Leo Gura

Yes Which is why I say try to minimize attachment and investment. You will never reach the ideal of zero, otherwise you'd be dead. Don't be a perfectionist. Just do your best. Make baby improvements. You don't need to hit perfection to have a great life.

@BlackPhil You are correct that even though the ultimate destination is Infinite Love/Godhead, that does not necessarily mean that everyone will go there directly. There could be many longer paths. It really depends on how conscious one is. At the highest level of consciousness death simply does not exist and it never even happens. But at lower levels of consciousness it seems to happen and it could be followed by other dreams. So in practice not everyone who "dies" goes to Absolute Infinity. They might go down some rabbit hole of consciousness. And the rabbit holes of consciousness could be infinite in number.

Best way I have found is to share news stories of people dying or suffering horribly from Covid. Once they see/hear enough of the horror stories their mind may come around. Anti-vaxxers are fear-based people usually, so the best way to motivate them is with even more fear that hits them straight in the balls. Another good way is to hit them in the wallet. Tell them that an average Covid hospitalization bill is about $20,000 in the US. It's financially idiotic not to get vaccinated.

@ertopolice Whenever you get needy, you usually get burned. Fundamental principle of life. Doesn't just apply to dating. Excessive attachment always ends in suffering. The key to easy dating is to not get invested until sex. Keep your investment as close to zero as possible.

The human mind is complicated and fuzzy. Nothing is 100% in this domain. You can't attract 100% of women simply because most of them are already fucking someone else. And you are very shy of all those qualities. If you had all those qualities and you were around single women, you would attract so many of them you wouldn't have enough time to fuck them all. This is question begging because you already assume attraction with the concept "attractive woman". If a woman gets wet for an attractive man, she's also going to get wet for every other attractive man. The only difference is what counts as "attractive" for men and for women. Until the point where the woman gets attached to you, her mind does not care about you as a person. You are disposable to her and any other guy of similar sexual value will do. Once she's attached, then she will only want you. But this happens after the fact, after sex.

The singularity is you. Don't look for the singularity within the finite contents of your dream.

Of course that's tricky. He might have even repressed it from himself. He's probably just not conscious of it himself. He's probably confused, frustrated, and stuck in his logical head. Basically you need to probe deeper into the psychological underpinnings of his views of sex and women. Why is he paranoid? What has him so uptight that he is unable to take sex easy and enjoy it? Why is he so controlling? Why is he so stuck in his head? Why can't he let the past go? You can delicately probe these issues with him over time. There will probably be buried fear, anger, regret, and hurt.

Women are also attracted to very predictable things like humor, confidence, leadership, status, vocal tone, eye contact, etc. Which is why game works on women so well. Your attraction is not as special as you think. It's just that the female mind subjectivizes the attraction as something super special and exclusive for that one guy. But the truth is, it could have been any guy similar to him. The uniquness of the guy is irrelevant. Of course the woman will tell herself otherwise.

A) Hannity is not an acceptable source for anything but comedy. B) That user was banned not for that one case but because he consistently speaks from that kind of ideological right-wing stance. I am not going to be dealing with his ideological posts all year. This is not the right forum for him. On this forum I expect some intellectual rigor and epistemic self-awareness. I don't care if someone has conservative views, but they need to be presented in an intellectually honest and fact-based way, and your sources better not be Fox News or the like.

@Nahm Your communications are oddly confusing and vague at times. Might want to self-reflect about that, since the point of communication is clarity. If your communication leaves Leo scratching his head, you probably got some work to do in the communication department

Men think with their dicks. Not exactly objective. The dick has a feeling of its own.

Keep in mind this dude may have hidden trauma he has not even told you about. Like maybe he was molested as a kid or whatever. People will often hide their deepest wounds or make up cover stories. So you may be dealing with a guy who's more broken than you realize. You gotta sniff out the real root cause. Something here doesn't smell right to my nose. A guy not cumming because of an ancient divorce? Doesn't smell right.

Don't post Fox News propaganda on this forum as if it is something intellectually honest. Banned

Stop comparing yourself to a worldclass yogi. You might as well compare yourself to a kangaroo.

It is not the objective of my work to be most practical. If that was my goal I would build a toilet paper factory.

Tread carefully or you will soon be banned.

Tyranny!

Ahahahahahahaha.....

Here's your cost-benefit analysis: Zero Covid deaths in Iceland

The right partner is all about values alignment. Know your core values and quickly figure out her's. There should be a significant overlap in values otherwise your relationship has no chance. Spiral Dynamics is helpful here. She must be close your stage.

Of course Of course Not only is it not enjoyable, it's deeply frustrating and even physically painful. Of course they lied to you. If you want a reliable way to piss a man off, get him really hard and then just walk away.

Obviously this guy has some serious trauma or psychic baggage that he needs to work through. You're not going to fix that with any simple mechanical method. The only thing that will fix him is something like therapy and a deep commitment from himself to heal his wounds. You're not going to do that for him.

God could do anything. The question is, why would it do it? What is the point? If you were infinitely conscious the only thing you would be interested in doing is being totally selfless and loving. You would have need or desire for personal pleasure. The only reason you care about endless pleasure is because you're not infinitely consciousness and you're selfish.

It is too profound to speak.

Vasectomies can be reversed. You can try making him cum with your hands/mouth. Maybe he will feel more safe that way. Or tell him to jerk off on you. It does for guys.