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You’re not black. You don’t get to make claims like this. Your tone is also very disrespectful. If a black person tells me it was disrespectful and not ok for me to use the N word in any context then I would put my pride away and listen.

Know your purpose, what you like, get good at some skill like music or art

Depends when you ask lol. I’d say most people like probably 80% don’t enjoy living. also the question is more nuanced. Because some people may think they enjoy living but deep down they are suffering

Boredom is a good thing because it helps you see all the possibilities to create that do exist.

I agree 100%.

@Thought Art You're 26...that's so young. Men often get better looking as they age.

@Gregory1 Please be more thoughtful in your speech on this forum.

It seems so rich with culture and history. Beautiful people, beautiful art. I hope to visit some day.

My two biggest regrets are not getting a 4 year degree after high school and taking too much ecstasy in my early 20's.

Healing dismissive avoidant/disorganized in an amazing relationship Read the book: Attached by Amir Levin and Rachel Heller for more on attachment theory!

I noticed a recurring theme of guilt throughout this post and I want you to know that this guilt is not doing any good. Beating yourself up is only causing more pain, dear. Please try to offer yourself kindness, you deserve it no matter what <3 Now for the hard truths... Most situations like this end very poorly. It doesn't sound like this one is going to end well and I'm sorry for your pain. You will learn from this, though. The bond between you is too toxic for healing. I wish for this to resolve quickly for you both. And I send you strength during this time, love.

The world will always tell you you're not enough in some regard. Whether it's your body, your fashion choices, the money you make, the creations you create. Good!! I think it's great to have high standards. It means you respect yourself and want more for yourself.

Lol he's a super high level psychonaut and personal development master who engages online regularly. What do you expectttttt. Dope outfit choice btw @Leo Gura

1. Yes but it doesn’t always look how you might think and it’s not necessarily easy even for experienced healers 2. Of course. When you can tell someone is mad at you without them saying anything—you are reading their energy. There are thousands of energetic clues you read throughout the day without even noticing. You can manipulate the energy of others but it can be unethical. You could change your energy which can change someone else’s (more ethical). 3. Yes. Stop thinking of energy as an invisible fantastical force. 4. Happens all the time. Some are more in tune than others. 5. Not even gonna answer this one 6. Infinite amount of things. If someone wants to build their powers they can study and practice. It does help to be naturally gifted with these matters, however.

@Javfly33 I don’t know how it is in your country. I’m in the US and I would be turned off if a guy had 3 women roommates. Not turned off enough to not sleep with you that night lol. But going forward you’d probably have to be really amazing or something for me to want to come back. I don’t want other bitches around hahaha. In terms of safety it makes zero difference if they are male or female roommates.

Because you’re still out there trying new things. Even if you don’t stick with it you are putting yourself out there and exploring life That’s good. It is going to feel weird taking small steps. Like you aren’t doing anything meaningful, but small steps do matter. It takes patience and faith to know they will lead somewhere good. Focus on being really kind to yourself. Notice the times you’re beating yourself up for not doing “enough” and change the narrative. You have to know that you’re in a viscous cycle right now and the way out is to actually take a step back. Slow way down. Be super nice to yourself. Take small steps.

@Yoremo This was me for a long time. The little things you’re doing that you aren’t sticking with are still growing you in a way You need to stop telling yourself you’re sucking at life and start noticing all the ways you’ve shown up for yourself No more shaming yourself, we don’t improve through shaming Stick to small steps

I’m sorry you feel that way.

The suffering of animals in our current system is a reflection of the way humans have been treating the earth for hundreds of years. We disconnected from our roots and began living out of harmony with nature. We can’t fix this through animal liberation first. That’s backwards. We need begin to listen to nature and break down current systems that oppress ALL.

It’s more blue and black actually

@Irina Wolf Wowwww this resonated so deeply with me. I used to tear the skin off my heels and fingers as well as bite my lips raw. I feel for you and am sorry you're going through this <3 One of the things that helped me was having a loving romantic partnership with someone who really cared about me. It wasn't the perfect relationship but it was very healing and I noticed that is when my picking began to reduce in severity. Couple other ideas... do you have a passion in life? Friends and family who love and accept you? Are you being kind to yourself about this? Try not to beat yourself up. You can't shame yourself into healing.

In Vipassana they teach that the sleepiness is part of the process. You have to keep bringing yourself back to your breath over and over again.

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I love that you are wanting to explore this! The stuff that’s shown in this video may not be good for a brand new partnership. It takes a bit to build the type of comfortability that is needed. It isn’t glamorous, but building good communication skills is very spiritual and will help build a good base for the relationship.

If not for pregnancy wear a condom for the STD factor. I wouldn’t put my fertility in the hands of a surgery.