WaveInTheOcean

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  1. https://images.app.goo.gl/b39KN71wY3rwVwFcA If you want to ascend and transcend, you first have to (or at least simultaneously) descend, integrate, accept and ground yourself in so-called physical reality. You can't fuck with survival. You can't intellectualize your way out of survival. First step towards true growth as a person is to accept and acknowledge that we are all in this dream of life together, that we are all fucked up in subtle different ways from childhood, and that we are all basically just doing our best to survive/reproduce socially and physically. We are all longing for getting immersed, bathed & dissolved in the luminating, burning light of 'Pure Self-Less Consciusness' and 'Infinite Unconditional Love'. We often think that wisdom, love, heaven, God, peace and happiness is somehow external to us; something we must find and hold on to in the outer, physical world. Now, this isn't entirely untrue. We need to search outside ourselves in order to realize that money, sex, materalism, success etc. only give us temporary peace and happiness. Then next, we have to be wise enough to turn our focus inward and recognize that True Love, True Peace, True Happiness & God & Heaven & Consciousness & Wisdom *always* comes from *within*. You are the architect. You're 'The Whole Universe' hallucinating being a human being accidentally stuck in a chaotic, physical, outer world. But this isn't a belief-system to adopt, this can only be directly experienced by relaxing into oneself in a profoundly meditative way, where only completely lets go and accepts The Present Moment completely as it is: Unconditional Infinite Love ... - so intense that almost none can surrender to it. Cos surrending to 'it' means giving up one's preconceived 'idea of self', which feels like dying. Dying is an illusion though. All that dies during a mystical experience is illusion. That which remains is You, whatever You is. Ego-death, Death, is really just a stripping away of all that is not you. If you can let go of yourself and accept all the Infinite Unconditional Love that is immanent in EVERYTHING,... - then you will become that: Love. You will become trans-human. You've always been it though. You've always been Love Itself. You just know it now. You're awake at last. Lucid dreaming. You remember again... that what you truly are is Infinite Unconditional Empty Love having an imaginary hallucinating, illusory 'human experience', in which You completely fooled and tricked Yourself into believing you were 'a poor little me' -- fragmented, temporary, separated. For what purpose? Play. Divine play (Lila). Reality is inherently playful. Play Consciously & Lovingly, but most importantly: play. Do the things you know you gotta do, but which you are scared of. From the PoV of The Absolute (Love, Consciousness, God, Norhingness) there is really nothing to fear (except fear itself, although even that is also just play, imaginary). Life isn't a journey from A to Z. Life is best described in terms of music ? ???☯️ ???️?. You don't go to a concert to hear the last splashing note being played as fast as possible, right? You go there to participate in play. To enjoy the Whole of it. Just like when you're dancing: you aren't trying to 'get to anywhere'... - the dance itself IS the 'getting to', the purpose, the point. It's so obvious: the meaning of Life is to live. Love. Play. Excitement. Contrast. Divine Infinite Imagination. ☯️☯️☯️☯️?????????????
  2. Even with thought there is still in truth no division (only apparant separation, imagined by You). You can become so conscious that you can still have thoughts while still simultaneously knowing and feeling the Divine United Harmonious Oneness of Everything. (=nothing is going on but ???).
  3. Cute projection. Everything i wrote i did not write. It just happened. It comes from a place of direct experience. But believe whatever you want. I have mercy for your soul beautiful spiritual fellow being. I am you.
  4. Enlightenment depends on nothing and everything. You're not in control. Yet you are. Lolz. Glhf bro, play, love ⏯️▶️?
  5. And it is so important to be able to talk about the most vulnerable shadowy aspects of yourself. With someone. With someone who listens and understands and accepts and forgives and loves you unconditionally. By doing the above, you're letting the shining, healing, burning, loving light of Consciusness illuminating 'your shadow' into 'your illuminating, unconditionally forgiving, non-judging empty awareness'. We are social creatures. Only by "reflection and mirroring through 'others'" can we truly understand ourselves. Consciousness is so contagious. When we are fucked up (and we all are), we really need someone who acknowledges THAT ... - and despite THAT still forgives, loves and understand YOU. Someone who truly LISTENS. I pray that every person in the ? has at least one other person who listens, and understand you on a deep level.
  6. You feel separated from 'others' cos you're back in survival-mode. (Yes, 'others' are imaginary, separation is imaginary, but if your heart and body tells you you're a separate self, you can't intellectualize your way out of it.) Nothing wrong with being in survival mode. Survival is what keeps the dream going. Cheers to that. You can't fuck with survival. If you want to ascend, transcend, completely, you first have to descend. Groundedness. Embrace physical reality. Break your comfort zones. Dream big. Love yourself. Love everything. Stay open. Take serous care of yourself as a person. Self desicipline is key. If you want to be completely free you first have to go full-blown survival machine first. Just do it Consciously. You have to show 'your ego' that getting money, sex, success, etc doesn't give you long lasting happiness, only temporary. The only truth is that there is no truth. You are absolutely speaking always where you want to be. Now. This. Your dream. You're the architect. Go build an amazing life. ????️?️?️
  7. The Midnight Gospel on Netflix, last episode - Mouse of Silver - seriously the best 30 minutes you'll ever spend in front of a screen.
  8. "Isn't it fair to say that we still don't understand the mystery of reality?" It's fair indeed. ;d but the opposite claim: that we do understand it quite well OR that there -- when it comes down to it -- rly isn't anything to 'get' ...are just as fair claims. The Truth is kind of in the middle, merging every polarity to One, 0. The point of Reality/Nature/Life/God/Consciousness is...to play. What else? We're just playing a serious game ;-) Also, notice you're talking about 'reality' and its mysteries as though reality and YOU are 'different' or/and can exist independently of each other. Can 'I/me/self' exist without 'other'? Can the world *exist*/*be*, without 'consciousness' to perceive it? What if Reality is nothing but experience itself? What if 'experience,' consciusness is all there is and ever could be? Remember, the moon is only bright, cos it reflects the sun's shine. So maybe there is no outside world 'in reality' ... and the outside is actually the inside and the inside, the outside... ??☯️ The world reflects what you feel on the inside. What you feel on the inside is what the world reflects to you. Have you ever experienced 'something' OUTSIDE of consciusness? If what there TRULY is IS Nothing but <pure empty consciusness> (PET), then how does PET 'know' it is PET with no 'chaotic forms' to contrast itself with? What if PET than began imagning form into existence? And what if everything you're looking at: the so called outside, external, physical world, is ACTUALLY just PET itself manifesting as infinite different forms? What if when you look at a tree, that it is actually equally as true to say that: the tree is looking at you. And that you are just as much the tree as your skin-encapsulated body/mind/small self? What if everything is just PET? You are PET. The tree is PET. Your mom and dad and Hitler and Jesus and God and Heaven and Hell: PET? There is ONLY YOU. "Really? I see other people, an outside physical world" --- Well yeah, but you imagine all that: the cat, your friends, trees to be 'something other than you'. It is Truly speaking YOU, but 'relatively speaking' it is 'appearing' as "not-you." Why? What? How? Magic. "A psychedelic experience seems plausible but it doesn't prove a damn thing; it is only a subjective experience that happens inside the mind." Do you really believe 'objective experience' exist? Like 'independent of you' ? What if *everything* is MIND? And that 'mind' (experience, consciusness, PET) doesn't happen inside anything. It just... happens? Inside itself, out of itself, by itself...grounded in... Itself (nothing, everything) ??? Is that possible? Maybe, right. Maybe. Maybe the ultimate truth of reality is that there is no ultimate truth. A beautiful strange loop / mind-bending, mystical paradox. But from the highest PoV, it isn't paradox. It's Nature. From the ego PoV, life & the world seems divided, fragmented, full of differences, bad and good, full of paradoxes. What prevents you from seeing through the lens of the highest PoV? Maybe you already are. Maybe you just aren't aware, like a fish isn't aware it's swimming in water, or like a deaf-born girl doesn't know what silence is, or like a blind-born man doesn't know what darkness is. ... Contrast. Play. Game. Hide and seek. Goodness. God. Infinite Imagination. Love. ❤️
  9. Hey bro. You seem awake in mind (thought) but still asleep in heart (feeling) and body (instinct). To be truly enlightened you need to be awake in all three aspects of this trinity. You're probably a type Five, Sex or Seven in enneagram. Study that more. Your whole post is more or less your ego speaking. You're awake in mind, but the ego is hiding now in your bodily chakras and emotional centers. Thus the ego speaks from body and heart through your mind. There is nothing more for your mind to understand. But there is a lot to understand, transcend, love and become conscious of for your heart and body. Go live life. Talk to a psychotherapist. Live. Life has to be lived. You cannot eat the menu , or ofc u can, but it tastes miserable yes. Your heart is longing for true freedom. Your body is longing for merging with Your True Soul. Good luck, love you ☯️?? And remember: to truly be able to ascend fully, one first has to descend fully. Groundedness. You need to get down in your body and feel more ans think less. It can be a problem to be too much in one's head.
  10. It's just as much a surrender to life as it is a surrender of life. It's being aware what life is: absolutely nothing but your perspective. You can choose any perspective you want. This kind of freedom is scary af to the ego. There is only life No death. Illusion. Life = Consciousness = Heaven = You = God = Dream = Divine Play
  11. You are either a 5 with wing 4 or a 4 with wing 5. Check out http://enneagramschoolofawakening.org/the-9-types - they have some pretty neat direct spiritual pointers about each type. Enjoy.
  12. What's DMT to you then? Nice analogy haha. Yet to try 5-meo, but DMT can often feel like a mindfuck as well, all tho these days for me it's just a pretty gentle ride towards god consciousness without that many fancy in your eye pooping visuals
  13. Which of the 9 Enneagram types are you according to the Enneagram model?
  14. We all have our different perspectives on things. Be glad for all the infinite varieties of life ... Find a girl who's beyond that game (but now ofc just plays a "higher" or different kind of game based on her baseline level of consciousness). You're also playing a game. We are all playing ????
  15. Thanks for elaborating -- sorry if i was being too rude. Last point from me: it's not so about what, when and where you talk to girls; it's how you do it, how you talk, how you approach, the subtle implicit energy you're sending out. With charisma, self-love & high self esteem, you can easily talk to strange girls in the supermarket without being seen as creepy. But yeah - evening/night time/parties are often the best time to approach. When doing cold approaching, sex is btw only a side benefit / added bonus; the main benefit / gold of doing cold approach is it can boost your self esteem, self-love a fucking lot which means it about self development ans learning to be well balances/well contained in regards to ones natural masculinity.
  16. Oh boy. This is it. Everything. Imagination. Including Alan Watts. Including me as a person. Including you as a person. Including "being asleep" -- including "being awake". Death. Life. Two sides of the same coin. Ultimately, no difference. Only the difference YOU imagine there is (as God). Everything. Imagination. Nothing. Real. Unreal. Real. Everything. Nowhere to get to. Everywhere to get to. Sing. Dance. Play. Enjoy. Live. Let go. Love. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- "I have lived on the lip of insanity, wanting to know reasons, knocking on a door ... It opens - I've been knocking from the inside!" --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Just like a meteor falling down from the sky and destroying your living room is: - not your doing, - nothing to do with you, - out of your control, - not your own free choice, likewise is "insert-your-name" (with your body and with all your 'problems', inclinations, thoughts, feelings etc.) that coincidentally was born out of your mother's stomach (and ruined 'your peace')...: - not your doing, - noting to do with you, - out of your control, - not your own free choice. ((( However, one could also turn the above completely on its head and say that the metor impact WAS/IS my doing, and that my birth into (= out of) this world likewise WAS/IS a free choice that *I* took ☯️ ☯️ ☯️ ))) But if the above is true what are 'you' then? 'What am I?' I/You are That/He/She which dreams , imagines: - that a meteor (perhaps) fell down and ruined your house ?? - that "insert-your-name" was born and is currently xx years old, has an ugly/nice/normal/abnormal body, study/work with yyy and has zzz problems, hhh thoughts & worries & regrets, fff inclinations, sss dreams. And what IS 'that' ??? I don't know. No one does. Because it cannot be known - as in "traditional knowledge" can be known. It can only be. You are IT - already! Always. One can never not be 'IT'; the only (imagined) difference is whether you're aware of 'IT' or not. Consciousness. You could call it God, Love, The Eternal Dreamer, The Dao, The Absolute, Infinity, Eternity, Nothingness, Everythingness, Consciousness, Spaghetthi-Monster... In some way, it really doesn't matter what we call/name 'Reality', since <words/thoughts/logic/concepts/rationality> naturally never can contain IT. Sometimes it may even be wise to not try to call it anything! What is Reality? THIS: ................ *smashing a gong* ... and we won't give it a name! Can you bite your own teeth? Can eyes looking out ever see from where they are looking? Can a fist grasp itself? What a caterpillar calls the end of the world -- we call a butterfly! Luckily we got music, dancing, embodiment/physical activites, sex (tantra), meditation, breathwork, psychedelics, art .... that can in a much better way can contain ("show us") 'IT' than words/thoughts/science/logic/conceptualizing can! THIS IS IT! THIS. HELLO! YES. THIS. NO - NOT THAT. THIS! HA HA HA <3 <3 <3 The finger pointing to the moon ..... is NOT the moon. You cannot eat the menu! The map is not the terrotity. It is a SILLY idea to try to live life in your head all the time! (It can be very good and fine to think and reflect and contemplate a lot -- but you have to be practical about life too!) Form, emptiness. Emptiness, form. Life, death. Death, life. Good, bad. Evil, Good. Implicit, explicit. Outer, inner. Internal, external. External, internal. Physical, mental. Mental, physical. Material world, Consciousness. Consciousness, the outside world. Being, Nothingness. Nothingness, Everything. Up, down. Down, up. Worse, better. Better, worse. Self, other. Other, self. Free will, determined/controlled. Determined, free. Illusion, real. Real, dream. The real unreal --- The unreal real. Form is Emptiness --- Emptiness is Form. Hell, Heaven. Both here. Now. What you see is solely determined by 'the inner game'; that is: how you look at the world; from where? From which point of view? Which perspective? Believe in the story that gives you most inner joy. Anything else is a form of silly autism. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- The world -- existence, life -- will never be good unless you are willing to see its goodness. What you experience depends on how you look at things. When you look with judgement -- either upon yourself, the world or both -- life seems twisted and empty. When you begin to look with an open heart and mind, life becomes fascinating and full of both meaning and mystery. When you realize the perfection, intelligence and beauty of everything in existence precisely as it is (without the filters of ego; yes, drop them - let go!), you see that every outcome is a good one. You start to live life fully without fear and regret. You learn and move on. When you look with love instead of judgement, you see a whole different world. Life isn't easy all the time. You're not alone. For there to be joy, there has to be some pain. So instead of looking at the painful life-phases that you're undergoing as "bad", look at them as absolutely necessary and beneficial in the long run for your own growth and eventual happiness. Remember, nothing lasts forever, everything passes away at some point. 0. Knowledge is but a rumor until it lives in the body/bones. 1. Reality is non-dual. Non-duality means: Not one, not two. The question is: do you get it or not? For example, let's take the extreme duality: good - bad . Obviously complete opposites. Right? Well, not so fast. "Apply non-duality to it": Reality is not: bad Reality is not: good (either) Reality is not: "good AND bad" (paradox). Reality is: ________________ (Or you 'could' say: "bad-good"). 2. To let go of power is to gain power. 3. To let go of control is to gain control. Life is about all the contrasts! As a wise man said: - The heavenly highs, one is capable of reaching, are directly proportional with the unknown depths, one has the courage to dive down into. - The apparent seperation / division / fragmentation, paradoxes, opposites ... only exist in the divided mind, based on subject-object-relations ... ((( that is how the illusionary, separate self -- the ego -- survives; or we could say that 'opposites/duality creates the illusion of ego'; a kind of 'strange loop' that is almost impossible to 'get out of' (impossible because 1. it is imaginary, 2. you imagined it yourself and deep down want to stay in it, 3. in a sense there is nothing to get out of; you *trying* to get out (becoming awakened / enlightened) is what keeps you in 'it' (= asleep, ego) ... - It is "possible" though, just like it is possible for a larva through 'rebirth' to become a butterfly; the larva is in a beautiful away ALREADY the butterfluy, just like an acorn contains the whole tree ... ))) ... - but from the Level of Unity (The Heavenly Self's Consciousness; God's point-of-view) all these 'apparent' opposites/paradoxes -- all fragmentation, division, seperation -- are dissolved & melted 'back into' what they truly are & have always been: Your Imagination - Oneness. One. Zero. Unity. Harmony. Oneness. Lila. Divine play. Game. Theater play. An Eternal Dance. Musical Music. The Bottomless Bottom. The Gateless Gate. The Ground of Being. The Groundless Ground. God. Unconditional Love. Nothingness. The Eternal Dao That Cannot Be Spoken. Buddha Nature. Christ Consciousness. Pure Awareness. Infinity. Source. The Absolute. Goodness with a capital G. Just Love. ☯️?????❤️?? ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- "The difficulty in realizing this to be so is that conceptual thinking cannot grasp it. It is as if the eyes were trying to look at themselves directly, or as if one were trying to describe the color of a mirror in terms of colors reflected in the mirror. Just as sight is something more than all things seen, the foundation or "ground" of our existence and our awareness cannot be understood in terms of things that are known. We are forced, therefore, to speak of it through myth—that is, through special metaphors, analogies, and images which say what it is like as distinct from what it is. At one extreme of its meaning, "myth" is fable, falsehood, or superstition. But at another, "myth" is a useful and fruitful image by which we make sense of life in somewhat the same way that we can explain electrical forces by comparing them with the behavior of water or air. Yet "myth," in this second sense, is not to be taken literally just as electricity is not to be confused with air or water. Thus in using myth one must take care not to confuse image with fact, which would be like climbing up the signpost instead of following the road. Myth, then, is the form in which I try to answer when children ask me those fundamental metaphysical questions which come so readily to their minds: "Where did the world come from?" "Why did God make the world?" "Where was I before I was born?" "Where do people go when they die?" Again and again I have found that they seem to be satisfied with a simple and very ancient story, which goes something like this: <<< There was never a time when the world began, because it goes round and round like a circle, and there is no place on a circle where it begins. Look at my watch, which tells the time; it goes round, and so the world repeats itself again and again. But just as the hour-hand of the watch goes up to twelve and down to six, so, too, there is day and night, waking and sleeping, living and dying, summer and winter. You can't have any one of these without the other, because you wouldn't be able to know what black is unless you had seen it side-by-side with white, or white unless side-by-side with black. In the same way, there are times when the world is, and times when it isn't, for if the world went on and on without rest for ever and ever, it would get horribly tired of itself. It comes and it goes. Now you see it; now you don't. So because it doesn't get tired of itself, it always comes back again after it disappears. It's like your breath: it goes in and out, in and out, and if you try to hold it in all the time you feel terrible. It's also like the game of hide-and-seek, because it's always fun to find new ways of hiding, and to seek for someone who doesn't always hide in the same place. God also likes to play hide-and-seek, but because there is nothing outside God, he has no one but himself to play with. But he gets over this difficulty by pretending that he is not himself. This is his way of hiding from himself. He pretends that he is you and I and all the people in the world, all the animals, all the plants, all the rocks, and all the stars. In this way he has strange and wonderful adventures, some of which are terrible and frightening. But these are just like bad dreams, for when he wakes up they will disappear. Now when God plays hide and pretends that he is you and I, he does it so well that it takes him a long time to remember where and how he hid himself. But that's the whole fun of it—just what he wanted to do. He doesn't want to find himself too quickly, for that would spoil the game. That is why it is so difficult for you and me to find out that we are God in disguise, pretending not to be himself. But when the game has gone on long enough, all of us will wake up, stop pretending, and remember that we are all one single Self—the God who is all that there is and who lives for ever and ever. Of course, you must remember that God isn't shaped like a person. People have skins and there is always something outside our skins. If there weren't, we wouldn't know the difference between what is inside and outside our bodies. But God has no skin and no shape because there isn't any outside to him. [With a sufficiently intelligent child, I illustrate this with a Möbius strip—a ring of paper tape twisted once in such a way that it has only one side and one edge.] The inside and the outside of God are the same. And though I have been talking about God as 'he' and not 'she,' God isn't a man or a woman. I didn't say 'it' because we usually say 'it' for things that aren't alive. God is the Self of the world, but you can't see God for the same reason that, without a mirror, you can't see your own eyes, and you certainly can't bite your own teeth or look inside your head. Your self is that cleverly hidden because it is God hiding. You may ask why God sometimes hides in the form of horrible people, or pretends to be people who suffer great disease and pain. Remember, first, that he isn't really doing this to anyone but himself. Remember, too, that in almost all the stories you enjoy there have to be bad people as well as good people, for the thrill of the tale is to find out how the good people will get the better of the bad. It's the same as when we play cards. At the beginning of the game we shuffle them all into a mess, which is like the bad things in the world, but the point of the game is to put the mess into good order, and the one who does it best is the winner. Then we shuffle the cards once more and play again, and so it goes with the world. >>> This story, obviously mythical in form, is not given as a scientific description of the way things are. Based on the analogies of games and the drama, and using that much worn-out word "God" for the Player, the story claims only to be like the way things are. I use it just as astronomers use the image of inflating a black balloon with white spots on it for the galaxies, to explain the expanding universe. But to most children, and many adults, the myth is at once intelligible, simple, and fascinating." - Alan Watts, The Book on the Taboo Against Knowing Who You Are ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- "It is by going down into the abyss that we recover the treasures of life. Where you stumble, there lies your treasure. The very cave you are afraid to enter turns out to be the source of what you are looking for. The damned thing in the cave that was so dreaded has become the center. You find the jewel, and it draws you off. In loving the spiritual, you cannot despise the earthly." - J. Campbell. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- “This is IT! So you don’t need to do anything at all… It’s just the way it is. What’s required is a sort of act of super relaxation.. It’s not just letting go. It’s being with yourself as you are without altering anything.” ~ Alan Watts “When you look for your own mind, that is to say, your own particularized center of being which is separate from everything else, you won’t be able to find it. But the only way you’ll know it isn’t there is if you look for it hard enough, to find out that it isn’t there. And so everybody says ‘All right, know yourself, look within, find out who you are.’ Because the harder you look, you won’t be able to find it, and then you’ll realize it isn’t there at all. There isn’t a separate you. You’re mind is what there is. Everything. But the only way to find that out is to persist in the state of delusion as hard as possible…. So if a person believes that the Earth is flat, you can’t talk him out of that. He knows it’s flat. Look out the window and see; it’s obvious, it looks flat. So the only way to convince him it isn’t is to say ‘Well let’s go and find the edge.’ And in order to find the edge, you’ve got to be very careful not to walk in circles, you’ll never find it that way. So we’ve got to go consistently in a straight line due west along the same line of latitude, and eventually when we get back to where we started from, you’ve convinced the guy that the world is round. That’s the only way that will teach him. Because people can’t be talked out of illusions. There is another possibility, however. But this is more difficult to describe. Let’s say we take as the basic supposition–which is the thing that one sees in the experience of satori or awakening, or whatever you want to call it–that this now moment in which I’m talking and you’re listening, is eternity. That although we have somehow conned ourselves into the notion that this moment is ordinary, and that we may not feel very well, we’re sort of vaguely frustrated and worried and so on, and that it ought to be changed. This is IT! So you don’t need to do anything at all. But the difficulty about explaining that is that you mustn’t try and not do anything, because that’s doing something. It’s just the way it is. In other words, what’s required is a sort of act of super relaxation; it’s not ordinary relaxation. It’s not just letting go, as when you lie down on the floor and imagine that you’re heavy so you get into a state of muscular relaxation. It’s not like that. It’s being with yourself as you are without altering anything. And how to explain that? Because there’s nothing to explain. It is the way it is now. See? And if you understand that, it will automatically wake you up!” ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Life is not a problem to solve, but an experience to be had. However, sure - you can imagine all kinds of problems that "should" be solved (in order for you & the world ? to be at peace ?️), but that is just it: imagination, fantasy, a dramatic good movie, a theater play, a book, a game... play ???. Life is what you choose to experience. The ultimate meaning of life is very simple: it's life itself! Of course! But this is so obvious that almost no one seems to buy into it, and everyone runs around in great panic and try desperately to achieve something beyond themselves. There isn't anything wrong with trying to achieve something beyond oneself, as long as one remembers it's just a cute game. But of course: We should all strive to make it a good game, a good dream, a good book, a good play, a good film... with total redemption for all the dream-characters in the end ??❤️?. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- https://youtu.be/wU0PYcCsL6o There’s aren’t enough words to describe how powerful this video is for me. It’s in my iPod and every single morning before I lift I listen to this speech. It’s absolutely stunning. Inspirational. Motivating. It’s everything to me. I would like for you to watch it and tell me what you think. We all should dream big. Without going after our dream, we cannot possibly live our best life. It is there for a reason. It’s necessary that we follow it…not just an option: "If you awaken from this illusion and you understand that black implies white, self implies other, life implies death (or shall I say death implies life?), you can feel yourself – not as a stranger in the world, not as something here on probation, not as something that has arrived here by fluke - but you can begin to feel your own existence as absolutely fundamental. I am not trying to sell you on this idea in the sense of converting you to it, I want you to play with it. I want you to think of its possibilities, I am not trying to prove it. I am just putting it forward as a possibility of life to think about. So then, let’s suppose that you were able every night to dream any dream you wanted to dream, and that you could, for example, have the power within one night to dream 75 years of time, or any length of time you wanted to have. And you would, naturally, as you began on this adventure of dreams, you would fulfill all your wishes. You would have every kind of pleasure you could conceive. And after several nights of 75 years of total pleasure each you would say “Well that was pretty great. But now let’s have a surprise, let’s have a dream which isn’t under control, where something is gonna happen to me that I don’t know what it's gonna be." And you would dig that and would come out of that and you would say “Wow that was a close shave, wasn’t it?”. Then you would get more and more adventurous and you would make further- and further-out gambles what you would dream. And finally, you would dream where you are now. You would dream the dream of living the life that you are actually living today. That would be within the infinite multiplicity of choices you would have. Of playing that you weren't God, because the whole nature of the godhead, according to this idea, is to play that he is not. So in this idea then, everybody is fundamentally the ultimate reality, not God in a politically kingly sense, but god in the sense of being the self, the deep-down basic whatever there is. And you are all that, only you are pretending you are not." - Watts up, Alan? Love ya all <3
  17. Whatever you imagine that can " work for 'you' " will eventually turn out to work That's the beauty of it. I imagined psychedelics would awaken me, and boy, they did. But I could imagine anything to do that. LOL. I happen to think "psychedelic work" is a particular good idea to imagine as useful in regards to awakening. He he:D But anything could work -- in theory.
  18. Yep. Hehe. So obvious. no one = you = God = no one = enlightened/unenlightened. What do you want? A cute dream where you're not aware that it's a dream (but think it's "uhh ... soo reaaall") or a dream where you're aware that it is a dream? I prefer the last, but most of my life lived in the first. And I respect Myself as Others wanting to live life out from the first perspective. They are just as enlightened - they are Me... God. <3 <3 <3
  19. watch this video you silly fuck let go ! <3 love you!
  20. You pulled these numbers out of your ass? Even let's pretend it's true, what prevents YOU as a current victim from becoming the top 15%? Looks? Money? Charisma? Self-Love? Check you're limiting beliefs. Grow some balls. Talk to girls. Practice self love. Watch the charisma on command YouTube channel. There are *infinitely* many things you could do to improve your situation. Trust me, I've been where you are. The victim mindset. But it's possible to get out. Hard work as you say. Rewarding AF tho. Let's go bro ?????? You keep talking from the pov of guys. What about the poor women who can't find any confident, funny, charismatic, strong guys? They're left with dog shit: shy, unconfident boys like you (and me +2 years ago) ??? Screw the good luck part. I wanna take your false victim mind set and throw in the bin. Screw that. There's no luck in this dream you're dreaming as God pretending to be Karmadhi. Absolutely speaking: Everything is happening very very very delibaretly; "luck" is just something you imagine! This is puke inducing to read for me. Look bro. Human beings, women, girls are NOT a fucking commodity you sick fuck. For fuck sake. Jesus christ. They are human beings! Go and talk to them!! Be funny, say something silly. What's the worst thing that can happen? Are you afraid they will instantly shove your pants off and bite your dick off if you approach them? Let go of limiting beliefs. The world -- existence, life -- will never be good unless you are willing to see its goodness. What you experience depends on how you look at things. When you look with judgement -- either upon yourself, the world or both -- life seems twisted and empty. When you begin to look with an open heart and mind, life becomes fascinating and full of both meaning and mystery. When you realize the perfection, intelligence and beauty of everything in existence precisely as it is (without the filters of ego; yes, drop them - let go!), you see that every outcome is a good one. You start to live life fully without fear and regret. You learn and move on. When you look with love instead of judgement, you see a whole different world. Life isn't easy all the time. You're not alone. For there to be joy, there has to be some pain. So instead of looking at the painful life-phases that you're undergoing as "bad", look at them as absolutely necessary and beneficial in the long run for your own growth and eventual happiness. Remember, nothing lasts forever, everything passes away at some point. 0. Knowledge is but a rumor until it lives in the body/bones. 1. Reality is non-dual. Non-duality means: Not one, not two. The question is: do you get it or not? For example, let's take the extreme duality: good - bad . Obviously complete opposites. Right? Well, not so fast. "Apply non-duality to it": Reality is not: bad Reality is not: good (either) Reality is not: "good AND bad" (paradox). Reality is: __________________ (Or you 'could' say: "bad-good"). 2. To let go of power is to gain power. 3. To let go of control is to gain control The real unreal The unreal real Form is Emptiness, Emptiness is Form. You can't eat the menu. The map is not the territory. The finger pointing to the moon... is NOT the moon. Stop trying to live life in your head! Can you bite your own teeth? Can eyes looking out ever see from where they are looking? Can a fist grasp itself?... What a caterpillar calls the end of the world..., we call a ??? butterfly. Haha more victim mindset. Of course dude, for there to be guys who are wanted there has to be guys who are not wanted. You see? You can't have light without dark, up without down, heads without tails, better without worse. Etc. Life is a musical thing. A dance. Go out and participate. Play some fucking nodes instead of wasting life on this silly forum. Dance!?????‍♂️ No, it's also about you. Problems are something YOU (as God) are imagining into existence. https://www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/875661.Rumi “This is IT! So you don’t need to do anything at all… It’s just the way it is. What’s required is a sort of act of super relaxation.. It’s not just letting go. It’s being with yourself as you are without altering anything.” ~ Alan Watts “When you look for your own mind, that is to say, your own particularized center of being which is separate from everything else, you won’t be able to find it. But the only way you’ll know it isn’t there is if you look for it hard enough, to find out that it isn’t there. And so everybody says ‘All right, know yourself, look within, find out who you are.’ Because the harder you look, you won’t be able to find it, and then you’ll realize it isn’t there at all. There isn’t a separate you. You’re mind is what there is. Everything. But the only way to find that out is to persist in the state of delusion as hard as possible…. So if a person believes that the Earth is flat, you can’t talk him out of that. He knows it’s flat. Look out the window and see; it’s obvious, it looks flat. So the only way to convince him it isn’t is to say ‘Well let’s go and find the edge.’ And in order to find the edge, you’ve got to be very careful not to walk in circles, you’ll never find it that way. So we’ve got to go consistently in a straight line due west along the same line of latitude, and eventually when we get back to where we started from, you’ve convinced the guy that the world is round. That’s the only way that will teach him. Because people can’t be talked out of illusions. There is another possibility, however. But this is more difficult to describe. Let’s say we take as the basic supposition–which is the thing that one sees in the experience of satori or awakening, or whatever you want to call it–that this now moment in which I’m talking and you’re listening, is eternity. That although we have somehow conned ourselves into the notion that this moment is ordinary, and that we may not feel very well, we’re sort of vaguely frustrated and worried and so on, and that it ought to be changed. This is IT! So you don’t need to do anything at all. But the difficulty about explaining that is that you mustn’t try and not do anything, because that’s doing something. It’s just the way it is. In other words, what’s required is a sort of act of super relaxation; it’s not ordinary relaxation. It’s not just letting go, as when you lie down on the floor and imagine that you’re heavy so you get into a state of muscular relaxation. It’s not like that. It’s being with yourself as you are without altering anything. And how to explain that? Because there’s nothing to explain. It is the way it is now. See? And if you understand that, it will automatically wake you up!” ... Life is not a problem to solve, but an experience to be had. However, sure - you can imagine all kinds of problems that "should" be solved (in order for you & the ? to be at peace ?️), but that is just it: imagination, fantasy, a dramatic good movie, a theater play, a book, a game... play ???. Life is what you choose to experience. The ultimate meaning of life is very simple: it's life itself! Of course! But this is so obvious that almost no one seems to buy into it, and everyone runs around in great panic and try desperately to achieve something beyond themselves. There isn't anything wrong with trying to achieve something beyond oneself, as long as one remembers it's just a cute game. But of course, we should all strive to make it a good game, a good dream, a good book, a good play, a good film...with total redemption for all dream-characters in the end ??❤️?. ------------_----------- https://youtu.be/wU0PYcCsL6o There’s aren’t enough words to describe how powerful this video is for me. It’s in my iPod and every single morning before I lift I listen to this speech. It’s absolutely stunning. Inspirational. Motivating. It’s everything to me. I would like for you to watch it and tell me what you think. We all should dream big. Without going after our dream, we cannot possibly live our best life. It is there for a reason. It’s necessary that we follow it…not just an option: "If you awaken from this illusion and you understand that black implies white, self implies other, life implies death (or shall I say death implies life?), you can feel yourself – not as a stranger in the world, not as something here on probation, not as something that has arrived here by fluke - but you can begin to feel your own existence as absolutely fundamental. I am not trying to sell you on this idea in the sense of converting you to it, I want you to play with it. I want you to think of its possibilities, I am not trying to prove it. I am just putting it forward as a possibility of life to think about. So then, let’s suppose that you were able every night to dream any dream you wanted to dream, and that you could, for example, have the power within one night to dream 75 years of time, or any length of time you wanted to have. And you would, naturally, as you began on this adventure of dreams, you would fulfill all your wishes. You would have every kind of pleasure you could conceive. And after several nights of 75 years of total pleasure each you would say “Well that was pretty great. But now let’s have a surprise, let’s have a dream which isn’t under control, where something is gonna happen to me that I don’t know what it's gonna be." And you would dig that and would come out of that and you would say “Wow that was a close shave, wasn’t it?”. Then you would get more and more adventurous and you would make further- and further-out gambles what you would dream. And finally, you would dream where you are now. You would dream the dream of living the life that you are actually living today. That would be within the infinite multiplicity of choices you would have. Of playing that you weren't God, because the whole nature of the godhead, according to this idea, is to play that he is not. So in this idea then, everybody is fundamentally the ultimate reality, not God in a politically kingly sense, but god in the sense of being the self, the deep-down basic whatever there is. And you are all that, only you are pretending you are not." - Watts up, Alan? -------_------- "It is by going down into the abyss that we recover the treasures of life. Where you stumble, there lies your treasure. The very cave you are afraid to enter turns out to be the source of what you are looking for. The damned thing in the cave that was so dreaded has become the center. You find the jewel, and it draws you off. In loving the spiritual, you cannot despise the earthly." - J. Campbell. From the english wiki about <Lila> ('divine play' in hinduism//sanskrit) : "The basic recurring theme in Hindu mythology is the creation of the world by the self-sacrifice of God—"sacrifice" in the original sense of "making sacred"—whereby God becomes the world which, in the end, becomes again God. This creative activity of the Divine is called lila, the play of God, and the world is seen as the stage of the divine play. Like most of Hindu mythology, the myth of lila has a strong magical flavour. Brahman is the great magician who transforms himself into the world and then performs this feat with his "magic creative power", which is the original meaning of maya in the Rig Veda. The word maya—one of the most important terms in Indian philosophy—has changed its meaning over the centuries. From the might, or power, of the divine actor and magician, it came to signify the psychological state of anybody under the spell of the magic play. As long as we confuse the myriad forms of the divine lila with reality, without perceiving the unity of Brahman underlying all these forms, we are under the spell of maya. (...) In the Hindu view of nature, then, all forms are relative, fluid and ever-changing maya, conjured up by the great magician of the divine play. The world of maya changes continuously, because the divine lila is a rhythmic, dynamic play. The dynamic force of the play is karma, an important concept of Indian thought. Karma means "action". It is the active principle of the play, the total universe in action, where everything is dynamically connected with everything else. In the words of the Gita Karma is the force of creation, wherefrom all things have their life." My metaphysics right there. Believe in the story that gives you most inner joy. Anything else is a form of silly autism.
  21. Haha true enuff