I just want to be held

[The Redeemer]

I just want to be incubated 

[blankisomeone]

same

[Reciprocality]

What is curious about this phenomena is that there are many different people who would be able to fill this need for us, suggesting that it may be possible to deconstruct the need abstractly.

For if we needed to be held by a particular person it would be more sensible if we could deconstruct the need only materially, by being held by someone else than that particular one, given that this actually works.

 

This need to be held is an ego-centric need, though not therefore something we should deconstruct, even if possible, but that it needs to be US who is held and that whoever holds us is a pure variable shows that whoever would hold us is in a sense a projection of our mind, thus abstract.