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Could be you have an anxious attachment style

This would a big no for me, too! I would really express to him your deepest feelings about this. Be very expressive and don't hold back. "Baby when you hang out with other girls it just breaks my heart, I feel unimportant and it really hurts my feelings" Use "I" statements. Continue to speak from your heart, don't be afraid to cry. Try to focus on how the whole thing makes you feel and let him know. Set a boundary. If he doesn't care about your feelings, if he continues to hurt you in this way then you need to determine if it is worth the pain of staying with him.

One of the things that has really helped me is making sure that I am consistently building my life purpose.

The amount of hours that it takes to become a skilled artist is one of the things that is awe inspiring to me. Attention to detail and unique and new ideas are also things that moves me.

Nothing is for everyone.

Making sure you are solid in your values, who you are, what you want.

@Karmadhi Well hello!

Your soul is pure

I think this is ok. You can meditate and then at other times you can contemplate this. It’s ok to do both.

Yes, trauma affects the ways we treat others

I would use a diluted essential oil as your scent over a perfumed body spray especially if you’re getting a headache.

I’ve experienced that before. Sometimes it really is best not to say anything. Other times it can help your motivation. Feel it out.

I dated people who weren’t into spirituality for yearssss. And it honestly kinda broke my spirit. Being with someone who is spiritual makes the relationship so much more enjoyable for me. It’s a non-negotiable for me now.

You can make money off of anything. Don’t limit yourself like this.

Because they can show you things about your life and life as a whole that you may not be ready to see and integrate. They can cause you to awaken before you are ready to wake up which can cause all kinds of emotional problems. Especially if you don’t already have a solid materialistic base to back you up. They can cause you to “live in the clouds” and to poo poo material reality, like the importance of making money. They can also cause you to live in delusion, thinking that because the psychedelics have shown you so much that you are now wise, however without integration of psychedelic visions and teachings one only becomes full of themselves. Watch the actualized.org video titled The Top Dangers of Using Psychedelics

This is a tad bit silly my friend

Don’t force yourself to feel. Just be with your numbness.

Your second choice doesn’t have to be so dull. I wouldn’t join the forces because then you are even more of a slave but that’s just me. I’m also in the US so could be different elsewhere.

Resting and not giving a fuck about productivity

You’re not black. You don’t get to make claims like this. Your tone is also very disrespectful. If a black person tells me it was disrespectful and not ok for me to use the N word in any context then I would put my pride away and listen.

Know your purpose, what you like, get good at some skill like music or art

Depends when you ask lol. I’d say most people like probably 80% don’t enjoy living. also the question is more nuanced. Because some people may think they enjoy living but deep down they are suffering

Boredom is a good thing because it helps you see all the possibilities to create that do exist.

I agree 100%.

@Thought Art You're 26...that's so young. Men often get better looking as they age.