Leo Gura

Because I have higher values. Could. But in practice isn't. Sure, you value that stuff. But you also have deep female attraction for strength, confidence, charisma, leadership, boldness, assertiveness, masculine energy, charm, wit, humor, status, authority, success, etc. And it is predominately this which will make you sleep with a guy, not your lofty spiritual values. Attraction happens on a lower animal level.

My position on climate change is not rooted in systems thinking, but something much higher: the intelligent design of the entire Universe. Systems thinking will not get you the vision necessary to see the big picture of humanity. You really need to awaken to the Infinite Intelligence which is running the whole game. There are no mistakes. So there's ultimately nothing to worry about.

Obviously pursuing success will interfere with deconstructing reality. Which is why monks don't pursue success. Figure out what you want to do in which order. Success usually requires A LOT of manipulation and illusion. The pursuit of truth vs the pursuit of success are very different things.

Myopia

"PUA tactics" are not based in language. My PUA friend would pickup foreign girls in Vegas using Google translate on his phone. A guy who knows what he's doing can pickup a girl without talking at all. Try it sometimes. Go out and pretend like you lost your voice and try to sleep with a girl without saying a single word. You might be shocked at how effective it is. The words said in pickup hardly matter at all other than for handling logistics.

@Valach In this case you want to proactively work on diving into the intimacy. Build it up to crazy levels. Turn that into a game. Lead her into deep intimacy and consciousness.

@trenton Maybe you should check my blog sometime.

WTF? Banned Take your BS to 4chan or the like.

@FlyingLotus You do some heavy lifting around here

Yup, cause a real man knows how to lead and takes what he wants. And that is precisely what's attractive. Women want to be wanted and led. Just don't be creepy or rapey about it. Be a gentlemen. But take it!

In practice none of these timeframes are an issue. All a guy has to do is build enough attraction and rapport, and lead, and majority of girls will have sex within 2-3 dates. It's not about time, it's about the chemistry that is built. If you suck at building chemistry it might take you a month. If you're good at it, it will take you 4 hours. No girl is sitting around counting the hours. All she's going on is emotions and chemistry. So whenever you get that right, you got her. And if you never get it right, you will never get her no matter how nice you are to her or how long you take.

I never found them that interesting to begin with. It's just a step towards something deeper.

Pathetic If a guy needs a year to woo a girl he's less attractive then a homeless hunchback. 1-2 weeks of wooing max, and that's assuming a bunch of logistical obstacles.

Of course you should screen guys so they aren't just charming scrubs. You're not telling me anything new. And guys need a blowjob. So what? The world doesn't revolve around your needs. How would you feel if I kept telling you I need a blowjob? You'd rightly call me selfish. They work more than you dare admit. It's not about tactics, it's about becoming an genuinely more attractive, higher value guy. You keep framing this as fakery, but I'm talking about honest signals, not fakery. Transforming oneself into a high value man. Of course. But all else being equal, you will go for the juiciest looking peace of meat. You absolutely will judge a book by its cover. A homeless hunchback can also be low relationship material, and you know that. You are not going to give a homeless hunchback the benefit of the doubt. Because you aren't stupid.

Hello! There's your value. A charming homeless guy will get more pussy than a nerd doctor. Because women value emotional stimulation over everything else.

Mankind has survived far worse with far less technical capability. There is no reason at all why mankind cannot simply suck all the CO2 out of the atomsphere. It's merely a question of the political will to do so. And as suffering increases political will will increase. We can make the temperature whatever we want on this planet. You should be more worried about an asteroid strike. Now that would really fuck us up. P.S. We can genetically engineer bananas more delicious than you can imagine. Don't be so myopic.

There are very clear common factors of value for men and women. It's not hard to figure them out. You are not going to value a homeless hunchback as much as a 6ft tall NFL player with a $10 million home. You can pretend like your values are all unique and special as a snowflake, but it's super easy to predict what the majority of women value in a guy. You ladies are as predictable as robots in most cases. And that is because a woman's survival needs are pretty consistent for all women. Same is true of men.

It will auto-correct itself. That's how suffering works.

It's not as clear as you assume.

This is the opposite of true.

No. I had no clue spirituality even existed back then. My vision was simply about living a passionate material life. That is an illusion I have disabused myself of. I exist forever. Everything is literally awesome. A fork is awesome. You just have to stop taking it for granted. The highest beauty is beyond human life.

The average guy is so lonely and desperate that he will be happy to get any girl at all. The higher value guy you want to land, the higher his standards will be, the harder it will be lock him down, the more insecure you will feel around him. BTW, the same is true with high value girls, so spare me your tears. High value has a price.

If people want to demonize me, they already have plenty to work with. I am not going to alter my work to please trolls who would demonize me anyway.

It's ALL Love. The survival games are Love.

I keep telling you it's Infinite Love. Not sure how much clearer I could be. All I teach is Love. If you consider that dark, that's something about you.