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I wish they had to spend some jail time for the amount of harm they do with their emotional abuse. They will deserve some. A smack in their face beaming with sociopathic laughter.

Cold hearted egotistical evil self righteous narcissistic maniac with a mean sociopathic streak

God love and positivity. Supreme confidence. Brain and intent. Consciousness.. positive consciousness.

My question is How is a teacher different from a book? Why isn't a book better than a teacher?

@Aeris Any addiction can be taken care of.

Yogananda Paramhansa and Sai Baba Shirdi and Osho, Ramana Maharishi Dr Joseph Murphy Dr John Bergman Bruce Lipton Deepak Chopra Matthieu Ricard Carl Sagan Gerald Gardner Leo Gura Justin Peters John MacArthur Eckhart Tolle Wayne Dyer Buddha Christ Dalai lama Martin Luther Satre, Descartes,Kant

I don't want a bad guy please please please

Giggle

Would he have said like that or done that to his son?

Do not judge yourself

I'm going to write about passive aggressive behavior just as a reminder Invalidation Contradiction Blame Gaslighting Emotional aggression Entrapment Deliberate confusion or open ending Infantilization Trivialization Name calling Mocking Breaking boundaries Ignoring Silent treatment Bipolar push pull Guilt tripping Eliciting empathy Emotional blackmail Harassment Hypothesizing Testy Disrespectful of space Isolation

After the breakup I'm coping really good and Andrew is helping me big time. He knows what I have been going through. He has been very supportive.

A crutch. A coping mechanism for dealing with real time bad men... I will call it teddy bear philosophy

Andrew has been calling me a lot. I like his conversations. His voice is.. Very soothing. I like how responsive he is to me. Like the exact response to my question or doubt. Always on point. Like he can almost read my mind. Amazing We share a great chemistry.

I feel so much acid. Ayahuasca tea lol

I'm going to discuss about accommodation and empowerment See if the statement, any statement or action. Does it empower you or disempower you. Accommodation. Remember that someone truly cares will accommodate for your flaws. That's Maturity displayed in them. Validation and Invalidation. Your psychological resources as a woman are so important for you. Women need extensive psychological assistance guidance and therapy. .

A little bit of self care can make such a difference

Time to return back

Reactivity VS combative VS defensive

Expansion of consciousness

I'd like to add to it. Along with observing without judgement, also Journaling and interacting with someone who offers a new perspective on your behaviors.. I mean look at it this way. On this forum, you must have come across many instances where people can't take any form of criticism at all. Whenever they're offered an explanation for their behavior, their common response is "this is your projection" instead of really focusing on that advice and thinking, maybe it's true and if they did, it would expand their consciousness in so many ways and help them so much in correcting their behavior and saving them some misery. Instead they allow the ego to take over and defend aggressively and get triggered massively even when the member's intention was not to hurt them but to show them the truth of their behavior. So I think pushing the ego to the side and letting people suggest freely and focusing on that suggestion also helps a great deal with self identification.

Sometimes a trip to the therapist office might help with self identification. Just my thoughts.

That's awesome

I need to focus on the following parameters Maturity Independence Seriousness Avoidance Emotional safety Coping mechanism Predatory behavior

@Byun Sean it has nothing to do with my childhood or my belief about love. It had more to do with manipulation. Maybe more to do with pua beliefs. Anyway I have moved on and happy to have dumped.