WaveInTheOcean

I think some (many) girls will find it very comforting and actually attractive / be turned on, if you while making out with her (and can tell she's a bit nervous, slightly hesitant) then suddenly stop and smile and say something like "woah I don't know if we should do this, I just got so lost in the moment, I'm sorry if I did anything wrong"... Chances are she will now like you even more for saying that, feel very safe and like you really care about her (safety is one of the most important things for the feminine, necessary for her to be able to get horny) and reply: "you didn't do anything wrong, come here".

Great post! (Yes this forum is bugged a bit on phones)

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QFT In general to Lyobuv, Emerald and others (thx for participating and giving ur thoughts): Of course the man should approach a woman he is attracted to. That's obvious, cos men get turned on easier while women's attraction takes time (and effort) to ramp up. What I'm and Daniel is reffering to is simply that after you have approached her (let's say she doesn't reject you, which is already a good sign) and have lead the way: eg. you end up on a date at your place, ate dinner, had good talks, and are watching a movie in the sofa..., then of course yes, you have to initiate with touch. And then see how she reacts to you touching her (can be as simple as crossing fingers and letting your fingers tease hers/her thumb, like playing around, being slightly dominating. If she's accepting playful touch, she's 99% ready for a kiss. So when the movie ends (it's a good movie and you want to finish it!) you naturally go for the kiss. Now, while kissing it should be very easy for you to feel whether or whether not she's in for more (sex). Is she moaning while kissing, like really enjoying it, letting you touch her all over the body and even touching you back? Well, then she has basically pursued you for sex and you go ahead. You approached, lead the way, initiated, but SHE gave the final "let's have sex NOW!" signal TO YOU, by virtue of her not hiding that she's enjoying the kissing/making out and obviously signaling to you she's ready for more. That's what Daniel means by letting "her pursue." If you don't let her pursue but instead do it yourself, that would be like kissing her before touching her, or kissing her even if she didn't seem to enjoy getting touched. Or worse: you kissed her/are kissing her, but she is giving you zero signals she's enjoying it -- perhaps even the opposite! -- but you don't give a damn, and start taking off her clothes...: don't do that! That's basically the advice given here, and it should really apply to all stages of development. Don't be a fucking selfish dick, in other words:-) That's the lesson. It's a very big thing - often - for a woman to have sex with a new guy and let him penetrate her. Emotionally, physically. On all levels. (Makes sense from an evolutionary perspective, she could get pregnant!). Therefore it's vital -- if you care about her -- that she give you the full go-to signal before you aggressively pursue sex with her (taking of her panties, touching her down there etc.) It doesn't have to be verbally of course, -- my original post was slightly misleading.

"the earth" is a concept referring directly to the whole of the "land" we live on. Therefore saying it's round is the higher and more true perspective. If you're talking about whether the ground (you're standing on right now) is flat or round, then we could say flat is more true:-)

How would you treat your best friend? What advice? What would you tell him? Treat yourself like you'd treat your best friend/brother/sister.

I got zero clue what you are referring to since I didn't say a word about what those hints could be. You got any idea? Care to elaborate? Or did you just misinterpret what I wrote?

Of course you should set the stage ready for her to pursue. Do everything that makes her want to pursue. I.e. embody your masculinity in a healthy way, be funny, relaxed, carefree, unattached, lead the way, be confident. Give her subtle hints you would love to tear her pants off and fuck her, but don't actually do"that" until she is begging you for it;) Mens sexuality is more explicit, while women's is more implicit. The trick is for the man to make his very explicit sexuality implicit and make the women's implicit sexuality explicit. That's it boys. I feel women are actually a lot more sexual than men when they first get turned on. Men get turned on easier, yes, but then it's mostly just a quick fuck and you're done/pleased. Women can go on forever, never getting enough. Make her turned on by your way of being. Then she will pursue the sex with you.

Sweet

Amazing movie. Made me cry.

The objective World is nice and fine and all, lot of things to learn (apparently), yet even the ? is imagined by you. The outside is inside ☯️?

Ppl die everyday, so yes. Obv.

Haha. No and yes. Really if you do it then yes. This is so simple and obvious and it's funny I have to say it: but hey God, hello, yes you, -- you're God! ???

The purpose is Love. What else?

Smoke dmt. Simple.

You sir, have a good taste. Watched all of those (and Really liked them) except revolver. May I recommend, to everyone, the movie Ex Machina. Simply put a class movie on all levels.

Yeah everything that happens is perfectly synchronized for everybody (everybody being One). But sometimes, the synchronicities are more 'obvious' to the separate ego-body-mind. That's what we actual like to call 'synchronicities'.

Great! Lots of neuroscience supports the brain's need for winding down briefly between bouts of deep work/learning. Keep it up.

On the way to truth there will most likely be some crises. Hard ones. There has been at least for me. Dark night of the soul and all that jazz. But once you get past that, the truth shall set you free!

But yes, sometimes the common sense is completely wrong. For instance, just by looking out of the window, it should be common sense the ? is flat and that the ? is orbiting the ?! So sometimes what is common sense turns out to be completely wrong. Maybe one day, people will realize that the ?, like all other objects and concepts, are just a thought in the dream of God. ? But we gotta make distinctions between the relative and the absolute.

It's about staying alert, being skeptic, always reflecting, being critical, always staying open-minded -- ready to change ones beliefs -- and then assigning probabilities to one's beliefs. I'm 99,9999999999% sure the sun will rise tommorow. Likewise I'm perhaps 99,9999998 % sure the Earth is round and that NASA/all space scientists aren't conspiring against us? Then I'm perhaps 50% sure i will get accepted to the bachelor of Copenhagen, and 75% sure, I will get accepted at Odense. And I'm also very sure my mother and father are my biological ones, even though I can't be 100% sure. I'm also fairly sure my body will die if I jump out from a tower, yet even that isn't 100% given.

I sincerely think "flat earthers" are rather stupid,... moron is perhaps a rather strong word (like imbecile..) - point taken. Common sense is common sense. Like: I believe the sun will rise tommorow like it did today. That's common sense. All other people on Earth (that I know of at least, even flat earthers) seem to believe the same. Sure, you can call that belief an echo chamber, if you want, but that's besides the point. Sure, you are right - I can't be 100% sure of ANYTHING. Even that the Sun wil rise tommorow! You know, maybe some wild aliens will go and extinguish it tonight! Beliefs in and of themselves aren't an issue. Beliefs are very necessary to function in the world. If i didn't believe the Sun would rise tommorow, I'd act vastly different today. The issue is 'unexamined beliefs'. Unconsciousness. Ignorance. Attachments. If someone came with serious proof that the Earth is actually flat and that all pictures of Earth from space are manufactured, I'd strongly consider it. Until then, I choose to believe that there -- relatively speaking -- exists a planet, called Earth, that is round and which is teeming with life.

ayahuasca at a good ceremony with caring people behind it will help you if you are brave enough and trust in the medicine will guide you to your true self.

As human beings it seems like we in fact do have seen that the earth is round, multiple times, from space. Humans work on the space station. They take loada of pics. Humans have been on the moon. More pics. We have set up 100s of sattelities and probes into space, taking even more pics of Earth. Now, the question for you is this: What is more likely: that all those scientists and astranouts are part of a giant conspiracy to brainwash all the ppl on Earth to believe the earth is round for whatever reason xD..., Or that the earth simply is round, given all the evidence. You decide. In other words, you can go the "I am a moron-way"-route and believe the first (thus, the earth is flat) or you can go the more nuanced route, using common sense. :-))