Leo Gura

Apparently in this case we really don't have a law against being trigger happy and killing people. It's not hard for a trigger happy right-wing gun-nut to go to public places with a rifle and spark a "self-defense" situation. And our gun laws are questionable.

@Kant I'm not questioning your orgasm. I'm just saying it's a form of masturbation.

The mind tends to function in different modes or states. Logical state is one thing, spiritual state is another thing, and emotional party state is very different from that. You have to learn to set aside the logical state and the spiritual state and just go into a sort of animalistic dumb party state, where you party and dance like a drunk fool (minus the drinking). That can be tricky to do if you spend 95% of your time in the logical and spiritual states.

@mmKay It's not even enough to smile, you need a flirty, sly, sexually-suggestive smirk and brightly glowing eyes when you approach a girl, and even while you're chatting her up. Really get up in her face with your powerful sexy smile. Radiate passion and charisma with your face. This alone will get you laid if you nail it down solid. It's worth practicing for months on end. Really dial in your smirk and your eyes. You need to look at her very powerfully but cheekily. Cut that dead-pan face. Never talk to a girl that way again. You need to be hypnotizing her with your smirk and eyes. She should feel shy looking in your eyes because it's too sexually intense. But not rapist eyes, your face has to be playful. Your face must exude sex and playfulness at the same time. Work on that. If you miss the playfulness you will come off as a rapist or serial killer and she will be scared and creeped out. Radiate an easy-going, happy passion.

@ted73104 There's not really a difference between real vs illusion. Illusion is the only reality there can be. Life is a dream, from which you can wake up. But also, you're still always dreaming, stuck dreaming forever. It's very important to wake up from the dream at least once, so you stop taking it too seriously.

In practice advanced people are not so flexible. There are tradeoffs for being advanced. Personally it takes me a lot of work to act stupid. I can do it, but it's not my forte.

Even if this is true it will not be a reliable cure. For some people it will send them into schizophrenia. So what's necessary is to find out which kind of person you are. It's too dangerous to take high doses and just assume that everything will improve for you.

Ego cannot create whatever it wants. Manipulation of life is possible but it's limited and creates suffering.

Found a similar study about 5-MeO-DMT: https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fnmol.2018.00312/full

It is not so unreasonable for people to try to bum-rush an apparent active shooter. This is the problem with open-carry when we have active shooter situations every week around the country. If it was up to me, I would design the laws so that if a civilian was seen carrying a firearm in a public setting, police would shoot him on the spot. If a civilian is going to transport a firearm it should be in a locked container. Civilians should not be allowed to walk public streets with rifles. This is ridiculous from a security perspective.

I hate you

But that's just a slight variation on jerking off.

I wouldn't count on it healing your brain. You'd be lucky if it just had a net-zero affect on your health. Something as powerful as DMT having no negative health effects would be a miracle in itself. Remember, your DMT is not 100% pure.

You might be surprised to learn that your Coral has no one to date because all the girls are at the club looking for fun. The dumber you are the easier dating is.

Firstly, it tends to improve simply from going out a lot and talking to girls a lot. Secondly, through building state by approaching all night long. Thirdly, by having fun wings to shit-talk with between sets. Fourthly, by soaking in the club music and atmosphere. Dancing, etc. Fifthly, by brainstorming funny and emotional things to talk about when you're at home. Sixthly, by listening to in-field of night game where the guy is being self-amusing. Analyze how he is being emotional rather than logic. This is key.

Your vibe is off and she feels uncomfortable talking to you. You are probably way too logical, boring, or you can't even hold a conversation. Or you are just uncomfortable in your own body while you stand face to face with her. You are being too socially awkward and you are not creating a fun conversation with her. The solution is be in a better mood/state, be having fun, be comfortable in your body, relax, and have something emotional not logical to talk about. If you run out of shit to say very early in, then of course this will cause most girls to flee just to avoid the awkward silence of you staring at her like a serial killer. If the club is super loud and chaotic, then physical fast can work well. But if you're in a more chill club where girls are just standing around in a circle together and conversation is possible, then you're better off just approaching with verbals only and playing it more chill. You have to match the vibe of the room and the people you're opening.

Of course friends will cockblock you A LOT. You can especially trigger the cockblock by opening physical. If you want the highest chance of success you should learn very solid verbal skills and open less directly, and then also befriend her friends to disarm them. If you just go in hitting hard on a girl in a group, her friend's will usually get alarmed and go into defense mode. In a sense, the most effective game is so subtle and indirect that it slips under the radar, so it looks like just friendly socialization to on-lookers. But it still has that sexual intent behind it between you and her. This kind of game is really challenging to learn in my experience. It takes serious skill. The more you physically escalate in front of all her friends, the more defensive they will usually become. This is the biggest downside of physical game. But of course you can still get away with it in many cases. I have opened girls right in the middle of all her friends and starting grabbing her tits and making out with her within minutes in front of all her friends. It's not the best way to go, but it can certainly work. Sometimes the friends will actually want you to get with her. Some friends are very cool. But some friends will fight you. So watch out. It might also be your vibe. If you have a creepy, awkward vibe then girls will sense it and flee. You have to be smiling a lot, having fun, and adding value to the set. If you enter a set trying to leech value from them, they will not like it and blow you out.

But you're not taking into account that Actualized.org was only possible because I did a lot of manipulation within business & marketing for years beforehand. If I hadn't done that then Actualized.org wouldn't exist. So while it might seem like Leo is above petty business concerns, that's only thanks to the fact that I became financially independent early on through hardcore manipulation. Leo is not above survival. The only difference is that I converted base survival into something higher. And even to this day, I have to care about dumb, petty business concerns because Actualized.org could die as a business any year. Business is a survival activity. It's not so easy. The less I focus on the survival aspect of Actualized.org the less money I earn. I've literally given up millions in potential profits in order to focus more on truth & consciousness. Doing so is not easy. But I'm not interested in such circles. Yes, of course. If I wanted to maximize my truth and consciousness I would not have sex or date at all. And if I wanted to maximize truth and consciousness I would not run a business at all. I would go live in a cave and stop teaching anyone. And maybe some day I will just do that. And then no one will have anything to complain about. To engage in survival is to stoop to a lower level. The trick is finding the right level to stoop to. I have already given up a lot of sex in order to create Actualized.org. However, I have my limits to how much I am willing to give up. In a sense, the amount of sex I gave up to create Actualized.org has left me a bit traumatized.

Well, friends often just grow apart or drop away due to higher priorities elsewhere. Sustaining a deep friendship usually requires constant maintainence work.

It's interesting to read my own words from years ago. I was reacting to a lot of toxic stuff I saw within RSD at the time. Admittedly, it's very tricky balancing between the dysfunctions men run into when they can't get laid vs the dysfunctions of being stuck in stage Orange. I do see pickup as serving a need in men, but it comes with the cost of trapping men in a stage Orange level of development. The thing is, the craving for sex has a way of warping one's entire worldview. And I am not immune to that dynamic. I have realized lately that part of my evolution and self-love involves fulfilling some of those base cravings rather than denying them. The trick is to not get lost in that. It's easy to create rationalizations for pickup and rationalizations against it. From the man's POV, there is a problem that most women are not turned on by high consciousness behavior, there if one wants to attract attractive women one is forced to stoop to a lower level that causes the women to get raw attraction. It's a similar problem to selling high consciousness things to the general population. The general population won't buy it and you might go broke. So there is a very challenging trade-off between sex vs consciousness.

Seems like this is just a tool for inventing more and better drugs

I want his costume!

Tis difficult to live without jerking off either

No girl loves you unless she is sleeping with you. Except maybe your mother or sister. You got major friendzoned. Were you expecting it to get romantic? If so, it failed because you were too needy and soft with her. For a girl to sleep with you she needs to feel like you challenge and dominate her. To be less needy you have to be socializing and flirting with lots of girls on a regular basis so you don't hinge your hopes on any one of them. Then from that situation you can pull a girlfriend. And as you get with more girls you will become less needy. You just need to be around a lot more girls. You're stuck in deep scarcity which makes you extremely needy and repulsive to women. The thing women hate most is neediness and creepiness. You need to change your lifestyle such that more women flow through your life on a regular basis.

Of course your first approaches will be awful. Dude, the embarrassment is all in your head. She forgot about you 60 seconds after you left and on one else knows. She will never think of you again. This line/frame is too needy and clingy. A better frame would be: "Good, you can dance for me." Or if this was a nighttime conversation you could make it more sexual and flirty by saying something like: "I hope at least 1 of those years they taught you how to give a good lap dance ;)" And rather then telling her she must be really good, you flip it around and say, "You must really suck then". Just think of communicating with girls as opposite-land. Everything is the opposite of what it seems. Often times saying the opposite of your gut instinct is the best move. If she tells you she's a dancer, take the opportunity to misinterpret that she is a stripper and tease her on it. And when she says, "I'm not a stripper!" you could tell her something like, "I will teach you and then your dancing will pay for our mortgage ;)" You have to learn to flirt. - - - - - But don't worry about it. For a first approach you did fine. Learning to flirt will take 1000s of approaches.