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A prior preparation Gemstones of choice in a bowl Incense sticks Aroma oil Don't put on the lights. Use bedside lamp light for a diffused dim light. Perfume Cold water in a glass Now let the energy of the gemstones spread into the room.

Without knowing a woman, you really can't reach anywhere. You will always want and strive to have your needs satisfied without thinking of her needs. It will be a toxic cycle of relationship and breakup. In the end, you'll be alone and have a life where you have temporary glimpses of short term interactions with women, you might get sex, but no lasting fulfillment, the woman will also be left without a partner because most men wouldn't fulfill her but just come to her for what they want out of her, over time this behavior from men will make her more vulnerable and guarded around men and she would be progressively reluctant to date men, even advising her daughters and granddaughters to be careful around men and not fall for the bait and lose themselves emotionally. This will create a rift between the genders and both will end up living lonely lives, the woman constantly being on her guard, the man constantly searching to fulfill the needs of companionship. It never ends well. A man can get sex any which way he wants. But his goal is to have a long lasting relationship and that won't be possible if he is reckless in his understanding of female needs. Most relationships are broken by women out of frustration of not having a man who understands them enough or simply doesn't care about their needs. Men get blinded by their needs so much that they forget that there's a woman who also has her own needs with him.

The fear of uncertainty is very strong in me.. The fear of the unknown and the fear of uncertainty. I try not to think too much but sometimes I'm gripped by a sinking feeling in my stomach. I wish... Life was easy.

See how friendly this guy looks. He would show off his family pics. Great family guy right!! He murdered his wife and kids Christopher Coleman . Guy also went to church and was known to be a great guy. It's all a facade.

@electroBeam Just because someone does acts of kindness on social media, it means nothing about their true nature. I have seen guys acting wonderful and charitable on Facebook and social media and yet in real life they are cult leaders and enable abuse of vulnerable people. A man's real self is always behind closed doors. Social media is a fake shit show to show off. Don't base your opinions on people on their social media profiles.

@Keyhole But how would I know if he is doing it to show me love and intimacy or if he is doing it just to satisfy his drive?

No not at all. That's so wrong if you think that a guy has to be icy and do nothing at all. Women like romance. I don't know about other women so can't say for them. But women (for example me) enjoy a guy who talks, flirts, romances and makes me feel wanted and involved. That's why I like guys who are a bit more feminine. They can intuitively understand my feelings and respond to it. The masculine masculine guy who gives an icy stare only looks good on the cover of a magazine. But in real life, man has to know how to charm the ladies. And for that, a bit of feminine in him is necessary. I might get attracted to a bold guy who has a nice body and that masculine tough guy nature but I might soon be put off by his icyness. A detached guy in the bedroom for me would be absolute disaster.. I might even begin to assume that he doesn't like me or is simply bored. I would never want that feeling from a man. I never had relationships with such men because it never goes beyond a certain point and as a woman I might feel emotionally deprived around such a man even if he gave me the strongest fuck The men I've been with have always been emotional kind and funny and a bit of feminine in them Relationships are already hard enough and to have a man who hardly speaks and remains detached will make me feel very isolated and nervous. So the answer is yes yes yes. A guy who is very deeply in love with a woman and is feminine enough to understand her side will have the most intimate passionate sex with her Take my example. My first boyfriend in college was like a tough guy with no feminine, not talking much at all in the bedroom, just sitting in the bedroom waiting for me to do everything and it soon got boring and he would simply leave without a kiss. He would not pleasure me. It was always my job. I was too young at that time so I did whatever he wanted. He was very icy and too much masculine, he would never cry or show emotion. Never say much. Just into his own stuff.. The only time he would show some emotion or laugh or expression was during sex.. I started to have a lot of discomfort and tension with him and I began to feel aloof and neglected. The sex wasn't good either because of his icyness and lack of participation made it look like a daily job.. Anyhow. My last boyfriend and my current are both feminine. My last boyfriend used to cry often and get feminine and sensitive, talk a ton ton ton with me, never leave my side and always understanding my feelings and desires but he was a boxing champion and he used to be tough with other guys. So feminine doesn't mean a guy can't be masculine. He can. He just showed his softer side more often to me. Now the sex we had was 100 times more amazing than the sex I had with my first boyfriend. We were very very passionate in bed because he would know how to pleasure me and we both would be equally excited and involved. So the answer is yes.. Understanding and incorporating feminine in you is absolutely important if you want lots of romantic passionate great quality sex in bed.

Sex is also a way of showing love. Isn't sex in itself a way of showing intimacy...

Also add a touch of your favorite perfume and aroma oil to add a bit to the essence of the gemstone's energy. Let the fragrance match the essence of the gemstone. I use a woody essence for the ones that are about balance A salty ocean beach fragrance for stones that are calming and for stress relief. I use romantic scents for heart chakra stones.

That's nice .

Agree. That was great. Thanks for sharing.

@wordsforliving Aww thank you so much. Yes I have faith it will last. Hope you find what you are looking for.

Yes I found true romantic love at last with my current boyfriend Andrew. Love is profound and life is crazy.

So what's this "feeling sprinkler theory"? Can you elaborate so that others here can also benefit from knowing? ... Or it's some top secret you don't wanna share.

Lepidolite is a potassium lithium aluminium silicate hydroxide fluoride that belongs to the mica group of minerals. Lepidolite, like other micas, has a layered structure of lithium aluminium silicate sheets weakly bonded together by layers of potassium ions. The crystal habit includes tabular to prismatic crystals with a prominent pinacoid termination. Lepidolite's four prism faces and two pinacoid faces form pseudo-hexagonal crystal "books". The sides of the crystal often tend to tapper. Also as micaceous, lamellar or granular rock forming masses. Lepidolite occurs a lilac, violet, pale pink or white and rarely grey or yellow crystals that have a vitreous to pearly lustre. Lepidolite can be found in Brazil, Russia, Africa and the USA. Lepidolite clears electromagnetic pollution and should be placed on computers to absorb the emanations. Lepidolite dissipates negativity, activates and opens the throat, heart, third eye and crown chakras. It clears blockages and brings cosmic awareness. This stone aids in shamanistic or spiritual journeys. Employ it to overcome economic slumps, personally or in business, as it helps you maintain equilibrium even when the marketplace is acting like a roller coaster with funds It can help you maintain a positive outlook when financial markets are unstable. It has a detoxifying effect and stimulates the purification process in the skin and connective tissues. Assists with nerve related disorders such as nerve pain and boosts the immune system. Lepidolite locates the site of disease. Placed on the body over an area of disease, it vibrates gently. Lepidolite eases allergies, restructures DNA, and enhances the generation of negative ions. It relieves exhaustion, epilepsy and Alzheimers. Lepidolite numbs sciatica, neuralgia and overcomes joint problems. It is excellent for menopause symptoms especially as crystal water. The lithium contained within lepidolite holds the power to rebalance brain function and neurological functions. This stone is beneficial for depression and mental illness stemming from mood swings. Use this stone while in the process of healing neurological associated diseases. It can energetically curb hyperactivity and/or attention deficit disorder. It is an excellent stone for sleep disorders, including insomnia due to stress or worry, or nightmares. Lepidolite protects you from outer influences and helps you to preserve your own space in crowds. it bestows calm and inner peace and helps with sleep disturbances. Lepidolite has soft nurturing energies that connect to your inner being to help you love yourself. Meditating daily with lepidolite will assist you in weight loss, alcohol dependency, smoking or drugs where these act as a mask for unhappiness. This stone encourages feelings of independence from all forms of neediness. It detoxifies emotions, bringing calm and reducing dependency on others for emotional wellbeing. It is soothing for personality disorders, psychosomatic and psychological illnesses. It helps to overcome emotions that restrict you from doing what you really want in life. Lepidolite calms fear, releases fears one at a time for you to view and let go. It opens and clears old outmoded fears, heals damage from psychic attacks, and protects against psychic draining. Pink lepidolite opens and releases pain and suffering layer by layer. This stone facilitates calm, acceptance, trust. It heals fear at its source in this or past lives. Lepidolite carries the vibration of lithium, which is used medically to balance the emotions and limit or eliminate extreme mood swings. With this stone in hand, open your heart to love, feel the nurturing vibration and restore balance in your life. Lepidolite assists you in finding a strong emotional centre, unaffected by the dramas and events of your external experience. It helps balance the emotions and prevents extreme emotional shifts. It is an excellent stone for those with excessive worry or fear. Lepidolite encourages objective evaluation and targeted decision making. It helps you concentrate on what is essential so that you will stick to your intentions and not be distracted. If you obsess over trivial things, have a compulsive disorder or have agoraphobia then lepidolite, with focused meditation will help you move away from these problems. It assists older people from living in the past. Lepidolite is useful in the reduction of stress and depression. It halts obsessive thoughts, relieves despondency and overcomes insomnia. As lepidolite contains lithium it is helpful in stabilising mood swings and bipolar disorders wear the crystal at all times. It is helpful in overcoming any kind of emotional or mental dependency, supportive in releasing you from addictions and complaints of all kinds, including anorexia. As a stone of transition, it releases and reorganises old psychological and behavioural patterns that will begin changes in your life. Lepidolite encourages independence and achieving goals without outside help. Lepidolite encourages a healthy, detached outlook on situations. This stone is good to hold on to when you are feeling mentally unstable or vulnerable. It helps you tap into another level of understanding and to see things from a greater perspective. Lepidolite encourages independence. It helps you to set your goals and to realise them without outside help. It allows developments to take their course quietly and inconspicuously. The pink stone connects the heart and crown chakras to bring spiritual understanding to suffering and pain. It helps you understand the purpose of heart pain and the growth brought on by suffering. Pink lepidolite promotes understanding your life purpose and place in the universal plan. Purple lepidolite opens and develops the causal body chakra and spiritual body, stabilises soul growth, balances psychic communication. It brings spiritual information into daily life, helps channelling and mediumship and promotes contact with spirit guides and angels. Lepidolite helps to hone psychic skills, including channelling and mediumship, while fostering a reasonable hold on this reality. It helps you open up neural pathways in the brain to access higher realms of consciousness as well as information from other realms of existence. Lepidolite encourages release of identification with the ego and acceptance of the present moment as a dwelling place for the soul. If the heart chakra is out of balance you may have sudden bursts of anger, jealousy or blaming others for any issues that arise in your life. You might need constant confirmation of your self worth, feeling unloved or lacks compassion for others. With this stone in hand, you are able to connect the lower chakras with the higher chakras to achieve homeostasis. It will encourage compassion for yourself and others and enhance your innate healing abilities. It will assist in encouraging the entire immune system to function at its peak. It maintains a healthy heart and circulatory system. This stone when placed on the heart chakra will help with tissue Regeneration. If your crown chakra is out of balance you may need to feel as though you are indispensable in your workplace, or need constant sympathy for perceived injustices. You might also feel misunderstood by others or find it difficult to treat others with tenderness and benevolence. With this stone in hand, you will able to align yourself with the higher forces of the universe and connect to the subtle bodies of energy that surround you. It will assist you in linking to your past lives and determine their effect on your present. It will help the function of the whole nervous and skeletal systems of the body. If your soul star chakra is out of balance you may feel confused about where you are going in life or your value to be in this physical plane. You also may not be able to accept the existence of the Divine Will and its role in your life.

I can feel you. It gets better. Sorry to hear about the breakup I hope you give yourself enough healing time. Cry as much as you can because the release helps a lot. Wish you the best. ❤️

@Deepak sadhwani the intensity of color doesn't matter. If you have the amethyst gemstone that's more than enough.

@Deepak sadhwani Can you see the birthstone chart that I posted?

Fluorite tumbled stone Fluorite rough Fluorite wand Fluorite is a highly protective and stabilizing stone, useful for grounding and harmonizing spiritual energy. When working with the upper Chakras, Fluorite increases intuitive abilities, links the human mind to universal consciousness, and develops connection to Spirit. Fluorite further anchors intuitive insights into the physical plane, allowing mental and physical coordination. A popular stone among energy healers, Fluorite can also clear the aura of mucky energies. Fluorite heightens mental abilities, assisting in rapid organization and processing of information and can bring mental clarity and stability to an otherwise chaotic situation. Fluorite absorbs negative energies from the environment and is effective at Auric and Chakra cleansing. Fluorite can also shield the user from psychic manipulation. Due to its powerful ability to absorb negative energies, Fluorite should be cleared often. Increases self confidence and dexterity Protects against mental manipulation Stress relief. It removes stuck stagnant energy.

Birthstones chart

@Deepak sadhwani I'm sorry but I don't know how to read horoscopes. I just posted my horoscope here to get a better understanding of it.. You'll have to show your horoscope to Hindu astrologer to understand it. I have no knowledge on palmistry so I can't guide you on that.

Yep. One thing that I like about the modern world is that we have come far in terms of control of abuse. Abuse of any kind was much more prevalent before 1960s. But with the help of activists and awareness and new laws, abuse has been hugely controlled and illegitimatized.

What do you mean? Sorry if I didn't get your sarcasm!!!!

The more you socialize with people, your social anxiety will lessen and then you won't have to engage in odd behaviors to fit in or feel free. You'll be your natural self around people. Work on your anxiety and love yourself more. Also don't distrust people. If you give love to people, they will love you in return. We all have the same heart. Don't fear people too much. In fact a lot of people will encourage and sympathize with you if you told them that you get anxious. Just let yourself be free.. Social anxiety will get better with time and social participation. .