Leo Gura

If it is ever complete, yes, it will be a massive tome over 1000 pages. But it will also contain many colorful illustrations and diagrams. I have a few parts written and probably 1000 pages of outlines and notes. Figuring out how to organize it all into a linear sequence is the biggest challenge. Yes, it will be associated with Actualized.org and Leo.

@billiesimon Good! It's a start.

No! Both genders are looking to maximize survival of the ego-mind. Whatever that entails. Each ego-mind has it's own priorities and needs which it self-biasedly justifies as "authentic", "true", and "good". It's all illusions and devilry within devilry. Survival is not about truth. A truthful relationship is a virtually non-existent thing. They are rarer than hen's teeth. You can create one, but it's nothing that happens automatically.

It's important to distinguish attraction vs dating vs relationship. These are distinct phases. What I'm talking about here is mostly the first phase: attraction, without which nothing else is possible. Once the relationship begins for real (after a few times of sex), then things change. I recommend all guys practice what I call Conscious Relationship. Which is a huge topic which I won't explain here. Suffice it to say, you ladies would love it. It's everything you want out of a relationship and much more. It's the thing you wish pickup was because you're not concerned about the attraction phase much. I am by no means only about attraction and anti-relationship. I think there's lots of value in intimate relationship. But before we get there, we gotta bang There's a certain order of operations to the mating game.

No, because I am the Truth. End of story.

Of course women keep all of their inner demons locked up in a bottle until the day after you sleep with her. Then that bottle gets uncorked and the drama begins, LOL. Most women are what they called Ronald Reagan, "An authentic phony"

Women are attracted to cocky guys. Stop listening to what women logically tell you they want. The ability to talk endlessly about yourself is crucial. That's what all extroverts know how to do to initiate and sustain conversation. It's not egotistical. "Today I blew out my tire. Then this happened. Then that happened." etc. That's how conversation is made. Yes, that's the catch-22 of it. How do you handle it? Same way you handle getting a job. You slowly build up experience through practice. Even if you are needy, it's not like 0% of women will sleep with you. There will still be 1 in 100 who will. You can also, like, keep your neediness suppressed for a while while you're with a girl. It's not like all of your inner demons need to be worn on your sleeve. She can't know you're needy unless you act needy in front of her. There is an element of fake it till you make it in this process. Same as with getting a job.

Nonduality is not a model or a temporary experience. You're wasting time with this. Stop trying to model nonduality. This an absurdity by definition. A Zen master would slap you across the face at this point because you are lost in your mind and being stubborn about it.

LOL, thanks man.

Telling people to consider that ego is truth is just silliness, though. We are not here to be democratic with the devil. We are here to reach for Truth.

Truth is NOT a model or a description of any kind. You cannot have alternative versions of Truth. Truth is singular and absolute. Nonduality is not a state either. You are not appreciating how radical this thing called "Truth" is. Your mind cannot hold it, it holds your mind.

@Jacobsrw 3.5 grams will be too much. Complete 10 trips at 2 grams first. Doubling from 2g to 4g will quadruple the power. At 4g, mushrooms can seriously mindfuck you. So be cautious.

Lol

Match is part of the process. Of course not every woman will be a match with every man. That's all sorted out in the field. It's not like if a guy has game he can attract/sleep with 100% of women. About 33% of women will love him, 33% of women will hate him, and 33% of women will be indifferent. There's always an element of luck and personalities need to match up. That's why he chats with 10 women, 3 get attracted, 1 comes home. A highly attractive man is actually more polarizing. Some women will absolutely hate him. But those who like him will LOVE him. You also have to keep in mind that not all guys with game are the same. Each guys attracts a specific subset of female personality types. Because game is expressed differently through different personality types. Game is not a specific type of guy, it's general principles of attractiveness which are incarnated uniquely by each guy, attracting different kinds of women. For example, humor is going to vary from guy to guy. Guys can have very different senses and styles of humor. But learning the general principles of humor will help every guy, no matter what his style of humor is. And all girls love some style of humor. Humor can be dry, witty, intellectual, sexual, subdued, bold, sarcastic, self-deprecating, dark, physical, nerdy, etc.

That's such a huge topic. Here's a few things quickly off the top of my head: Laser eye contact Learning to create a genuine smile on a dime Firm, commanding tone of voice. Slowing down your rate of speech. Being relaxed and at ease in your body when talking Simply lots of socialization and conversation experience (doesn't even have to be with women). The stuff I talk about in my video: How To Be Funny The ability to talk about yourself endlessly. Dressing sharp. Get all of your clothing tailored for slim fit. Groom yourself well. Upgrade your whole wardrobe to be stylish. Develop a sense of style that suits you. The ability to be playful and laugh at yourself and life Handle your sexual neediness so that you aren't sexually needy Develop charisma -- I have a good book about charisma on my book list. Passion for life. You must be building an awesome life for yourself aside from girls/sex/relationship. The girl should be the least important part of your life. Your life should be so awesome that anyone who comes into contact with you would feel lucky. You must be in love with yourself and your life. Self-Love. Accept yourself as you are, completely. Be thrilled to be you. Treat yourself as God's gift to the world and to women. You feel the pain of it fully. You cry. You pull your hair out. Some nights I had such failure that I literally drove home crying. And that's what made me stronger. The suffering grows you. Read the book Mastery by George Leonard.

Of course most guys doing game are Orange, and some even Red. I've known guys who do game who are flat out rapists with pending legal cases against them. But this is rare. Most guys are Orange. Yes, many guys objectify women and sex. But you also have to understand, this is not a function of game itself, this is simply how most guys today think about sex. A stage Orange man will objectify women whether he learns game or not. Russell Brand used to be heroin addict. So, yeah, people grow. Trump's "locker room talk"? Honestly, lots of guys talk that way behind closed doors. That's excessive Orange mentality. It's just hidden. You have too appreciate that pickup brings up into the open what has been repressed and hidden for centuries. Stage Blue repressed sex so much for so long that stage Orange swings in the opposite direction. There is still a social stigma about being open about the reality of dating and sex. Dating can be ruthless. Not just from the man's side from the woman's side too. Women are not angels in all this. They too are constantly manipulating to meet their survival needs.

You are unwittingly condemning men to stay losers. Become a charming man is not something that happens naturally for most guys due to poor social conditioning. Becoming a man takes work! Being shy, unsociable, self-conscious, meek, fearful, angry, bitter, lonely, needy, inarticulate, poor at physical touch, bad sense of humor, etc -- these are not natural. This is the result of bad upbringing and lack of training. It doesn't matter what source the man got his charm from. If he's charming, he's charming. That's real and girls respond accordingly because they don't care about the backstory of how he became charming.

This is what true game looks like: Watch as he charms Mika's panties off. She cannot resist him. Precisely because he's so authentic. You cannot fake that kind of charm. Pickup teaches how to become that kind of man.

Just go on Yelp. You guys make this so hard when it is so easy.

My experience of my sexuality differs from this. Though I could see how it would work on women who don't have a very strong intuition or boundaries or who are just lonely... which probably describes like 25% of women. So, it's a sizable enough minority to find a sexual partner as a man. But I don't think this is typical. It's certainly not logical. But usually the guy is someone I have either a platonic friendship with or an acquaintance relationship to. And it isn't based on looks or any other specific trait. But the draw is curiosity about his energy at a distance. It's always the question of whether or not the guy is interested and the wondering of what's happening in his mind. So, it is introversion and nonchalance and lack of clear interest that attracts me along with his general energy. Not 25% of women. 100% of heterosexual women. What you describe in your 2nd paragraph: the vibe, the energy, the nonchalance... that's exactly what game is. You are thinking of game as a set of tricks men use to maniuplate women to sleep with them. But that's not real game, that's crap game. Real game is a man simply behaving in a strong, authentic, masculine way which generates a really charming vibe that girls cannot resist. The charm isn't fake, it's real! The woman gets attracted not because she is verbally tricked, but because the guy is actually being an awesome guy to his bones. Imagine your dream guy: strong, bold, charming, smooth, natural, funny, cool, exuding masculine vibe. That's what pickup trains a guy how to be. And once a guy becomes that way, every girl wants to marry him. The trick is, once a guy becomes that way he has so many options that he may not want to get married to any one girl. And thus a player is born. Despite what they say, girls love players. She simply wants to lock him down for herself. That is the real issue. Girls struggle with players because they are hard to lock down. In other words, sex is a marketplace and girls do not want to admit that.

Excellent! Great work. Yes, a long mushroom session can result in a headache. It passes in a day or so. You only strached the surface. The non-personal existential questions are when things get interesting.

Of course psychics are real. The doubt itself is silly if you have sufficient experience working with them. What's fake is the materialist denial of psychics. Materialism is a joke.

Good work. Keep at it.

It is far more radical than that. Truth includes static and dynamic, and an infinite number of other possibilities. It is Infinity.

Infinity cannot be explained. Period. The mistake is trying to explain it. All explanations are finite, relative, and incomplete. It's all pure imagination.