My issue with porn and masturbation

[AsafTheMagniv]

1) if I were in your position I would debunk and understand deeply the root of every insecurity you have - it will help you understand your situation much better.

Understand that there are things you can control and there are things you can't control - understand this deeply it will change how you view things

2) I would say no matter what porn you watch if you enjoy it then enjoy it - attraction isn't something you can easily control and there isn't very need for it too - how you react to things are things that you gotta take for your own hand, you are the one piloting this human body and nobody else will change how you think or react to things except you.

there is no need to feel disgusting or bad about any situation, to be attracted to bad or good things is natural.

3) if masturbating affects you do bad things, all you need to do is change it - your fate is controlled by your own hands, how you act, behave and the habits you build are things that you can change always - all you gotta do is take the matter into your own hands, change what you don't about yourself, you are the only one that can change yourself - take responsibility.