RendHeaven

I strongly disagree. It sounds to me like you have a self-bias that was wounded by Leo's reasonable response, and so you're labeling it as "toxic" - as in "toxic for my wounded self-bias" but notice that what's toxic for you is not actually the same as what's toxic for everyone.

Nah, his delusions need to be laughed at. Hard. Calmly telling him why he's wrong won't change him. I mean, just look at his responses so far lol. His head is totally buried in the sand. I lean toward the empathetic/compassionate route myself in most occasions, but let's not discount the need for direct, no-bullshit retorts. I mean seriously? You're going to kill yourself because your body is ONE INCH shorter than the average male height (5'9)? That's fucking ridiculous. It's actually offensive towards people with actual physical disabilities. The lack of respect towards his mother who birthed him is palpable. If I were in a one-on-one conversation with him face-to-face, I wouldn't be so harsh. Because there I could actually show him empathy, compassion, and energetic love. But on an online forum where all he sees is a wall of text, he needs to be slapped. Coddling him here does nothing. @InsecureAnon Girls swerve you because you're drenched in insecurity. You stink of it. They don't give a shit about your fucking height lmao. You're so damn insecure it's so obvious. You even put "insecure" in your online name lmao. I bet the girls IRL feel the insecurity seeping out of you the second they look at you, you don't even have to open your mouth. It's like you walk around in a gaseous fog of self-hatred. That automatically deletes anything good you've got going for you. Girls reject you for your self-hatred before they even register the notion of height. So become secure. This is something you have power over. Prove me wrong. Prove us all wrong. Become strong. Get the women of your dreams. It's possible. Just become secure. There are plenty of resources online. Get studying'. Act on any confidence/self-love tips you learn. Literally go to YouTube right now and search "confidence." You can do it.

Dude this is absurd. You're in a self-made prison. In other words, nothing's stopping you from just leaving this hell and living free. Take back your power damnit.

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@Raptorsin7 ^This, of course! I've observed that selling constant euphoria is a rather vacant market (lol), especially among guys in their 20s... we tend to not have the patience for someone like Matt Khan. That's where I come waltzing in. I will have to walk a fine line though to appear credible and avoid corruption.

Lol

No problems whatsoever. Just crusin'

@Merkabah The idea of "individuals," the idea of "volition," the idea of "free will (not being the case)" - it seems like we're trying to hold these various ideas as a basis upon which to then hold the additional idea of "right vs wrong cannot be." To be fair, maybe this is just being too picky lol - if you had to debunk morality in a socially credible way using consistency of language, I think your approach is fantastic. But language and ideas are fantasy. It's worth noticing that there is an experiential/qualitative difference between actively unravelling/undoing your concept-constructions on a first-person basis without reference to any other conceptual crutches and ideating/fantasizing about nullifying your ideations/fantasies by cross-referencing ideas and fantasies. The latter is what we're used to; the former can be described as though you fully acknowledge your role as that which spawns, maintains, and lives-through all things in one fell swoop. Such a realization transcends language and ideas - so unsurprisingly, it's impossible to explain. But we try

@Lucas-fgm Bingo^ It's true that being super emotional may correlate to being spineless. But, being super emotional is also perfectly compatible with having a spine. So at least from my POV, it's not very meaningful to maintain a strict association between emotions and spinelessness. What'dya think >:)

Nah, that's just dragging in more mental conceptions. We can't fully deconstruct the fantasies of "right vs wrong" by invoking more fantasies because now we're just nesting fantasizes. Rather, we just directly realize that: "oh, I made up the difference. Haha."

Bless you

Why do you associate being super emotional with being spineless?

Haha remember the good old days when you were so sure of yourself that Leo should be turning actualized.org into a corporate empire. Glad to see things come full circle

I unlocked inexpressible Love & Beauty a few months back, to the point where I would spontaneously start crying daily out of sheer gratitude for the perfection of life (gosh that sounds corny but it's just true lol), but in recent days I've found myself using that sense of Love as a shield/distraction from practical survival. So I've put a pause on spiritual focus for the time being. Of course, I remain mindful throughout the day, and when Love comes to me, I'll accept it - but for the most part I'm fully immersed in this play of life, I'm allowing myself to really believe that I am this character, and most of my time is spent thinking about the future and the kind of impact that "I" can have on "other people." I'm really excited to take action and "do." No more "just being" (for now). YouTube is my long-term gamble. I currently get paid as a teaching assistant at my university, but that will only last for one more year. And then I'm set loose on the "real world." So I'm really hoping to get YouTube to happen within the next year. Currently I'm studying the algorithm, brainstorming topics, and scripting.

Precisely. You lose the idea of feeling like the world is out to get you, because everyone is you, and your MO is to share your abundance. Doesn't get more badass than that!

Sounds like we're in agreement lol

This analogy sounds like a limiting belief. You have ideas about spirituality that aren't true. Spirituality is like realizing that the candle was never even there. It has nothing to do with being a pitiful puddle of melted wax. Fuck this social doormat narrative. You can be a badass bloodhound and aligned with God. You make it sound like you have to pick one or the other, but no, you can be both. There is no conflict.

Or, maybe, he's onto something and you're too close-minded to hear or understand. You know, it's a good practice to listen when someone has more mastery than you.

Trying to not try lol Highly relate. In my mind I have to draw a sharp line between hustling for survival and letting go/spirituality.

@electroBeam I admit that this ^ is a genuine skill that changes wildly depending on setting and circumstance. But if you are already an attractive man with "game," it shouldn't be that hard to navigate, since imo becoming attractive is the tougher part of the journey. Godspeed!

...but yes it does There's nothing "obvious" about your misconceptions. Just as an attractive woman is attractive regardless of her surrounding circumstances, an attractive man is likewise attractive regardless of his surrounding circumstances. Since learning "game" is the process of becoming an attractive man, game therefore "works" everywhere and everywhen. Maybe you have more to learn... Yes, some details change but the attraction principles remain identical. The criteria for being attractive don't magically alter when the sun goes down, lmao. The only thing that changes is the way you handle logistics + your social calibration. Likewise with whether or not you're dealing with a stranger or an acquaintance. His name was Luke. He sold what he called "social circle game" but to the shock of nobody it was just the same principles repackaged under a cute new name. All of RSD's PUA/game stuff has been deleted off of YT.

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