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You beat me to it. I was going to start a thread about nature survival and I love it too much. I watch animal videos every day to seek nature inspiration. So here are a few videos I have seen so far Mother desert cat fights hard for survival of kittens Below is a video with sensitivity trigger warning Can't get sneakier than this octopus Sophisticated stuff Bait ball strategy
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That can have so many different meanings and all meanings will be good.
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This is the most adorable thing I watched today. I can watch this alll day long.
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Osho also acquired large amounts of stuff, via donations. Rolls royces and Rolex watches
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@Don Wei haha, exactly, I can understand that feeling.
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I don't say my location. Like a year ago I read where a person was killed. But he was in a city, not a village. So it's not that uncommon. People have been killed by the mob in India over beef. So it's wouldn't be a surprise if someone was killed for being a witch. Often local stuff doesn't make it to the media but spreads by word of mouth. And there is lot of hate here for stuff like witchcraft. So nobody would care if someone died.
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Actually true It's only on this forum that I can call myself a witch openly. That's one of the reasons I'm a bit guarded about myself at all times. If I said in my society that I am a witch, I might easily get killed by masses of people thinking that I'm evil. It's just ignorance at its core. Once I told my sibling about it and the person threw out my witchcraft herbs into the garbage bin. Lol.. So now I refrain from telling my family about it.
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I think what Leo said is a very good point. Attraction is not logical. It's very biological. So for me either a very tall guy or a very short guy, both would be a turn off. I think my preference will range from 5. 7 - 6. 1.... That would be desirable for my height. I'm myself taller than women around me so I can manage a taller guy but preferably thin. Because if he is not thin, he can look very bulky. I agree with you that you can't judge a book by its cover but in love and attraction, you kinda buy the book by its cover, without judgement I would say that relationships were attraction doesn't happen on the spot could be more of a deeper kind and developed over mutual understanding and appreciation of character. That happens a lot. In that case the appearance is hardly a hurdle.
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Ahh, that's some scary stuff. I'm a Gardnerian Witch. Or under the branch of old British witchcraft by Gerald Gardner. It's also called Gardnerian Wicca.
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@Leo Gura ??
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@Leo Gura lol. . The picture kinda fooled me.
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Actually I'm also a witch myself. But there is a huge stereotype associated with witches that they are bad sort of people who live in the swamp. For me witchcraft is like being a hippie and connecting with nature. Witches like me are seen in local festivals where we share recipes or psychedelic drugs or read tarots etc etc. New age witches are very different and you can see a huge number of young women on YouTube adopting the lifestyle of witchcraft because it's like a hobby for them and they love mysticism I am not a hot witch, hahahahhaah. So I don't know what hot witch girlfriends these people are talking about, I'm yet to see them. It's just a joke btw.
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Yep. You're right. I would definitely feel a bit awkward while having sex with a huge height difference like that. I have never dated a guy that tall. So I can't imagine how that would feel like. Personally I wouldn't have any problems at all if he were the center of attention, I would rather be happy if he is the center of attention, I would simply walk one step behind him Maybe I would be a bit conscious about how we would look like a couple in public, because of the assymetry in height. That would make me feel awkward or socially conscious. But the sex would be the major part. I might feel intimidated during sex with that kind of a body on a guy. I think buff body looks good on a shorter or regular guy For example the buff body on this Affleck guy looks pretty cool. Attractive To be honest, very tall muscular buff guys, like in the pics below, look very intimidating to me. Of course they're masculine but their masculinity looks intimidating rather than attractive to me. That is the real issue. Just the overall look is intimidating
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Lmao. You are guys are making me laugh so hard.
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I will put some pineapple in my soup.. My form of alchemy
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@Leo Gura you are Russian so you would know this better more than anyone. I read a lot of comments on the video where people said that Putin got rid of corruption in the KGB. That he was always against corruption. Now I don't know how much of that is true. He is such a secretive person that much cannot be known about him.
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Like I said, I don't know much about Putin. This is the first time I've seen an interview of him, I don't know much about Russian politics either. Some people say he is good, some people say he is a bad guy. I wouldn't like his qualities if he is a psychopath. But appearance-wise he is very masculine which cannot be denied. One can embody the appearance and style, but no need to embody their personality traits or character. The same can be said of women who do evil in the world, they could have a very seductive feminine look and body. Yet their character and personality could be garbage. You can pick their style but build your own personality
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@Don Wei cheers
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@universe he did plastic surgery? Lmao..
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I think it's more of a cultural issue here. You're Indian and so Indian culture had a huge role in shaping your psyche. . I know how Indian culture works. I have had plenty of experiences where an Indian male would approach me whether dating or friendship, and then when I reject them, they simply cannot take it. Then they will call me rude or try to get aggressive with me. This has happened many times, I have gotten used to it by now. The thing is there is a sense of entitlement in not wanting to accept a rejection healthily. If a man tried to cross boundaries then the woman feels creeped out by that sort of aggression I had many conversations with you directly on the forum. What I felt was that you are super needy. I tried to give you as much attention and support as I could offer you. I was very gentle and supportive with you. The problem is that it's not enough for you. You want more and more. Maybe you can work on that issue. One problem I noticed with my indian male friends is that they don't have a thing called privacy. They don't understand this concept. Like they would get so personal that it would make me withdraw from the friendship. Sometimes people don't want to disclose their private lives or details of their private lives and its completely okay. Asking them persistently can make them nervous and they will lose trust. Building trust is something you will need to work on. You do have the ability to create intelligent viewpoints so that's not the part where you are lacking. Also don't try to control the narrative during a conversation. Like for example if you say to a girl "don't dress like that" this can be a fair thought in your mind, but before you say it to her, think how she will take it. For her it will be like you are controlling her and she might get pissed off. The other point is which I always observed in my Indian ex boyfriend is that he would get super argumentative with me. That would leave no room for any friendliness or mutual liking. When I had conversations with you, I felt like you were contradicting my every statement, kinda reminded me of my ex 's conversation style.. Sometimes debating someone is a good way of getting to know certain perspectives. But too much argument can stress out the other person. Try to agree with them sometimes. Sometimes I simply agree with people just to make them feel good. Because I don't want them to feel overburdened. You're not a bad person. But you will need to change certain communication patterns as well as thinking patterns.. There is a bit of stage Blue kind of thinking patterns reflected in your views. Sometimes stage Blue can come across as Dogmatic and authoritarian, not wanting to give due importance to others perspectives. There is really nothing like winning or losing while sharing perspectives, nothing like you're right or that person is wrong, both can be right at the same time. Try to not make it into a contest or competition of perspectives, it can come across as very combative and competitive. Also a lot of times especially when you are having conversations with strangers, it's a bit of a trick. Try to gauge their personality and what they like and don't like and switch your conversations accordingly. For example even if you are talking to someone on the forum, they are still technically strangers and so avoid being too close or personal. For example if I had to talk to a guy on here, and after a few conversations if I asked something like "are you going out with your gf tonight? “ that can easily make him feel weird. You could maintain some distance on a personal level and keep engaging the person with general questions like" hey what do you think about this video on economics? " stuff like that, this is not only creates a source of personal comfort for the other person and also helps you have a conversation with the person. It's a safer bet to avoid falling on the wrong side of that person's perceptions of you. Just a few pointers on formal and personal communication. I have noticed that you are a bit emotional. Which is good. You could express your emotions in your journal. But there is a bit of a issue in this department. You can only trust your romantic partner to share the same emotional plane with you. People online are most likely going to say things like "hope you feel better" etc etc, they can't be on the same emotional plane as you. I did observe in my interactions with you, you wanted me to be on the same emotional plane. But you can't expect something like that from random people. They can only support as much as they can. The kind of support you are looking for can come from a person who is either living with you or who has been your friend for 10 years. Otherwise this sort of desire is a sign of emotional neediness. You will have to control this around people and express it to only your closest friends because only they can give you that support. I hope my conclusions helped..
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@Don Wei You could take some inspiration from other masculine celebs or popular personalities. To be honest, Jason Momoa is a bit too masculine if you ask me. He is 6ft 4 which is a bit too much and as you can see in the picture, the lady looks like a baby tugging at his arm, not a good look but okayish. Today I was watching Vladimir Putin's interview and I don't know much about him but I found him quite masculine. You can observe the way he smirks, laughs and smiles. Very masculine. And I looked him up and honestly he is not that bad Moderately masculine, not over masculine. This is when he was young. Nice facial features, very masculine and attractive In this picture he has unbuttoned his shirt, well I guess on purpose to look raw and macho. But he definitely has that look in his eyes to kinda grab a girl. If he was looking at me like that, I might have fallen in love with him. Even as an old man, he hasn't completely lost it, I mean he kinda maintained his muscle. He walks with pride, this is an essential component of showing masculine power. Many men think that you have to be some sort of a gangster to look rough and Tumble. You just have to be a bit self assertive yet cheerful and generous towards a female.
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I don't think women mind dating a guy older than them. But it varies from person to person. Depends more on how you perceive the age gap between you and the ladies who want to date you. And if you are okay with the age gap, most likely they would be okay too.
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Deadwood Trees Page 1 Emotions only arise when something is hurtful Emotions only arise when something happens. What about a person who engages in an action without emotions. Will they be experiencing strong emotions? Whats the difference? Can emotions be fake or genuine if they are experienced. I think when a person is genuinely hurt, they would cry or feel bad. What happens, let's say when you don't hurt someone but they claim that they are having a problem, then it's them being vindictive because it's not an emotion there but an agenda. There's no emotion there. There's an agenda there. I guess this is how the devil differs from the innocent. The innocent experiences an emotion. Whereas the devil has an agenda. Therefore the emotion is justifiable but not an agenda. The next question is how to beat this agenda. The thing is the devil will not use intentional purpose to achieve this agenda because there is a greater agenda . Will the innocent use intentional purpose. Yes. .can the devil use the same intentional purpose. There's a caveat Both can use intentional purpose. But both won't can't use the same level of emotional energy. Emotion is greater than intent. Emotion has a fierce energy that is lacking in intent. Plus there is a Hypocrisy problem. The devil wants to be a hypocrite and hides behind the curtains. He doesn't come to the battleground. He wants to reign Supreme. Ahh there you go. The Ego.the ego. The ego is the greatest downfall of the devil. The innocent is fierce. They come to the battleground only to see that the devil has disappeared. Yea because the devil is a coward. The devil uses intentional purpose as well.. But he lacks in energy to back it. He loses fuel. He gets complacent in his own ego. His agenda exposes him. He is made visible as the innocent removes the curtains to expose his agenda. Can the devil be actually interested in using intentional purpose. The answer is no. But even if they did, they would not be able to sustain it or manifest it because they lack oxygen for the fire. Fire needs oxygen to continue burning. In the absence of oxygen, the fire fizzles and goes out. The innocent keeps the fire burning. Because the innocent is strong in purpose and intent, strong in emotion, genuine in emotion and resilient in pursuit. The innocent has a burning desire, a passion. This burning desire is the oxygen.. This oxygen keeps the fire burning. And the pursuit relentless. This is a volcano. The thing is that the devil cannot produce a volcano. Because he is only flippant in his agenda, yet does not have a burning desire, does not experience genuine emotion, does not have strong emotion, cannot have rage, lacks passion, cannot have the qualities of the innocent,cannot have its turbulence.
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Always remember that genuine people will always stay by your side.
