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Where money is removed from the jail system And drug is not used as an excuse to keep people in prison.

My life purpose is not very grounded. Currently I have just started Leo's life purpose course. My job is event management and financial investment and I'm doing a pretty good job at it. So I don't need to strive for money. That side is sorted out for now. I like to help people a lot, especially when it comes to psychology. And I'm currently taking interest in this area. The thing is I'm prone to a particular problem. I'm not a very social person. I lack intimacy. The moment people get too close to me, I say CUT. I can't help it. I'm a shy introvert. At the same time, people enjoy my company but I don't really enjoy their company or intimacy. I keep my distance. Yet I like to help people from far. My question is this, is my lack of intimacy going to affect my life purpose in any way. Is it possible to work in an area where you help people without needing or requiring to be intimate or social with them? Or is my flaw going to be a major hindrance?

@Annoynymous Because the government doesn't side with the people, it sides with the cops. That's why American public wants second amendment.

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It's actually not that simple This is not really a white versus black issue. It's more about cops versus civilians. Cops act thuggish and show a lot of power. It's basically abuse of power. The media tries to pit the black against the white. Actually in reality, both whites and blacks want unity and not racism. White people do not approve such treatment given to blacks or minorities. We are all one race.. This understanding will take a lot of time. It's a shame that even in 21st century we have to deal with race issues. We are all one.. And we should work towards it. Towards unity of the human race. Also a lot of these people who join cops don't actually do it with the intention to serve the country. They do it to wield power. They have been bullies in school, they are abusers and wife beaters, they join military because they like gore. They like having power and control. So such people run to join the police force. Once they become cops, they get to show their power.. Plus American constitution is very much on paper. The police don't care about it. So when a civilian holds their arms up and talk about 1st Amendment or any other amendment, the cops don't pay attention and start arresting anyway. But not all cops are like trigger happy cops. But a lot of cops are power obsessed. It's not like white people don't become victims of cop violence or police brutality. They also become victims but it's mostly minorities who become victims because minorities don't have much money in terms of lawyers and case fees to deal with injustice. If thrown in jail, there's no way to protect them without money. So money is also at the root of this. How many rich people do you see suffering police brutality. White people also want to put an end to this menace.. But the government is generally on the side of the cops. Notice they only take action when there is an uproar. They did a good job with the body cam feature. But it's the recruitment. That needs to change. We need more high consciousness police officers. High consciousness police officers will be less likely to escalate violence, peacefully arrest criminals and not have racist ideologies towards people.

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@JessiChell @JessiChell You're welcome. Take care. .

@JessiChell Maybe those are just breakup blues. And once the phase is over, you'll recover and do well. Could also be the isolation dampening your spirits. Just don't think too much about anything like all sorts of questions..These questions or doubts create unnecessary negativity. You're fine. You are just temporarily dealing with emotions. But over time these emotions dissipate. Allow yourself healing time. Till then you will experience some chaos but even this chaotic emotional state is a part of your growth. We can't be happy all the time .

You could take a break from relationships for a while. If that's what the root is .

@stopwow yeah, women also have similar experiences. Life is unfair for both.

I don't remember what I read yesterday afternoon. I come before you on the list of.... Oh shucks, forgot!! By your standards, I must be a basket case.

When I'm experiencing emotional distress, I watch this video to feel calm and oki doki. I seriously wanna sleep next to that kitty.

I stumbled across this. And I'm wondering if this is true Do you agree with that half of your friends don't like you? This got me thinking.

Serious issues Bpd Did Anxiety Trust issues Depression Obesity or Anorexia Low self esteem Shame, guilt, mental conflict Neglect and self destruction Drug addiction Abusive relationships Promiscuity and Daddy Issues Paranoid Delusions PTSD Rage or anger issues Defensive behaviors This is what happens

I have always found myself struggling with self esteem issues. (Some of these arise from my childhood where I was constantly told that I wasn't good enough or that I didn't deserve anything). I still carry some of the baggage even as an adult. I get a deep sense of vulnerability and fear when I open up to people about myself. I constantly suffer from the feeling like I'm not good enough or I don't deserve anything whether it's love or happiness or any sort of praise or encouragement. How do I deal with this? Are there ways to kinda improve your self esteem /self worth? (I don't have any self esteem issues regarding my appearance or body because I look good and many people tell me that. My self esteem issues are related to self worth, existence, identity, work, relationship related) My self respect is high. But my self esteem is low. That is I suffer from feelings of inadequacy or I don't know the word for this, it's un-deservedness, if there is such a word or similar to it. The feeling that I might be inherently lacking something or not deserving because of the lack. Like I'm not good enough or others deserve better than me and a feeling of self sabotage or self doubt When I say what I'm not afraid to say out loud, it's just me being dignified and authentic about my expression and straightforward-ness. I can describe it as a feeling of melancholic self pity, or self-destructive feelings, Thoughts like "anyway I'm doomed" "nobody should love me" or "everything is my fault" even if I know that it wasn't my fault. Living in self - misery and being masochistic about it. And thinking "it's okay, I anyways deserved it." This is the best way I can describe my states of mind or feelings.

@Keyhole you are more valuable than those who do not have a disease. In the bigger consciousness, every cell every Fibre is valuable, we label it as disease, the universe calls it a Fibonacci.

The kind of gaming you are talking about is supposed to give you a dopamine punch, and it's gonna stress you out to the max. Lol you are like a cat that gorges on a cake and says - how can I lose weight!! You are hilarious

@Evil Raccoon Don't pay attention to those people. They are fake. They do everything for social image and to look cool. They don't have real growth, all gimmick and games. It's kinda stupid.

No idea. I don't think we regress. Doesn't look logically possible.

Sorry you had such a bad experience. But it does feel the way you are describing. You feel that person is special. You are enamored and you like everything about that person. When I met my ex, it felt like we already knew each other so I can relate to that aspect of a crush

Simply let them be who they are. If they are hating, you keep rolling Let the devil die in ennui.

Beauty is both subjective and absolute. Yes it depends on how you see it. I've found guys who are just normal very attractive and someone else might tell me that they are not that attractive. So yes it's subjective Also beauty standards change with time. That again shows you that it's subjective. At some point smaller breasts were considered attractive. And pin up girls from older times were shown with smaller breasts and a demure look. But today the beauty standards have drastically changed because the demure look is considered plain whereas bigger breasts are now considered the beauty standard. So you see it's subjective or else it would have stayed the same. However the capacity to see beauty in people varies from person to person. Some people have a very small capacity for this. Whereas some people can find a wide variety of people beautiful. But this is also proportional to their gains. People who cast a smaller net have difficulty finding a partner because they screen out most people and rarely ever find someone attractive thus reducing their opportunities to date because they are less likely to find that perfect or desirable person. However people who cast a wider net are at an advantage because they can easily find the mate they want and even switch them equally easily if things don't pan out. Survival of the fittest. Now you don't have to guilt yourself because your preference is a choice. It should come from the heart. You shouldn't force yourself to like someone. So be with someone that you genuinely like..

It's so breezy and windy today. Hope it's not the same hurricane like weather which was a few days ago.