Leo Gura

Because it's really important to realize the brain is imaginary. This is a game-changer insight. Don't be scared of a little paradox with your self-actualizin'

Your paradigm is not different. You're just fooling yourself. Contemplate this: Why don't you want to wake up with a homeless guy in your bed? According to your paradigm, he is wonderful and attractive. You forget this. You keep trying to reduce this discussion to physical appearance. But it is not about merely that. It is about the ENTIRE package. A pig is not merely an ugly person. A pig is the ENTIRE package being ugly -- inside too.

Well, if you want to wake up to a pig by your side every night, no one will stop you High value is not just about sexual appeal or physical appearance. It's the entire value proposition of being in relationship with someone else. Contemplate this: The only reason you relate with anyone is to get value out of them. What that value is, will vary. It could be sex, companionship, intimacy, someone to talk to, happiness, peace of mind, security, money, love, children, a house, or whatever. All of that is value. If you wanted no value, you would not relate in the first place. So don't act like you don't want it. Clearly you do. You want a whole bunch of things from that person. Things you don't even consciously know about. Being in a relationship is not charity work. You are hoping to extract value from it. And as soon as you stop getting the value you expected, you will break it off to find it elsewhere.

This is not true. And stop framing this as "tricks" to get in a girls panties. Proper game is about becoming a legitimately more attractive and higher value guy. It is not fake. It is real. The confidence and humor developed through pickup is REAL. And it will be respected and appreciated. Today I am genuinely much more attractive than I used to be. Because of the development work I did. And any woman who sleeps with me will benefit from that. It's not some trick I'm running on her.

There are many factors that go into being "high value". You don't need to check every box to get a girl. But the more boxes you check the higher value girl you'll be able to attract and keep. Edgy means saying and acting is slightly outrageous ways. Edginess spikes the woman's emotions and makes her feel alive and adventurous. An edgy guy keeps the woman's emotions stimulated by saying and doing bold and unusual things. This is what creates that classic "bad boy" vibe. It is not necessary to get a girl. But it can be highly attractive, especially to very hot, very feminine girls. Nothing in game is ever necessary. You can get a girl by being a total fool just through pure luck. But game is all about maximizing your value and odds.

It's not about testing men. If you feel attracted to a man in the first place, THAT is already the test.

@Enlightenment Thanks for sharing. Great video. It aligned with many things I have experienced with my own health. If you struggle with concentration problems, brain fog, fatigue, ADD, autism, inability to meditate, crazy monkey mind, etc. -- that's a good sign you might have heavy metal toxicity and you need to get it fixed before attempting any serious consciousness work. Consciousness work is basically impossible without a properly functioning brain. Which is what most gurus never tell you.

You probably are picky, but it's all subconscious.

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Find a better girl. It's not about the cheating potential. That girl is gonna have so many emotional problems. You don't just walk away from being a prostitute without serious trauma. Even dating a stripper is a huge red flag. She's gonna be nuts. Given how many nice girls are out there, why on earth would you settle for an ex-prostitute? It shows you have low value and can't get anything better. Unless you want to do charity work here. Then by all means, go for it.

Yes indeed. Not dramatic. It is actually good that women are picky. It encourages the man to be stronger. This gives men an incentive for self-improvement. The solution for men is not to wish that women were less picky, but to wish oneself to be stronger. And actualize it. The problem with Incels is that they don't want to transform themselves, so they whine about women being too picky.

Like I said, it all depends upon your standards. If you have low standards you can go develop a deep intimate relationship with a crack whore or a hunchback. But who are we kidding? We want the best we can get. You don't need to go crazy with maximizing sexual value. But your mind IS maximizing it to some degree, whether you know it or not. Feelings of attraction ARE the maximization process at work. It is not a logical process, it is all handled subconsciously by your mind and all you know about it is the feelings of attraction and arousal. When you feel aroused by another person, that's your mind telling you: "ALERT! ALERT! ALERT! HIGH SEXUAL VALUE DETECTED! HIGH SEXUAL VALUE DETECTED! CAPITALIZE ON THIS IMMEDIATELY! DO NOT IGNORE!" And your ego-mind says, "I love that person for who they really are. I'm so loving. This is true love." It's all self-biased bullshit. A delicious hallucination.

Ego

@Dario1995 Count how many times you said "I", "me", and "mine" in your post. That's ego

The context of this conversion was sleeping with a Leonardo De Caprio style guy. The female equivalent of which is a supermodel. I personally have no interest in chasing down supermodels. I don't even go for 10s because they are not worth the hassle.

I didn't say it was. I gave you an analogy so that this issue would be easy to understand.

There is actual win-win, and then there's talk of win-win which actually benefits one party a lot more. Orange TALKS win-win while bending the other guy over.

Getting raped, for one. You as a guy don't even think about getting raped. But women have to spend their whole lives worrying about it.

A supermodel is a lot more than just a hot girl. She has fame, status, and millions of dollars. Yeah, I could bang a hot nobody girl. But landing an actual supermodel is a very different matter. She's not gonna date a guy who's not at least a millionaire. Celebrity dating is a whole nother league, son. BTW, I once went on a date with the 75th top ranked Russian pro tennis star. She was buying BMWs with cash and she was smoking hot. Her body was incredible. But we didn't get along so I never got the chance to sleep with her. But I got real close. If our personalities were more aligned it would have happened. So yeah, even a guy with my looks can attract hot girls. But it requires game. It ain't gonna happen "naturally".

He has the lowest approval rating of any US president.

Nah... women will always downplay their numbers because it increases your value. Your friend who fucked 55 dudes will never tell that to her future husband. So why are you rebuking me for the cock carousel? There it is. I totally get that. Men and women both struggle, just in asymmetrical ways. That's my whole point. Neither side has it easy. I'm all for it. I promote conscious relationships. But I am also realistic about how survival works. Statiatical surveys show that women consistently downplay their number of sexual partners, just as guys upplay theirs. Don't take it personal. I didn't slut-shame anyone here. I merely said I won't blindly trust a woman's self-reported numbers. I'm not a fool. Women play games too. Your game is playing coy. Haha! And how do I deal with the fact that I wasn't born with a foot-long cock and a perfectly muscular body that would allow me to be a world-class porn star? You can raise your value but only so far. Genetics is a big factor. You ain't ever gonna land Leonardo De Caprio. Just like I will never land a supermodel. Tough titty. But here's the silver lining: you can find someone near your level of sexual value. You deal with it by loving who you are regardless of who you are.

@SamC Of the same reason you don't give a damn about the challenges girls face in finding quality mating partners. Both ya'll are selfish, but don't understand it, but blame the other for being selfish.

Fundamentally I just refuse to believe that a majority of people like what has been happening over the last 4 years. I think most people understand it was shitty and the wrong direction and Trump is to blame. I trust that more than any individual poll.

At this point I am predicting a Biden landside.

No one is talking about taking away their voice. But they should not have a disproportionate voice as they do now. It is absurd that somehow rural areas are special and need more of a voice. Every person gets one vote. Just because your village is in the middle of nowhere does not entitle you to more voice. Your village matters less than NYC because it has 1000 times fewer people. It's not villages who vote, but people.