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Everything posted by Leo Gura
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The framework is: go out and talk to girls, flirt, and bring them home.
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Locking this because it's not leading anywhere positive.
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Cause you are a selfish bastard
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Leo Gura replied to LfcCharlie4's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
The point of life is express love ever deeper until it kills you. It couldn't be simpler. -
You will not learn game from a book.
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Leo Gura replied to charlie cho's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Do whatever the fuck you want. God will not be offended. -
That is what I did for 6 years. It's not some lifetime guarantee.
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What you define as "toxic" is based on your relative survival agenda. If I see people here being disrepsectful to women they will be issued warnings. But not wanting to pay your bills when you go broke is not disrespectful of women, Lol.
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Don't worry, pimply incels are too busy hating women online to learn any game. Ironically you are feeding incel stereotypes of women only wanting to sleep with rich guys. I am saying the opposite. I don't use money to get women. No need for that.
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Don't post while high.
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@somegirl I am not saying he is above you. It just sounds like he's not that into you, or he has terrible game.
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All of progressivism is unpragmatic. That's sorta the point. If progressivism was pragmatic it would be centrism and status quo. Status quo is what is most pragmatic at any given point.
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Reality is ONE. All the orders are illusory. You are seeing reality as it absolutely is at all times. It's everything you see, exactly as it appears, with nothing behind it. Stop trying to ground reality in anything else. Everything is itself. A=A
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There was never a promise to update every year. The promise was that if I ever do an update it will be free for those who purchased the list. I have done 10 free updates over the years. so I feel like I have over-delivered on that promise.
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Leo Gura replied to 8Ball's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Well, many people here have actually taken 5-MeO-DMT since I talked about it, and they have directly experienced Infinity. Of course others are bullshitting or just conceptualizing. Obviously after I talk about a new topic it will become hot for a while. How could it be otherwise? The first step is for folks to just become conceptually familiar with the topic. This alone can take months. You can't just go from hearing about Infinity for the first time to experiencing Infinity within a week. There is a lot of conceptual understanding that needs to take place. -
The mechanism: You fear Truth and you fear Love because both will annihilate you in the end.
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Your touching needs to be calibrated to her mood and receptivity. If you touch her shoulder and she gives you a cold look, that tells you to not escalate any further unless you first make her more comfortable. All physical escalation needs to put a smile on her face. If you are escalating and she's not smiling, you're out of touch and this will quickly creep her out. You need to watch her face at all times to know what she's feeling and how into you she is. If there is no chemistry physical escalation will not work. There has to be a foundation of attraction and chemistry.
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@somegirl Everyone wants someone with higher reproductive value than themselves. It's just selfishness 101. You want the best deal you can get. When someone's reproductive value is lower than yours, you don't find that person attractive. That's what attractive means: someone who's a good deal for you. The reason you don't find a homeless bum attractive is because he's obviously a bad deal for you. You think you can get better. We all do this.
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Well, maybe that's cause you don't got serious game. Of course I am talking about MEN. For women my game advice does not apply. I am not here teaching game to women.
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@JTL Your problem was that you didn't build enough rapport with her first. In a dating situation you gotta build rapport and comfort, then start going for kisses and things. She told you exactly what you did wrong: "we barely knew each other".
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Kissing is not always gonna lead to sex. It's totally fine to kiss and even heavy makeout without sex on the same night. Realistically many girls will not sleep with you on 1st date. But kissing on a first date is pretty much mandatory in my book if there is chemistry. No girl will have a problem with that. Of course it's more effective to have sex with her as soon as possible because she has no loyalty or investment in your before sex. She's gonna waste a lot of your time the longer you take to close. But you shouldn't be too pushy or thirsty about it. You have to accept the reality that sex on the first date will often not happen for whatever reasons, many of which could simply be logistical. You don't need to close just because you kissed a girl. Relax. Just don't make her feel slutty or cheap. That's the key. There are several reasons: 1) It develops her trust in you as the leader. She needs to get comfortable following your lead. So the more you can lead her the better. 2) It tests how compliant/invested she is in you. If she's not following your lead, that's your clue it's not going well. 3) The more locations you bounce her to, the more she will feel like she has known you for a long time. It makes 1 date feel like 3 dates. Which means things will move along faster. Why waste time doing 3 dates when you can do one date in 3 locations and get the same effect? 4) And of course eventually you have to lead her to the bedroom. When that opportunity arises she has to feel totally comfortable about following you into the bedroom. If you just try to go from a sit down date to your bedroom that is gonna feel too abrupt and awkward and she will likely not follow. You want to make the transitions as smooth and natural as possible so there is no awkwardness.
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If you want to date a provider guy, be my guest. But I will not mold into your frame. My love and presence is more than enough. I don't need to be your provider. It's amusing the game you play: "Leo, you must be a provider guy otherwise you are unloving and you will never have a good relationship. And you suck." See the game you play? How convenient that your view perfectly aligns with your survival agenda.
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So you're saying... "I'm not fired, I quit!" What you ladies don't understand is that you're sitting here on a forum logically analyzing who you would date or sleep with. But in real life your sexual arousal has nothing to do with logic. Don't get upset at me for not meeting your financial needs. I don't like to mix finances with love. Ask yourself why you want that. You say I don't embody love, but I don't see buying you stuff as necessary for love.
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And what about the homeless in your city? Why don't you go marry one of them and take care of them? A relationship is not charity work. I have no interest in dating a broke and helpless girl. She is not worthy of dating me given how hard I work on myself. It's probably possible but you gotta offer a lot of value in the non-social areas. Great game and great sex will open many doors. But also long-term you two may not be a grear match. Sex is one thing, long-term relationship compatibility is another. Sex-wise you can basically sleep with any girl if your game is good enough.
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It's just a rough estimate. Maybe you can increase it to 20% or 30%. What you're not realizing is that 10% is a lot and more than enough.