Leo Gura

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  1. @thisintegrated Most people don't even know there is anything above Orange.
  2. @Blackhawk You have no clue what you are.
  3. The only way that's gonna work is if your partner is as super developed as you are. Both gotta be at Tier 2. And there has to be a deep core compatibility between you two. And basically you're talking about a couple that's in their 40s. There's no way that's gonna fly in your 20s and probably not even in your 30s. People are just too immature for that sort of thing at that age. Core maturity is a huge factor. An immature person is incapable of conscious relationship and conscious communication.
  4. Lots of people chase money and women their whole lives and never get to Green. So it's not so automatic. But we have talked a lot about exhausting stages. Especially see my video: Burning Through Karma
  5. No-self is way more than just an insight. No-self actually requires loss of a sense of self. Imagine that you simply forgot the self is even a thing. That's would be true realization of no-self. Right now you are just holding no-self as an idea. Notice, a coffee table cannot even conjure up the idea of a self. That's true no-self. What is a self anyway?
  6. @Preety_India Personally I don't like the label narcissist and I rarely use it. Because to me narcissism is just a strong form of selfishness which is the human condition. And yes, demonization of selfishness is itself selfish and self-defeating. It's actually pretty easy to empathize with a narcissist if you observe your own selfishness and self-bias. What is really the difference between him and you? It's a matter of degree.
  7. The core problem is that a person cannot change unless they really desire to change intrinsically. Most narcissists don't see their narcissism as a problem, so changing them becomes impossible. But if a narcissist developed a desire to change, they could change. Trump is a good example. If he desired to change he could stop doing all the shit he does.
  8. It's not lower IQ, it's just a different orientation and set of values, needs, priorities, strengths, ways of information process, and interfacing with reality. When it comes to dealing with people and taking care of children, women are way more intelligent than most guys. That's what the female mind is wired for. It's not wired for inventing gadgets or doing logic.
  9. Economic outlook is bad right now. That was before we had a bad economic outlook, inflation, gas prices, and supply shortages. Things have changed. Trump has a serious chance of winning now. I also overestimated how Republicans would distance themselves from Trump. Instead they have doubled down on MAGA nonsense. They are completely ethically and intellectually bankrupt. The only thing that they will listen to is raw power and strict law enforcement. They have no shame nor standards any more. If they are legally allowed to steal an election they will do it without qualms.
  10. Violent footage was released 1.5 years ago. You just weren't looking nor interested in it.
  11. You're way behind the curve on this. This Congressional hearing didn't release anything new, really. All the videos of Jan 6th showed how ugly and serious it was. You just aren't watching the right news sources. Trump has a very good chance of winning 2024 if he is allowed to run, thanks to the bad economy, inflation, gas prices, and a totally ignorant citizenry. Even someone like Elon Musk is biased and dumb enough to vote Republican in our current epistemic climate. It was obvious that Trump was a malignant narcissist, white collar criminal, and con-artist back in 2015. And it was obvious that he would try to take the whole ship down with him if he was going down himself. And that's exactly what happened, and will happen again if he is allowed power.
  12. Nowhere did I say you should be worrying so much. Life is a game you must play to the hilt even though you could get hit by a bus any day. In fact, playing it to the hilt is what gives you peace and happiness if your life ends tomorrow. If you get an illness and you have no purpose, that's when you will truly have no more reason to live. Life can get extremly hard and there's nothing that will prepare you for it. You can imagine very bad life conditions all day long. But it would be foolish to design your life around that, since odds of it are pretty low. You could get your dick bitten off tomorrow, but you shouldn't plan your life according to such edge cases. If you do get your dick bitten off tomorrow you can adjust your life plans accordingly. Notice how your OCD and fear is creating self-sabotage in your life. You can't become strong or successful with that kind of loser's mentality. It's big mistake to design your life around fear. And this does not mean bad shit won't befall you. It will. Deal with it. That's life.
  13. 1) You should get good at talking about mundane stuff with girls. Rarely will a girl give you much intellectual challenge. That's not really her function. 2) If you value deep intelligent conversations then you should emphasize that when screening girls. Some girls are deeper while most are shallow as a puddle. 3) Most girls will be more interested in people than in things and ideas. This is how girls gotta be to be good mothers. So to some extent you just learn to accept it.
  14. Rather than trying to respond or comfort someone, just get good at listening to them and asking clarifying questions that deepen understanding. Set your intention to simply see his POV, rather than trying to get something out of him. If you do this genuinely he should start to feel validated. This requires openmindedness, curiosity, coming from a place of not-knowing, and dropping your assumptions and expectations. The issue for you will be that you are very emotionally reactive, and if he is too, you two will trigger each other and that won't be sustainable. An emotionally reactive man is a rather weak man and that's gonna create problems in the masculine/feminine dynamic.
  15. If you dream it up, it is. What's foolish is to outsource your dosing of a very dangerous chemical to a fictional entity based on hearsay from a girl. I would not trust a girl to cook me a healthy dinner, nevermind how to dose psychedelics. How about you use your brain to guide yourself?
  16. @Razard86 @Aleister Crowleyy More compassion, less self-righteousness.
  17. Until you meet an alien, it's just hearsay. And even if you meet an alien, anything they tell you will just be more hearsay. Focus on direct experience.
  18. The precise answer is: Nowhere Space is imaginary.
  19. Yes, my videos can present serious challenges to youngsters. Advanced stuff. I will try more to warn of the dangers and traps. Yes, you must master some of the basics of survival before you jump too deep into transcending survival. Basically I assume if you watch my videos that you have handled the material covered in the LP Course. Those are the survival fundamentals. But of course most of you haven't done that. But also I cannot sit around waiting for you. Thanks for the feedback.
  20. What's dangerous and delusional is trusting some "entity" you haven't even seen, and using that as guidance for dosing psychedelics. This is totally irresponsible and violates the fundamental principle of our work here: which is to take 100% responsibility and sovereignty over your development. Stop foolishly trusting others, including your girlfriend. Trust yourself. Think for yourself. If you are putting a chemical into your body the only valid justification for that is because YOU decided it is correct. Not because someone told you, and you are just following orders. You are God. Stop playing games with these "entities". The only thing that exists is yourself.
  21. @CultivateLove I have a video: What Does Awakening Feel Like? which fully explains it.
  22. How about you start framing your political and ethical questions in a Tier 2 way? This isn't kindergarten.