Leo Gura

"PUA tactics" are not based in language. My PUA friend would pickup foreign girls in Vegas using Google translate on his phone. A guy who knows what he's doing can pickup a girl without talking at all. Try it sometimes. Go out and pretend like you lost your voice and try to sleep with a girl without saying a single word. You might be shocked at how effective it is. The words said in pickup hardly matter at all other than for handling logistics.

@Valach In this case you want to proactively work on diving into the intimacy. Build it up to crazy levels. Turn that into a game. Lead her into deep intimacy and consciousness.

@trenton Maybe you should check my blog sometime.

WTF? Banned Take your BS to 4chan or the like.

@FlyingLotus You do some heavy lifting around here

Yup, cause a real man knows how to lead and takes what he wants. And that is precisely what's attractive. Women want to be wanted and led. Just don't be creepy or rapey about it. Be a gentlemen. But take it!

In practice none of these timeframes are an issue. All a guy has to do is build enough attraction and rapport, and lead, and majority of girls will have sex within 2-3 dates. It's not about time, it's about the chemistry that is built. If you suck at building chemistry it might take you a month. If you're good at it, it will take you 4 hours. No girl is sitting around counting the hours. All she's going on is emotions and chemistry. So whenever you get that right, you got her. And if you never get it right, you will never get her no matter how nice you are to her or how long you take.

I never found them that interesting to begin with. It's just a step towards something deeper.

Pathetic If a guy needs a year to woo a girl he's less attractive then a homeless hunchback. 1-2 weeks of wooing max, and that's assuming a bunch of logistical obstacles.

Of course you should screen guys so they aren't just charming scrubs. You're not telling me anything new. And guys need a blowjob. So what? The world doesn't revolve around your needs. How would you feel if I kept telling you I need a blowjob? You'd rightly call me selfish. They work more than you dare admit. It's not about tactics, it's about becoming an genuinely more attractive, higher value guy. You keep framing this as fakery, but I'm talking about honest signals, not fakery. Transforming oneself into a high value man. Of course. But all else being equal, you will go for the juiciest looking peace of meat. You absolutely will judge a book by its cover. A homeless hunchback can also be low relationship material, and you know that. You are not going to give a homeless hunchback the benefit of the doubt. Because you aren't stupid.

Hello! There's your value. A charming homeless guy will get more pussy than a nerd doctor. Because women value emotional stimulation over everything else.

Mankind has survived far worse with far less technical capability. There is no reason at all why mankind cannot simply suck all the CO2 out of the atomsphere. It's merely a question of the political will to do so. And as suffering increases political will will increase. We can make the temperature whatever we want on this planet. You should be more worried about an asteroid strike. Now that would really fuck us up. P.S. We can genetically engineer bananas more delicious than you can imagine. Don't be so myopic.

There are very clear common factors of value for men and women. It's not hard to figure them out. You are not going to value a homeless hunchback as much as a 6ft tall NFL player with a $10 million home. You can pretend like your values are all unique and special as a snowflake, but it's super easy to predict what the majority of women value in a guy. You ladies are as predictable as robots in most cases. And that is because a woman's survival needs are pretty consistent for all women. Same is true of men.

It will auto-correct itself. That's how suffering works.

It's not as clear as you assume.

This is the opposite of true.

No. I had no clue spirituality even existed back then. My vision was simply about living a passionate material life. That is an illusion I have disabused myself of. I exist forever. Everything is literally awesome. A fork is awesome. You just have to stop taking it for granted. The highest beauty is beyond human life.

The average guy is so lonely and desperate that he will be happy to get any girl at all. The higher value guy you want to land, the higher his standards will be, the harder it will be lock him down, the more insecure you will feel around him. BTW, the same is true with high value girls, so spare me your tears. High value has a price.

If people want to demonize me, they already have plenty to work with. I am not going to alter my work to please trolls who would demonize me anyway.

It's ALL Love. The survival games are Love.

I keep telling you it's Infinite Love. Not sure how much clearer I could be. All I teach is Love. If you consider that dark, that's something about you.

But you can't "make love" if you cannot even get a casual hookup.

Do whatever you want but I ain't waiting a month to have sex. This does not hinder my ability to have a relationship. The thing is, strong successful men don't wait around for things. They see a thing and act on it immediately. This comes with the territory of being effective in the world. If a man is willing to wait a month to fuck you, this is not a guy you should be fucking. This is a lame beta guy who has no idea how to lead. A real man is clear about what he wants and is very proactive about it. Women find this highly attractive. Because this is how shit gets done in the world. This is how success is made. This is how wars are won. This is how empires are built. This is how rockets are launched. This is how fires are put out. This is how lives are saved.

You must learn to appreciate the bitter-sweet nature and intelligence behind survival. Survival is not just some dirty, stupid process that we must eliminate. Survival is the thing that keeps you alive and there is a deep intelligence behind it. Without survival you could not awaken. All of spirituality is predicated on successful survival. You can't attend a meditation retreat or read an Eckhart Tolle book or watch an Actualized video if you're dead.

Of course. That comes automatically for me.