Preety_India

He has no idea how ridiculous he sounds. He wants me to feel hurt. The need to love myself is even stronger these days. The need to heal from within. I have made mistakes. Loving someone so deeply only to realize that you were just an object to them,an object if control is very hurtful meanwhile you were so devoted to their every need and sentiment. Any gal would have told me to just drop him. He is messed in the head. It took me a while to figure out his bullshit. He thinks I'm going to fall for his bullshit. It's me who always humanized you. Made you into something that you weren't. It's me who gave you a color, shape and form. It's me who gave you who you are. But you had to shit on me like you always did. Now that I'm gone you've started your pity party, your false victimhood. Like I did something to you. No. I just left your ass for good because it was unbearable to be with you. It was like constantly digging for something that doesn't exist. A bottomless pit in which you kept dragging me.

There are much better people in this world who care and understand.. Who are not controlling. Why the hell would he want me to stay single. No way. I'm not going to punish myself for his failures. He sucks. He always did _________________________ What he did was gross. As usual I couldn't have expected something better from him. He always had to disappoint.

Just have faith in yourself and it will be alright. I know it hurts to have go through so much at the same time but try to take one at a time.. Try to take your energy back. I was such a wonderful person before all of this happened. And this thing completely changed my life, got me depressed and upset all the time. I need to find that spirit again. He never deserved me. It's time to stop hurting. His passive aggressive is not going to work anymore. Fck his narcissistic control. Never reply to him. He wants me to be punished for the breakup. What an awful thing. Not like he didn't control me enough during the relationship. Love Yourself. He can go to hell.

@Arthur nice pic

Sometimes I need to laugh a little more to beat the blues

Everything is One

Love is the universal force embedded in creation. There is no beauty there is no grace and there is no intelligence without love.

@Anna1 thank you Anna.

This discussion wasn't regarding the poster @egoeimai. I was telling Anna about people who search up someone online without knowing to secretly spy on them. That's why Anna laid out the guidelines and informed the person whose privacy was breached. Please learn to read the full discussion before making conclusions.

Preserve, protect, nourish, maintain.

That's awesome you took the time to inform them

How creepy is it to secretly search someone's information online. Yikes.

I like this woman's feminine appeal old, yet so feminine. Her face is so sublime

@Anna1 You're hands down the best moderator ever. I have never come across a better one. You intuitively understand people. You've an amazing ability. @Anna1

Exactly. This happened a few times. I was careful though.

That's awesome. Yes I meant pm. I won't give it. It's good that this forum has a strict guideline over privacy. Very few online sites have that which are easy targets of stalking/cyber bullying.

I think it should also include social media because social media handle can easily disclose location or email id or Facebook. I think harassment over social media can be very common. So there should be a clear guideline for that. People here shouldn't be forced to give their social media to anyone.

@Yog Hehehe you gave me too many friendly reminders. Kinda creepy.

So my ex had a conversation with me today. And he was distraught because I had broken up with him since November. He felt wronged that I broke up with him. It was natural for me to break up with him since I wasn't happy in the relationship. But today he said something very strange that baffled me? He said to me "stay single forever. I deserve that. Stay single for me." He doesn't want me to have anymore relationships and remain single for the rest of my life as a collateral for having broken up with him. Like a payback. I'm not able to process or understand what he exactly means.. What does he want? Why does he not want me to move on in life with another man? Why would he want me to stay single while he will move on with another woman in his life. I never understood his intention behind saying that. Does he want me back? Is he trying to punish me for breaking his heart? Or is he jealous if I move on? Or he wants me to be someone that only he could have and no other? Which one is it? I'm just baffled by his comment and strange request. Does this mean that he still loves me? I just don't get his logic or feeling or sentiment.

I don't hold any anger. In fact I only have good thoughts about him. I don't feel resentment towards him. Hopefully he will move on soon and live a happy life.

I don't know about this but I did purchase the mask.

This is Some serious conspiracy bullshit.. The problem was the wet market where all sorts of animals were traded and one of those carried the virus. Nothing more. China has nothing to gain but they weren't keen on stopping the illegal wildlife trade but thanks to international pressure they bowed and banned that illegal wildlife treatment. It took a long while for China to actually do what they should have done long ago but maybe China needed something really this big for a wake up call. Well now hopefully the Chinese won't trade those animals again. They seem to have banned wet markets. ________________ You realize that China will have more to lose because if there's a collective Boycott on Chinese products and people, it would cost them big. They don't want international relations to suffer. Racism can increase affecting Chinese immigration and export So no way would China want to create something that will impact their trade relations with all countries. Now they're in a pool of trouble but they are fastly trying to clean up their image as much as they can to restore their relations to normal but that would take some time for the world to forget that it originated in China. Anyways China did a great job containing it and hopefully they will take better action in the future.

@Sizeable Oof I used to support Trump before because I believed he would do something, at least he had the ability to convince people he could with his ornate gestures, but witnessing his trumpanzery during this Corona outbreak, I'm highly disappointed in him, he is the loud boy who likes to boast to no end, meanwhile real action never happens, he has become a caricature, a standard meme of the overbearing pompous football coach who listens nothing and brags more. So no longer supporting that clown. But not supporting others either. The funny part is how a man with a with a backlog of bankruptcies, a career in reality drama, poorly executed shady businesses, bad history with women, a filthy sugar daddy personality, no record or political experience and the poorest vocabulary I've ever seen on an American rose to power and was elected president. His incompetency is beyond embarrassment. He should be voted out this November or else put up with the self aggrandizing joker for another term, gee.

I don't support anyone. I don't support a stupid bipartisan system where people are constantly forced to choose the lesser evil one of the two. That's not a democracy but a helpless weak leadership in my eyes. Time to really drain the swamp all the way up to the constitution and get rid of the bullshit and make it fair satisfying for the common folks. Don't want clown after clown running as presidents. Their parties don't matter. Maybe it's time to renovate from the ground up and have a system of many candidates with some credibility and experience and probably have a probationary trial period for each cartoon that wins. Like we do with software products? We don't buy them unless we give them a try for a week or month. Why to risk an entire presidency on a single man's ambition and buffoonery. Let them prove their worth for a short period of time and chuck out if they don't show enough competence. Half of them wouldn't last a month in any of the jobs the ordinary people do. They are all parasites sitting back on the taxpayers dollars and what they deliver in return is chump change. I guess America as a nation can do way better. They have to at least honor the statue of liberty. If America is truly the land of the brave and the free, then nothing should stop them from reforming the stagnant political sham and bringing major changes to the constitution. They can really do this if they want power back in the hands of the civilians. History can always be recreated.