Leo Gura

If you knew how much sex I sacrificed you would cry. I didn't say no pussy. I said less.

@Karmadhi You can copy the exterior of a player while maintaining a spiritual core. At least to some degree. But generally speaking the more spiritual you are the less hot pussy you will get.

Haha, But Leo, how do I get what I want?!

Girls are super flakey in general before sex. Expect zero respect for your time or your needs. Solution is to just make very low investment and keep talking to many girls at once. Don't do dumb things like courting a girl for months. You have to set standards and don't let them waste your time. If you suggest a date and she isn't eager for it, next. Do not try to win her over. Girls who are willing to sleep with you don't need to be won over. They will readily agree to a date without manipulation. It's a big mistake to try to work hard to get a girl. Instead invest that energy into talking to lots of new girls. It's a huge numbers game, not a manipulation game. Less manipulation, more numbers. Get 5 phone numbers per night and you will stop caring if 80% flake.

1) This is why it's important to develop an eye for the kind of girl you like. This requires practice and experience. Train your eye to quickly identify and decide whether a girl is hot enough for you or not. There's little point in sleeping with girls you aren't attracted to. It just creates a lot of problems and wastes a lot of time. 2) Once you find a girl you actually like, then you push yourself to close no matter what your anxiety level or insecurities or mood. Push your mood and just get it done. Your mood will catch up. 3) Then again, you can also learn to have fun with girls who aren't your ideal type. Takes some practice. Once she's naked you should basically just push yourself to finish the job. You don't have to marry her.

Strong eye contact, get close to her face, see if she flinches or moves away.

Your sexual subcommunication should be so strong that she tells you about her BF within a few seconds or minutes herself. If girls are not telling you about their BF until much later that tells you that your intent is too weak and needs work. Sexual eye contact is key. Work on that.

Might be allergic reaction.

I interpret models to suit my needs and my audience's needs. If you don't like my take on Spiral Dynamics, don't listen to it. That's not really my problem. That's an issue general to how people apply SD. I have warned against this trap many times. The irony is Beck himself misused it. That's some sick shit to say to me. The difference is, if someone creates their own forum on their own dime, I will not come take their forum down. You can create whatever forums you want, just don't leech off this forum to do it.

Exactly. And now there is a culture war over how to define it.

It has nothing to do with quenching curiosity.

Even definitions of sex are relative.

They are conscious in a different way. Likely, although I think it is a mistake to only look for DMT. There could be many other tryptamine molecules responsible for mystic consciousness. You'd have to test for them all. Well, DMT is more potent usually in the way it is taken.

Very good share.

The issue is one of relative definitions. Who gets to define what "man" is? Our definitions are not absolute. That's what you're missing. That video is an example of Blue & Green talking past each other.

It's not so simple because studies also seem to show that if you give LSD to schizophrenics they say that the LSD trip is not the same as their schizophrenia. But if you give the meth it deepens their schizophrenia. So schizophrenia is not merely a psychedelic state.

Boomers gonna boom

Yeah, well, I have a right to twist things however I want. I twisted it for a reason: because SD is misleading when it comes to understanding the highest levels of human consciousness. I am not loyal to any model or to Beck. I teach whatever I feel is most helpful for people to grow to their highest level. Beck does not get to say what I can and cannot say about SD. He could make his own videos if he wanted. And trademarking the name of a scientific model is a dick move. Imagine if I started teaching some new perspective on General Relativity and then Albert Einstein trademark striked me for it. Calling Ken Wilber stage Red is not perfectly reasonable. Beck had some serious biases. I am not the only one who twisted SD. Ken Wilber felt the need to do so too because he saw its limits at the higher stages.

Locked for low quality.

By that logic abortion is just survival The only species I know that considers itself important is humans.

I am very sensitive to noise. I use cheap foam earplugs much of the day in my house to get total silence. Eliminate airplane noise, car noise, biker noise, distractions, lawnmowers, leaf-blowers, etc. Perfect for meditation, contemplation, and work. I've worn them for years. Foam earplugs work best. Buy a giant box of them.

Yeah, that's a big struggle for us introverts. Extroverts have a much easier time just talking random bullshit. Here are a few tips: Talk about yourself. Talk about your ideas and feelings. Ask less questions, make more statements. Tell little stories from your life. Talk about topical stuff from the news. Read a bit of news before you go out. Or pop-culture news. Make up some assumptions about them like, "You look like you're from California". It doesn't have to make any sense or be accurate. Make observational comments: "Your dress reminds me of Pocahontas."

Two can play this game. If it's wrong to a kill a child, is it not wrong to kill an ant? What is the principle distinction between a human and ant? What's the difference? Why is it okay in the later cases and not the former cases?

It's hard to complete basic life functions on mushrooms. I once tried to record my mushroom trip and it took me like 5 minutes to figure out how to press the record button on my camera. Logical stuff stops making sense. You'd die pretty fast if you were on a permanent mushroom trip.

Not sure what to say about it. I have mixed feeling about him because of his support for Trump, denouncement of Ken Wilber, and trademark striking my Turquoise video.