Preety_India

You have a very good point there. It's considered outdated by some people yet it's trustworthy. I relied very much on it when my boyfriend was away for work. I mean I cultivated my imagination when he wasn't around to provide. Like imagining him.

Omg You got me rolling in laughter there.

Outgrowing porn is very much an individual choice just like drugs. Also think about men who don't get a fair access to women because of multiple reasons and some men find it difficult to date women. Porn is a boon for them. I don't think they would ever want to outgrow it. The solution can be balance and control instead of outgrowing.

People are literally dying from Covid-19. Please do not delude yourself with YouTube And give those conspiracy theories a break. Your point doesn't make any sense. People even die from crimes. So should we stop doing anything about Covid-19? Please be matured and serious and change your deluded thinking.

Porn is essential for life. Porn addiction is not.

You forget the part that even psychologically affected men have neurotic views on women. Why make it one sided? It's no rocket science that people who are psychologically impacted will have a slighted opinion on the other gender. And please don't generalize it to make it look like every woman who is suffering trauma thinks men are evil. That's like casting them in a bad light.

That's the biggest Projection ever!! No man with a feminine side in him would ever say the stuff you say about women. You are using your feminine side as a cover up. In fact men with a feminine side understand women much better and don't project so much on them. You have an inherent bias against women. It shows up in your toxic views on women.

She is just laying down her perspective. Not bashing anyone.

Men on the internet commonly use the word triggered just as a covert way of showing that a woman is being mad or stupid or unintelligent or emo. They especially do this when they don't have a counter argument or don't have much to say so they simply put that word out there to make themselves feel better. No I'm not triggered at all. I saw nowhere on the forum a woman saying that all men are evil. It's you thinking and assuming that in your mind that these women are thinking that men are evil. What you are assuming about these women, the same can be said of you. Besides most people are going to have opinions based on their experiences, this is the way, that's how we shape our reality, everyone does the same, the problem only lies when someone is generalizing and I never saw any woman on the forum doing that. That's you exaggerating things..

The problem is that she didn't do it. It's your perspective. You're over analyzing her.

Communicating problems is not the same as thinking that all men are evil. Besides I don't see any woman saying that here Probably the best forum. Go to other forums where you will see a ton of low conscious behaviors. Can't complain about this one. Leo has attracted some of the best minds. You fail to see it

It's good if she has empathy for this person on the forum. It shows her empathetic side. This in turn will direct others to be empathetic to that person, it's like creating a drive. Of course she is also going to comment on his YT video as well. Just because he has many people to support doesn't mean that she shouldn't support him. If she is calling attention to the person in the video, she is doing a good job at raising collective empathy towards that guy

@Amit She is not perpetuating anything. You're assuming a bit too much. How about if you calm down your judgemental outlook on things. She is free to express her opinions as she sees fit. She is not creating any war, that's your perception to judge her negatively. She is just being pure and authentic about her expression.. You need to quit taking it out of context to suit your narrative. It wouldn't make any sense for me to say to you to stop perpetuating emotional violence on women.

I have taken ayahuasca before. After watching this video, I think I'm going to be a bit careful the next time I try it. Never know what to expect.

I must be a carnivore. I just made some chicken. It was yumm.

He is probably going through a spiritual crisis. I hope he finds peace.

Meditation retreats, festivals, people who are into organic food and lifestyles. People associated with alternative therapies

I'm learning more and more about the animal kingdom. I was watching hippo videos. And interesting that they eat meat sometimes. Also I didn't know that pigs were omnivores or even bears Always thought bears were carnivores. I don't know much about bears for sure.

I find this hilarious. Be a spiritual playboy.

This analogy helps me a lot.

This post from Keyhole really resonates with me. With today's level of consciousness, that's what I am afraid of... That's because you're a beautiful Asian woman, men will be decent to you. Honest energy isn't always truth or love - often times it is hatred, revenge, ect - this is where I feel that people get mixed up in that they think that the lower energies are less honest - they're still the same thing but at a lower frequency, they are the fire and ashes that give life to the soil for a new forest to grow. Really, any emotion at all, as long as it is felt raw and as it is without it needing to be something else is the truth. Just my 2c. I don't believe it always does start with healing one's self first, I think that this is a byproduct of the bystander effect, diffusion of societal responsibility. I've witnessed this in action when I was in desperate need of help and reached out a few years back. Humans both cause problems to others and then expect them to be the ones to fix the damage. Within spirituality, this works if someone is already at one level, but there are many who are not there yet - and can be met with one dimensional spiritual answers from folks who are also still learning what these pointers are referring to. The divine feminine is multi-faceted (many faced). It is both a giver of life and a destroyer. So it may very well push us to growth, but not without laying waste to the old paradigms, often times in polarizing and unexpected ways. Those are some golden nuggets. I have always believed that the honest expression of emotion is also spirituality. It would be hypocritical to hide true emotions just for the sake of appearing or being high conscious. Being just yourself is also an expression of freedom. Freedom is also love.

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Lmao. Some other styles matter there though.

I want to further extend on my thoughts and opinions. Maybe I'm being misconstrued. I genuinely believe in the idea of freedom. When I say preferences, they are merely preferences and nothing more than that. They are not instructions for someone to be a certain way. I understand how it can be perceived this way. You or any other man never have to change for any woman.. I completely agree with you. The highest form of freedom is being allowed to be who you are. So I would never want a man to change himself to please a woman or anyone for that matter. Preferences for men and women will always exist. But there is no need to fulfill these preferences. People should have the freedom to have their own choices or preferences. And at the same time, people should have the freedom to be who they authentically want to be without caring for social or dating preferences. This goes for both gender. There is no need for a woman to please a man or for a man to please a woman. Both can be how they want to be and at the same time, both can choose what they want to choose. The other extension of my philosophy or opinion is that love is unconditional, even if a person has preferences, they should love you for who you are.. If a woman is in love with you she should accept you for who you are. She may have general preferences in dating. But once she has fallen in love with you or begun a relationship with you, then she should love you for who you are. If she doesn't love you for who you are, then she doesn't love you in my opinion. When you love someone you should love them for who they are, preferences aside. Preferences and love are two different things in my mind When I fall in love, I love him for who he is, of course if he looks good, it's a bonus for me. But I have never fallen in love without a sense of connection. I have always loved the guy in my life for who he is, it helps that he looks good. But if he didn't look good, it wouldn't matter, because it's just a preference, not a mandatory criterion. It's not like I'm going to love him less or abandon him if he didn't look the way I want. Preference is like a taste. Something you find instinctively attractive or appealing. I can't help my instincts on the surface. But I can forget my instincts if I am totally in love. So once I'm in love, all preferences at that point go out of the window. They are sacrificed for the greater love. This is what I mean. So when I say that I have certain preferences, I can understand why it's perceived like a instruction booklet, but no, I'm not trying to be imposing here, I only state what I like, I don't say that men have to follow it or become it because I said so. That would be very imposing and authoritarian of me. Would have been very wrong if I had said that I want men to change their ways or change their appearance to suit my demands or preferences. That's like pressuring or setting a trend. I wouldn't want that. I would want people to be their authentic selves. But I understand how such nuances in opinions could easily get misconstrued.

It's time for me to get things together. To weave my yarn