate them to the partner and leave them clueless, high and dry later on. Better for them is to leave them alone. They might find someone else who is a better match and someone who doesn't doubt their intentions all the time. Time saved.

Hmm. I can't exactly relate. But I had to hide my religious conversion and witchcraft practice from my family.

Too much meaningless boring babble going on the dating section right now by old timers with some upper class non sense whining. #tryingtoactintelligentthroughsarcasm

I feel like throwing up. Maybe the anxiety. I don't know. Maybe the meds.

OK sorry I apologize.

This thread needs a serious wake up call but I can share my wisdom elsewhere.

preety wise tale If you don't like something then don't do it. Listen to your heart and do what feels right to you and not what feels right to others.

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Energy is bigger than thought.

I have understood that you got to apply some old style laws to life to make it work. It's that simple. You turn the game around and the devil will never win. All answers were already given to our ancestors. All remedies already exist! New wisdom is not needed. Old wisdom stands through time and can be applied pretty much to anything new or old. All the solutions to human frustration are already coded in our DNA. We just gotta find it. We just gotta apply it..

Thank you

Absolutely. I so wish it was easier for you guys.

So there are old style laws that I'm going to be applying to my Iife. One is the law of attraction One is the law of effort Blocking negativity Law of self love and law of self connection Law of focus Law of true experience and learning Law of direction not destination Law of healing and purpose Law of excellence Law of energy Law of keys Law of harmony and alignment Law of objective truths, absolute truths, subjective truths, and relative truths, higher truths and lower truths Old style wisdom to new age problems.

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Actually he abandoned texting. He himself said that that could be the reason why she didn't show up to a date. Well I'm not surprised. If a guy wanted to date me and he showed a cold lack luster response through text, I can't have attraction for him in fact whatever attraction I have for him I'll eventually lose and not want to show up. So I perfectly get why she didn't want to show up. Look even girls are subconsciously scanning and testing a guy to see his level of interest. If I feel like the guy is not serious about it, I'm not motivated either. If I was more invested and interested in the guy, I'd be disappointed even more that his response is not matching mine or he is not upping it. He needs to win me and top my effort If I put 2% effort in showing interest, then I expect him to put 4%, you see? I want him to top me. That's masculinity for me. It makes me want the guy more. Because I can see he is always topping me. If the guy's response weakens over time then I lose interest quickly. And eventually decide not to go. Because clearly I didn't feel like I was wanted enough. So why will I care?

Umm. Beautiful.

Yes this is what I meant. Only difference is that my articulation and grammar skills and English skills suck so I can't put my thoughts accurately. Thanks.

This is probably the most bullshit thing I have read on the forum so far. But please believe your BS, no loss for me.

Here I'm going to discuss positive authoritarianism that you can apply to yourself.

there is actually an important lesson to learn here from your mistakes. And that is that if you don't give your 100% into solving a problem or achieving a goal, you can't really complain about how it's not working because you just didn't do anything to make it work.. I'll call it the law of effort after the law of attraction. You would get results if you even put 50% effort in either solving a problem, avoiding a problem or achieving a goal. If just don't or didn't, the failure is a natural outcome, problems will continue to occur or even get worse or new problems will come up that you could have avoided, and your goals are never achieved as a result and you get stuck in rut of perpetual problems and perpetual goaling but not achieving. That's what we get here.. Also another thing that I learned from your post is that you can't simply skim the surface and expect to get results. You have to embody it. Touching the surface of water is not the same as diving into water. It's only when you dive into it that you really get to see what's actually happening and really get to learn. I'll call the law of true experience and learning.

The earth is round. All science and ancient times support this. The earth is not flat. At all.

@Karmadhi there is actually an important lesson to learn here from your mistakes. And that is that if you don't give your 100% into solving a problem or achieving a goal, you can't really complain about how it's not working because you just didn't do anything to make it work.. I'll call it the law of effort after the law of attraction. You would get results if you even put 50% effort in either solving a problem, avoiding a problem or achieving a goal. If just don't or didn't, the failure is a natural outcome, problems will continue to occur or even get worse or new problems will come up that you could have avoided, and your goals are never achieved as a result and you get stuck in rut of perpetual problems and perpetual goaling but not achieving. That's what we get here.. Also another thing that I learned from your post is that you can't simply skim the surface and expect to get results. You have to embody it. Touching the surface of water is not the same as diving into water. It's only when you dive into it that you really get to see what's actually happening and really get to learn. I'll call the law of true experience and learning.

It's not about teaching about women. A woman can at least tell how she feels about the way a man approached Don't be so hell bent on not accepting what women say. Some of it is grain of salt. Some of it is nuggets. Separate the wheat from the chaff.