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When you can't even give basic respect to someone, you can't expect anything better beyond that. It's stalled right there.
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Preety_India replied to unicity's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
What If the vaccine is not appropriate. How can anyone trust this vaccine? A vaccine has to undergo numerous trials and specifications for its safety. Or else it can turn into a hazard. If they're hurriedly innoculating people with the vaccine, then it can be a disaster, can lead to people either getting the coronavirus if the vaccine is not sufficiently inactive or causing them to go into anaphylactic shock. You can't force an immunization. That's a violation. -
Preety_India replied to livg7046's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Dutch guy that is so true.. I'm getting sick of how animals are getting treated. It's time to have a change. -
A high quality product only goes to the highest bidder.
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Preety_India replied to livg7046's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Life has suddenly changed in so many ways. -
I have been having so many dreams and nightmares in the last 3 days.
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Preety_India replied to livg7046's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
More examples of goodness in humanity shining through a pandemic. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8113985/amp/Social-media-shames-greedy-price-gouging-brothers-selling-1-hand-sanitizer-70-each.html The irony is the part where it's written "family man" on his shirt. Couldn't have been perfect. -
March 13 - Friday March 14 - Saturday March 15 - Sunday Today is Monday March 16 Tuesday - March 17 I'm going through a horrible 4 days. The food shortage is affecting me. I have been having a stomach illness now. I'm having stomach upset and acidity. I am eating erratically and feeling weak. This is a challenge. I am also having huge anxiety and stress in the past 48 hours. Just emotional ups and downs. My family is feeling like a dead hollow. Everyone is just sleeping. Honestly feels like I'm in a graveyard. I have never felt so depressed before. Neighbors aren't talking to each other. The guy who delivered a letter today didn't want to look at me. Nobody is looking at each other. Feels like social isolation. People are avoiding and looking down around me. My neighbors didn't say a hi. Unbelievable.
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Preety_India replied to livg7046's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@unicity@unicity That's a long time -
Any behavior that causes change in personality is trauma inducing or abusive behavior. How to detect abusive behavior Feeling of sudden fear or Insecurity Feeling of abandonment Feeling of isolation Feeling of loss Feeling of stress or pain Feeling of discomfort or pressure Feeling of unable to open up Feeling of heightening stress Feeling of being suppressed Feeling of being bullied
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Some bad stuff happened since March 13. It's just ridiculous and I'm still trying to recover. It was bad. But I'm going to make it. I felt traumatized. I tried to stay calm. It's so hard but I'll try. I can't sleep because of that.
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Preety_India replied to livg7046's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@unicity I'm still thinking about what Browne said. That's the most bizarre thing. -
Preety_India replied to livg7046's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@unicity what do you mean by man altered? -
Preety_India replied to livg7046's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
I think this virus is a warning not to mess with nature anymore. It started that way, with the abuse of animals in wet markets, the illegal wildlife trade and inhuman treatment of animals for human consumption. The lack of caution while handling animals and animal products. And then the virus spread. Maybe a wakeup for everyone to understand and respect nature and to not engage in substandard careless illegal practices. -
It was like a death wave. And my silence was deafening.
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One way to respond to bad communication is to have a strong social setup A strong social setup needs a proper criteria assertion. Assert criteria that a person needs to mandatorily fulfill in order to be in the setup. Those people can be incorporated into your special personal team as they assist you in your processes and help you with things.. Learn to raise specific criteria and boundaries and requirements and conditions that cannot be breached. Although this might look narcissistic this is important to do in order to not allow the breaking or exploitation of boundaries and barriers and to avoid toxic buildup. So this is a prevention measure and not a narcissistic dictation.
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How to filter and what to filter Filter information which is good for you Censor information which is bad for you Censor words that are not pc Filter information that needs a reaction How to respond or react React first to that information to which a reaction needs to be given. Learn to ignore that needs to be ignored. React in a pleasant manner. Respond to the extent to which the information is needed. Give zero response to things that are difficult to respond to
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Respond like a professional reader and listener. There are only two modes of communication. Written text like email, text messages and instructions or words written. Audio messages or spoken words or discussions Both are the only means of communication. Both need extreme censoring and filtering to make them appropriate for the listener or professional reader. Word to word analysis and breakdown is important. Any word that doesn't fit the context should be removed.
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Ignoring and selective responding Ignoring that which is harmful for the self Selective responding to that which needs responding.
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Preety_India replied to livg7046's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
You nailed it. Those two words are the root cause of much of the festering problems. That is the bottleneck. Those two words block every progress. -
Preety_India replied to livg7046's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Reading about the coronavirus every day reminds me of a famous saying.. “The darkest places in hell are reserved for those who maintain their neutrality in times of moral crisis.” by Dante. The best that governments can do at this point is to be very honest about statistics and numbers Being authentic will be better than caring about calming the panic. Hiding numbers won't help anyone. It's like Escaping the situation. I like how Italy handled this. They weren't scared to tell the numbers to the world. They weren't scared to announce a lockdown and emergency. They let the whole world see what's happening in their country. They held nothing back, totally transparent. There is nothing to fear. Fear of judgement is worse than actual fear. Fear of judgement cripples and stifles everything. This pandemic will test the quality of honesty more than anything. It will show why being honest always helps in the long run. There is no point in caring about the status. Maintaining a good display. It's like wearing a nice gown to the party while your house is burning down. There's no point in trying to maintain a facade, an outward pretentious showy display or giving false hope if the inner numbers are grim. This is not about panicking or not panicking. It's about facing reality in the best possible way and just doing your best in this challenge. This is not about winning or losing or clinching a title. This is not about a feather in the cap and I hope the American politicians don't capitalize on this situation which they're more or less likely to do given their current behavior. We don't need word salad out of a politician's mouth that gives everyone warm fuzzies and zero substance. -
I successfully escaped the relationship by breaking up with him. I felt better. But the healing needs time. I do get nightmares and sweats arising from all the chaos and fear and panic I experienced during the relationship. It's still there sometimes especially when I have a dream where in the dream my ex is talking to me. Narcissistic echo chamber red pilled on survival. Every word is apd and npd.. Do screening of texts and calls.
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I went through so much narcissistic abuse with my ex. I will call it narcissistic trauma syndrome. A set of symptoms that arise out of deep fear and terror felt with a controlling narcissistic abuser.. Finally I'm able to put a name to my symptoms. I remember waking up with a ball of fear coming to my throat when I was in a relationship with him. He would control everything. I had to always impress him. I never felt free. I never used to do anything on my own. It was like psychological pressure I couldn't explain. In my mind I knew that this was all wrong. I knew that I don't have to do whatever he says.
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I'm not stepping out because of the coronavirus threat. But I'm also feeling so lonely. This is the week I had so many plans on shopping. I had no idea the coronavirus was going to spread so quickly and suddenly there is panic everywhere. My neighbors are all wearing masks. I can see anxiety on people's faces I'm the only person who is not wearing a mask. I just don't know. I am so not ready for all of this because I have been so exhausted the past couple of weeks dealing with my family issues and other woes. Andrew is in another city for his work since 3 weeks and he isn't able to travel here because of the virus scare. I told him not to travel. But this whole thing sucks. Everything. Just about everything. I have no idea.. My ex is waiting for me to offer him emotional support because he says he is lonely. He sends me random text messages and I tried blocking him but I'm not able to block his messages unfortunately. Everything is beginning to look like a mess. Everything has been thrown into chaos.
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Just because somebody hates you, you don't need to change yourself.
